Darren Hull is the newest administrator for the Tears for Fears Fan Forum. He took over this group some years ago and renamed it to reflect the goal of this service. In this group you’ll find a crossover from other groups. Discussions on shows, upcoming events, wish lists and a weekly show and share featuring the growing collection of merchandise and souvenirs from past and present shows. Darren provides live videos from concerts, band Q&As as well t-shirts for fans to wear and identify each other at shows. The fan forum also includes a few members of the band.
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Sharron Foxx – Lauren Evans Fan Forum Admin
Sharon Foxx recently joined in the world of administrators creating groups that focus on the band members. Sharron has a lovely group that highlights Lauren Evans and all her work with the band as well as her ongoing success as a musician. We’ll likely have a group Zoom call at some point. No promise of band members and family joining that call. We’re just doing a check in and we’re happy to have a safe place to host it. Thank you Sharron!
Patricia Golding’s Perfect Night at Pryzm
Long Post. * London trip and ***Tears For Fears concert. If you wish to skip either, look for the symbols.
* This trip was quick in the making, albeit a year in the works. A small club concert for the band Tears For Fears sold out over a year ago, but was postponed due to the passing of the Queen. When rescheduled I had fancied trying to get a ticket from someone no longer able to attend. Cue Barbara, a member of a FB group I check in on. She kindly offered me her ticket and I jumped on booking a flight. This was just about 10 days to show day. I bought with points as flights were going for close to $1500 round trip. I booked a cheap room around the corner and Kim assisted in logistics of bus and train travel to and from Heathrow (since I would be in Zone 6). My flight on the 12th actually was waiting at the gate when I got there. Will my travel curse be crushed? While on my phone at the gate, the second of the two gigs in Kingston, at the Pryzm Club, offered up more tickets so I jumped on it and now had both 45 minute sets booked. Luck on my side? The flight was uneventful, I arrived early morning to sunshine and great travel weather on the SL7 bus to Kingston Upon Thames. It was so nice to see the club as I rolled my case to the hotel. It was only 9:30 there so I wandered around. As soon as I could check in I got on the way to the West End of London to visit my old haunts. Being that it was about 23 hours in from the departure of my flight and 12 hrs from waking on Tuesday morning, I had been up a considerable amount of time already. Only about two hours nap on the plane as they had audio of TFF’s newest album, The Tipping Point, on audio. I fell asleep on the train into Waterloo and a nice Japanese passenger woke my at arrival into London. I hoofed it to the National Portrait Gallery for the Paul McCartney photo exhibit there. There were some very insightful photos of Jane Asher, and a few of his bandmates, The Beatles. But mostly my phone was blowing up with the Wifi there, and I got to touch base with my husband at home and let him know travel went well. After that I just wandered the streets of Covent Garden, Carnaby Street, Saville Row and enjoyed a city I have spent an awful lot of time in during my life enjoying music and art. I had some dinner in the city and then knew it was time to get back to the hotel and rest. I had been up clearly more than 48 hrs.
*** Show day. I slept in as I knew it would be a late night. Walking in London yesterday had my legs sore so I set out for some potassium in the form of bananas for breakfast and to mail a postcard to a friend. The light walk was good and no one, as of noon was lining up at the club. Darren, the admin of the Facebook TFF Fan Forum met up with me about 12:30 and we headed the Kings Tun pub across the street from the venue. Over the next hour people started to arrive, have a drink, lunch and just visit. Somewhere in the 1 o’clock hour a line began to form outside Pryzm. I felt the need to join the line, along with another fan. We spent that time to doors at 6:45pm visiting with people from around the globe, sharing music stories and particularly of Tears For Fears. It was a truly pleasant time. I was fortunate later on, before doors, to meet drummer Jamie Wollam, in the pub. He could not be more friendly and so nice to be able to meet. He is such a talent. At doors it was an obstacle course of up two flights of stairs, and then into the venue and down stairs onto the main floor. I went for Roland Orzabal’s side as I was on Curt Smith’s side in North Carolina in July. I found a spot front row between Roland and backing vocalist Carina Round. It would be my first time hearing her, as my other two recent shows we had Lauren Evans on vocals. I truly enjoyed this concert with Carina. I got a kick out of the plethora of 80s tunes being played pre show in the venue. A short Tipping Point song ladened set with some big hits added in totaling 45 minutes was planned. That would be 45 of the best minutes in my concerts history to be added to some incredible concerts I have experienced in my life. The band comes out and plays No Small Thing and Tipping Point. Roland had some witty banter about the last time they played two shows in one evening, and that turned out to be decades earlier, at the beginnings of their careers. Time goes so fast when you are having fun. And when that fun means being so close to a band I have followed for 40+ years that I am sharing oxygen with them it was truly a once in a lifetime experience. These guys still play massive arenas. This opportunity was something I was very proud of myself for jumping on when I got the chance.
Set two meant going outside for the second queue of the day, being further back meant searching out another view, this time on Roland’s side but on a raised portion, beside the stage for an almost profile view of the band. Unfortunately the stage was so small and deep that seeing Doug Petty on keys and Jamie Wollam on drums was a challenge. I did get a few photos of Charleton Pettis on lead guitar to Curt’s side. Amazing to hear the same set repeated and prepare myself for special musical points in songs and some notes being hit by Curt and Roland. They have only become better at what they do over the years. The Tipping Point was definitely helpful to me in getting of the loss of family members. And now seeing this band three times in 2 years has been great fun.
I would like to thank all the people that I met that Thursday. I will not name names for fear of leaving someone out or identifying you when work thought you were out with a cold. But I had the best time and hope to see you again.
* Friday morning, roll out of bed, scrounge for some food (bananas again) and roll on to the SL7 bus stop back to LHR for my midday flight home. Talk with an American woman living in Kingston and Beirut, who sells the wine her husband makes. It certainly passed the time as I was sadly leaving my favorite city in the world, and I have been to quite a few. My flight home again was as planned so my travel curse is officially lifted. My husband picked me up at O’Hare airport. And life as I knew it was back to normal. But I have this in my bucket list of concerts forever. And I am so happy that a year in the making came through with this accomplishment.
Photo credits :Patricia Golding. No authorization to share without her permission.
Tears for Fears’ Terrific Tour is Tipping Fans to the Point of Swooning Superfanitis
From the moderator:
The Superfanitis has been intense these past few days dear friends. This happens after every show and every encounter. I sit down and suddenly it hits me that I just saw the band again. It never seems real. It feels like the Great Higher Power has allowed me to touch a heavenly dimension. I’m often in a daze for weeks afterwards, one time it took a few months to adjust to reality. Thinking back to the first time I saw Tears for Fears, I remember feeling like I was floating above the world. I was having an out of body experience. After a week or so I was literally fighting with reality. I was beyond happy that after all those years of being so focused on them mentally and spiritually I finally had that physical euphoric experience of being in their space – in their presence. It’s a very unique feeling and one that is impossible to forget. It propelled me into a whole other mindset. From that point forward, all I wanted to do was support their shows and be present. After a few more Tears for Fears related events that year, I learned I wasn’t the only one that felt that way. Following one event, several fans were in the parking lot (as I came to see was the custom). These fans already had a list of other Tears for Fears events that were coming up. They said the only way to deal with the post show blues is to stay connected and try to go to anything they host. They showed me a list of what was coming up. “You have to fly back in for it. You must!” I have tried to ever since. Now, we are a solid kerfuffle of fans and aim to help each other get to the band’s events.
Just a few days ago I got a note from Lady KT in Florida. She said, “Hey, you got any extra Tears for Fears tickets? I saw (well known band from the same era) the other night, but I didn’t get the same semi-spiritual experience I get with Tears for Fears.” That says a lot. So many of us feel like that. Other bands are incredible but there’s something about Tears for Fears…it’s an unmatched energy that is hard to explain. One fan noted that she had been a fan for years but this was her first show. She was depressed because she woefully regretted not having seen them sooner.
Sitting Speechless
Because of the overwhelming feeling of bliss and otherworldly energy followed by the thud of a sudden landing back to reality, it’s been harder to keep up with this tour despite the very welcomed days of respite between shows at times where we would collect our thoughts. After the Franklin show, I found myself with one of the toughest cases of superfanitis yet…I had bad headaches and felt so weak I slept for two days the following weekend. As many know, I’m in some serious physical therapy for Lymphedema. I have rehab nurses who help me get around and take me to the shows as it’s the only time I get out except for medical reasons. My nurses have been so overwhelmed with awe and joy of the events this year and last (they come to Soundcheck). Nurse Jennifer from Nash was so impressed with the details of the stage. She walked around the venue throughout the night taking in all the gorgeous views of images displayed for each song. It was truly phenomenal to say the least. This tour has been hard to sum up. How does a band supersede themselves year after year? They are the kings of perfecting their craft. They truly rule the world.
So here we are in the home stretch. The band is literally headed to the great pacific northwest in North America including the wonderful city of Vancouver. We’re beyond excited. Then they’ll head down the West Coast for shows in Sacramento, Palm Springs and of course Los Angeles at the Hollywood Bowl. Soon, we’ll have another year of amazing Tears for Fears shows for the record books. But what does that mean afterwards? For some, it’s simply trying to survive rounds of superfanitis until the next set of shows. It’s real folks. We’ve got receipts!
Stephen Kohlmann is one of the dedicated Tears for Fears Travel Fans that participates in conversations online with fellow fans. His recent post was a clear testament to what it’s like for fans AFTER the show. That aftermath is really something.
He’s not alone. Over 40 posts like these have been floating around in the various groups. One fan has started a practice of meditation and praying because she said she feels an energy leading her to do so. The show is just so cosmic that earth feels uncomfortable and we’re unable to face it. We just want more shows, more events, more time in that beautifully curated space we call a Tears for Fears soundcheck and concert. Serenity now!
Highlights from recent shows
On the Tour page you can find videos that relate to each show. Below are some sentiments and insights gathered from hard core fans as it pertains to some of the historic venues the band played during the tour thus far.
Merch Tips:
A few of us bought every single tshirt and accoutrement. Combined total for each item was in the mid hundreds. Ask for the beach towel first. Most who are buying one of everything have a tendency to also be a part of the VIP Soundcheck. Know that your VIP bag will carry half of all they’ve got available. It’s a huge bag. Bigger in person than in pictures. They also have up to 4XL on some of the shirts. We measured and saw that several shirts went up to 62 inches in circumference.
Madison Square Garden New York
It’s over 100 years old, opening its doors back in 1879 and is named the coolest arena in America. Our darling Cindy “The Concert Chick” represented the very dedicated TFF NYC team with friends in tow. Family and friends of the band were also present and that, in our opinion, made the show extra special. Tears for Fears’ fan base has always been a great mix of men and women appreciating their music and now in the past 10 years the shows are known to include whole families – with second and third generation Tears for Fears fans. The teens and very young grandchildren are singing along word for word. It’s a family holiday to go see them play. That’s huge! The band has acknowledged it as well. They see you out there!
Bethel New York
Home of the historic original Woodstock, this location had several swooning. We were so excited to see this venue on the list for all the reasons a music aficionado can imagine. Legends were born at Woodstock. A new era formed on that soil. That amazing music festival led and helped push for a revolution that included rights for all who step foot in this country. The band is now a part of that history. Tears for Fears’ lyrics and overall message fit right in with the essence of the land.
Toronto Canada
The band finally returned to Toronto after nearly 4+ (they were last there in 2015 or 2017?). Our amazing friend and dedicated die hard fan, Joe G brought his entire family plus friends to the show. He then drove up to Laval, Quebec for the next show! Joe has been coming to the United States for every tour as far back as we can remember. It’s awesome that all he had to do this time was hop in his car! Yay! Finally! Tears for Fears in his backyard!
Toronto is special for many reasons including the city where “Head Over Heels” was filmed. Also, the famous Massey Hall show took place there. Such an amazing city that so many of our fellow fans call home. We hope the band will continue to keep it on the tour list or find a nice spot to set up a weeklong residency.
Raleigh North Carolina, Nashville/Franklin
(From the moderator)
When we hear of the tour we usually get several tickets to shows even if we haven’t booked our plane tickets. In this case, I had planned to ride with my medical team to get treatment the day before and after and then head off to Franklin. But that became impossible. So, I gave my tickets to some dedicated fans in the area including one who had a sick puppy that afternoon. After offering the ticket she noted she wasn’t able to go because of the sick dog. But the suggested pet sitter came to the rescue and she was able to attend what was her very first show AND capture some really cool interactions from the front row. Lisa W. and Roland had a cool convo. So grateful that worked out!
TFF Nash (Franklin)
*This show was recorded for a future DVD. The venue was gorgeous. It was constructed out of a rock quarry. You’ll see it in HD on the DVD.
I first heard Tears for Fears in Tennessee as a toddler. Several of my family members chose East Tennessee as their first stop in America. The band’s music was on rotation on the way to school as well as the faith based international day care center I attended for several years. Returning to the area for this show was a full circle moment. I literally had to stop one of my relatives from coming to the show bearing too many thank you gifts. Huge thanks to Curt, Roland, Lauren, Charlton, Jamie and On the List – they know why. I swear this band just brings me an immense amount of joy and healing. When several relatives returned to our original nation(s), TFF’s music was all I had left to remember those hopeful times. They were a huge part of my every day since age 5/6. This visit to Nashville/Franklin was part of my physical therapy and music therapy program suggested by two of my doctors. To be able to enjoy soundcheck and all the accoutrement that came with it is worth its weight in gold. It is the true lottery ticket. Nothing compares. I lost two inches of inflammation after that show. Now I only have 8 more to go. It was a joy to experience and see signs of improvement in my health while being in the Tears for Fears environment. I look forward to being able to walk again. Sadly the superfanitis hit and I fell into a weird depression like everyone else so now I know that following their events, I need to have rehab lined up so that I can recoup mentally. Crazy but true!
Lady Tamara and Lady Ann were there as were a ton of familiar faces and fans that travel to see the band when they are nearby. Janice Jennings (Alabama), Teresa P (Georgia), Nicole B (Virginia), The Sunflower Sister and so many other familiar faces -most of whom were at the Tampa and Atlanta shows in 2022. Darren from the UK came and so did several patients from various medical facilities. I guess Tears for Fears is part of our medical treatment plan? We are here for it! Their music sure does prompt healing! Shoutout to the lady that flew in from New York (fellow wheelchair user) to be present. She noted how she has been going to shows for years in sickness and in health.
The venue ensured the ADA seating had a great view of the stage. I stayed in my second-row center seat because I already purchased tickets to sit with my friends but had I not, I would have requested a change to the ADA seats. If you’re experiencing any mobility issues, some of these ADA sections aren’t bad at all. At this venue, there was an unobstructed view of the stage and plenty of space to stretch out ailing legs. We can discuss offline if we want to try to sit together next time granted the space is as nice as some of these that have been provided. Very grateful that the world is becoming more accessible for all.
So, here’s to Skittles, Sesame Street minis, car plates and sounding great! #iykyk Huge thanks to Lady Tamara of Nash for all her efforts in ensuring things went extra well that day. Big shoutout to Nurse Jennifer, Vanderbilt Medical team (Kevin from First Bank Amphitheatre ADA and Sam Rivera from Vanderbilt). Gargantuan thanks to the ADA teams and again to OTL for making things so smooth for fans. I hope the band partners with them until retirement! Maybe they’ll handle some of the events in the Tears for Fears retirement community we requested.
Also enjoy this great article from Lady Tamara on her experiences that day! https://bunnylousadventures.com/2023/07/12/no-small-thing/
Kansas City, MO Houston and Austin
There were some hopes that Oleta Adams would show up at this one. Maybe in future? Some haven’t gotten the memo that she has her own band and tours. Not sure she was even in town. Her next stateside show is noted as December (as of now, that could change). Check out her page.
Some fans that were worried they wouldn’t be able to go did indeed get tickets. We’re happy to hear that. We’re also happy that there were interpreters at the show. We hold a special place in our heart for those who sign at Tears for Fears shows. Some of our Travel Team members sign on their own at shows and to see Roland recognise these professionals providing this service is so heartwarming.
The Texas shows were definitely the hottest shows on record with temps soaring into the 100s. A few fans even sold their tickets and bought seats at other shows to avoid that overwhelming heat. But that didn’t stop the band from bringing the house down with an amazing performance. Fans are STILL talking about this show and rightly so… Roland sang happy birthday to a child in the audience wearing her birthday crown.
Tears for Fears fan generated group page admin, Danny Cricks, was there as were several from last year’s Texas shows including travel fans that attended multiple concerts. You know how we are, one tour date is never enough. These travel fans have plans to keep it going by attending a few more this year. Looking forward to seeing them in various cities. Shoutout to Mr. Liguez and his wife for being such dedicated fans and taking their whole families to shows.
Denver Colorado
Fans who participated in the VIP Soundcheck were on edge due to bad weather. No one expected that they’d eventually be led to the side of the stage where they were able to stand and listen to the band right on the very stage they would be performing on later that evening…and what an amazing show it was!
Coming Up Next! Hollywood Bowl!
This is a big deal. As Curt noted on the Psych podcast, the band is excited about it. It’s close to home for many on the team. Many hardcore fans know, this will be a very special concert.
Lots of family, friends and long-time fans who always fly in for the Los Angeles based shows will be there. This venue’s tickets began to vanish pretty quick. Fans had already bought 2/3rds before the band even got out on the road to head to Atlantic City. There are some left so if you plan to attend you will certainly want to buy now and prepare for that event quickly.
Big hugs to all, another birthday hug for Lady FP who celebrated on the 18th of July. Lady Emily’s is in the summer as well. Many happy returns to both! Be on the lookout for the Tears for Fears dolls. They are also on tour and have been seen in various cities along the way.
Enjoy these great Moshe (Moses on a Motorbike) stickers one fan forum member, Lara Olgletree Gautreaux, made! These were gifts she mailed out to fans.
*Thanks for reading – please follow @tearsforfears on FB and TW plus @tearsforfearsmusic on IG for official information. Lookout for @curtsmith on TW for fun tweets and post show online commentary that you won’t forget.
**Fan Fun Online & Core Fan Goals Disclaimer
There are so many different Tears for Fears fan groups and pages online. Some are more focused on the admin’s experiences and some are focused on the band and fans. There’s lots from which to choose. The Tears for Fears Travel Fan team page is dedicated to helping make travel easier for fans. We have a lot of things in place for those that subscribe to our updates and follow us on our social media channels. Our focus is the music and the band. We do not claim “ownership” (e.g. this is x member’s group). We do have dedicated admins and a moderator who remains semi-anonymous though most already know who it is. We aren’t seeking accolades, continuous praise or validation for the work we do behind the scenes to assist others. For us, being a Tears for Fears fan is not a competition. It is not for Olympic glory. When we focus on the gratitude we have for the music Tears for Fears has given us all, it makes fan life a lot easier. We don’t consider Tears for Fears’ fans to be something we try to capture and obtain. The band’s fans belong to the band, not us. If one’s desire is to have a relationship outside of fandom, focus on band aesthetics, compare the band at ages 19-21 to now or focus on things that are far from their music, the travel fan team can’t help you there. Sorry! That’s not our focus. Our goal is to make sure hardcore fans who enjoy the music and being present are able to get the best seat possible and rest well in a 4 star hotel without going broke. We’ll continue to focus on that and nothing else. Thank you for understanding!
Tears for Fears Travel Fan Quarterly Update – Q2 Includes Curt’s Birthday
As promised, we made a mini-documentary of our 2022 Tears for Fears Tour Travels. Now you can see what it is like to literally follow the band around the world. In this set of Rockumemories, we’re in the United States and the U.K. – enjoy!
There is so much that goes into tour planning that one could write a book about it, and we’ve decided that once we’ve finished the larger projects, we’ll likely do that. We scrambled to try to make this one work out for everyone but looks like we can’t go to every single show this time. Depression has set in. It’s not cute. But we’ve got about 10 extra tickets for those who are doing all they can to attend. If you would like one so you can sit with people you know on the first and second row of a few shows– fellow longtime fans – let us know. But first, how about some cake?
Curt’s Birthday is Saturday!
We are so grateful to the Universe for this man that “grateful” is an understatement. He takes absolutely no jive and does not give a **** what anyone else thinks for all the right reasons. In addition to his contributions to the song Break the Man, this man has spoken out for human rights, civil rights, ALL THE RIGHTS! He also did this during times when it was not popular to do so. Curt has taken on controversial conversations and people with finesse and grace. He does not shy away from tough topics and heaven and earth knows he has had to face some irritating situations and people in his life. Still, he shows up and gives 100% plus some in every way. This is not a paragraph to kiss his arse, we are stating facts and we have receipts. The man is good. He has an incredible memory and notes things, people, places and tweets you think he may not have even seen. One could dare say he is heavenly. Change our minds. You cannot. He is overwhelmingly awesome and there is a group of people who pray for him and his family daily. The Smiths are incredibly special people, and we are blessed to have gotten to know not just their individual work but also “them” in that they share some special music and more with everyone. They are top quality. ::straightens our TB neckerchiefs:: #iykyk We like their fashion too.
Curt has gone above and beyond for so many of us. One time a fan did not have tickets to one of his events and she had been standing outside in line with us all day trying to figure out how to get a ticket. Curt found out and made sure she was able to get into the event. The list goes on…and a lot of us have seen his kindness. It is not just toward certain fans either. A manager at a dinner theatre learned of our appreciation for the band and he immediately told us about how kind Curt was to him at a show in 1985. The manager was a kid at the time and Curt caught him hiding out backstage. Curt gave him a Reese’s peanut butter cup and sent the child on his way without getting him into trouble. He could not remember Curt’s name but when he described him we knew which of the two he was talking about. We are so happy that Roland and Curt met, and we love the details of their relationship and life story. It is inspiring and they deserve every ounce of success in their incredibly challenging industry.
We pray Mr. Smith has an incredible birthday. He deserves all the good things. We will be having a piece of one of his favourite treats, a Coffee Crunch Cake, in his honour this Saturday night. Be sure to send him a message on Twitter or tag him in a loving post on Facebook and Instagram. Let us continue to wish him well…and make sure he stays seated two minutes after the tour bus has completely stopped.
**As mentioned on Twitter, we will include both Roland and Curt in our nightly prayer and meditation services. For those participating in Maariv, we’re saying their names during Mishaberach: Roland bn Margaret, Curt bn Norma plus the first names of each band member and road crew. May the Universe look after the entire team and get everyone safely to and from each city. May all go well for fans, fan family, Bill and the road crew. Amein v’Amein
The Out of the Blue Tour Announcement
It was a surprise. Yes, we were aware the band wanted to do a tour in the states again, but we did not expect it in 2023. Many have written in to say, “I was not prepared. Last year we knew in advance. Remember the tweet?” Yes, we remember. We save everything.
But here we are, and we are going to do the best we can. However, our best this time around might mean only 1-2 shows each vs. the usual 5-6 per person or all the shows like our dear Stephen Marshall, Fan Ambassador. Serenity Now. What we wouldn’t do to just hitch a wagon to that tour bus and tag along. If they ever let us, it’s on!
There are several who are going to sleep in their cars and attempt to make it to every soundcheck in the northeast. We even have one fan who has a family engagement on one of the show days but will try to at least get to soundcheck even if they must miss the show. That is loyalty! As fellow fans, we know it costs thousands of dollars to fund a full trip around the states to try and attend these shows. If you cannot do it this time around, do not feel bad.
For those who wrote in stating serious symptoms of depression about missing out this time around, we wish you comfort and calm. Do not deny yourself professional help if it is needed. Might be silly to some, but we understand. The incredible energy of Tears for Fears events is so unreal it is difficult to even “think” about missing one. So, know you are not alone. Go ahead and get ready for the things they mentioned might happen in the future (e.g. musical, piano compilation, etc.).
Retired Legacy Fan Families
Two longtime fan families (Family C and K) are now retired from full time travel fan life as they prepare to focus on their health and personal plans. Both have said they will be happy to join us again if and when the band adopts residencies. That will allow us all to be in one place and reduce the amount of air travel. Flying from city to city does wear on the body and wallet so we completely understand. Meantime, we are happy some are going to attend 1 or 2 shows close to their primary residences and we know they will have an amazing time.
The VIP Soundcheck Package – It’s worth every dime!
For those who are doing all they can to make sure they go to The Tipping Point Part II, please read your ticket information. There are several types of tickets. Some have told us they have not purchased their tickets yet. When you do, we suggest you buy your tickets directly through the links on the band page because it leads you directly to the VIP Soundcheck options. When you select VIP soundcheck (usually around $450 before taxes and fees), you will see everything that comes with that package. Premium and Hot ticket packages are also available, but they do not include soundcheck. Premium seats are sold by the venue and offer a splendid view but they do not include gifts from the band. Hot tickets have gift bags filled with incredible Tears for Fears keepsakes. If you purchased a ticket and have now decided you want to do VIP soundcheck, you have options. You can go to the band’s official website, select VIP, and buy it that way in addition to the ticket you already have, or you can contact the VIP team and let them know you need to buy the package after the fact. Right now there is not an “add on” button.
VIP Soundcheck tickets are packages that include an actual concert ticket that allows you entry into soundcheck. The VIP team will contact you a few days before the scheduled show(s) you chose and will give you directions on what to do and where to go. We have already spoken to them, and it will be the same as last year. You arrive early at the VIP check-in table. From there they will lead you to the Soundcheck when it is time. Last year it was ridiculously hot outside as we waited to go into the venues. There is not a large, shaded area to wait at a lot of these venues. Sometimes it rained hard. A few times we hired a car to wait with us so we could sit in the air conditioning until we could be allowed back in the venue. It was THAT hot. It was an added expense but it’s better than having a heat stroke and missing the show. If you are taking a ride share (e.g. Uber, Lyft) to a concert, you have nowhere to go so you have to be creative. Wear a hat or anything you can to keep the sun off your face. You may want to bring an umbrella and in some cases you may want to ensure you can get back to your car after soundcheck because it is in advance of the show, and you will sweat a gallon or two waiting for the reentry. Is it worth it? Yes, the Soundcheck and the show are worth every penny.
*Remember to bring valid ID when you arrive at the VIP Soundcheck check-in table. Just saying your name is not enough to get your package. They cross reference with your ID.
NFTs for 2023? It’s a Virtual Commemorative Ticket…
Andye received a notice. So it looks like yes, you do get them but do not forget to download them once you get the notice that it is available. Do not let them sit in Ticketmaster files. We do not know if those files will expire so it is best that you download and save your ticket to your desktop and a backup drive. They look like the below. You will get one per VIP Ticket but it’s hard to tell if it’s included with all ticket purchases.
Please Say Lauren Will Be on This Tour!
She is! It has been confirmed that Lauren Evans will be on the tour. We do not have permission to say which shows. But she will be there, and we are SUPER THRILLED!!!!
Interviews and Promotions
There are promotions in local newspapers so if you like to keep those check your local newspapers’ online options and see if you can get a paper copy of the tour announcement. Long time fan, Deb of TFF Boston, sent one earlier this season and it is posted on Twitter.
Jamie continues to be applauded for his genius.
Be sure to check out the latest article in Recovery Today.
Record Store Day
Record store day was the 22nd of April this year. We were blessed to get a vinyl of Saturnine Martial and Lunatic. So excited to own this incredible piece of work featuring the band’s B-sides from their earlier work prior to ELAHE and TTP. In many cases, record stores only allowed each customer to buy one or two albums per person. So, being who we are, we got neighbours, relatives, and others to get up at dawn to stand in line with us…in the rain. We got our albums. Shoutout to the person who was able to help get records for everyone (legally of course, these aren’t bootlegs)! You know who you are!
The Band’s Family
Let us begin with the eldest son, young Mr. Orzabal and his amazing art…
He continues to impress with amazing pieces that are just phenomenal to stare at for hours. The artwork is so intricate that it is hard to look away. You just want to dive into the photo and walk around its nooks and crannies. The best part is he does sell art. You can buy prints of his work from his website and get them framed for your home.
Quarterboy (Pascal Orzabal)
Now Pascal Orzabal has five incredible singles out and they stay on loop in our world. His voice is just everything! You can support his music by purchasing a track from Bandcamp, Songs begin at .99cents US but you can pay whatever you want. Drop some dough on those beats guys. He is making a name for himself independent of his father. You gotta respect that. He recently posted that in addition to the five songs, he will be releasing even more music soon.
Graduation for the Girls
Curt recently posted that he was at one of his daughters’ graduations. We know both girls are in University but given that Darling Angel Diva is a hair older than Sweet Lady Wilder, we are guessing it was Diva who graduated. Either way, we are excited that his children are doing so well with their talents. We hope we get another t-shirt for a show from Wilder and more music from Diva! They are both so gracious to share their lives with everyone online!
Fan Family
DJ Rudh Transmission Anniversary Party
So, this past April, long time fan, Lady Tamara was able to go to DJ Rudh’s party and meet the man himself. Transmission is an incredible broadcast that features some of the best music ever released on this planet. The team behind it are big fans of Tears for Fears. During the event, the entire crowd got into it and sang their hearts out. Thank you Lady Tam for capturing the moment!
The Podcast
There is a podcast called History from the Big Chair – a play on the title of the 1985 SFTBC album title. The podcast is hosted by two fans – one who is a second-generation fan in that his parents are fans and he has been listening to the music since conception. He talks about that in some of the episodes. The other host seems to be his girlfriend and she stumbled upon Tears for Fears just before 2020. Their podcast is filled from start to finish with their opinions on various songs, albums, and videos. While there are a few awesome facts shared in most of the episodes, it’s mostly their opinion as self-described “youngsters” who like the band. The Instagram account associated with it is a bit different. It has a lot of great fact posts and highlights every week. The duo is working to make the podcast a very professional broadcast and we look forward to hearing what they do in the future. Always nice to have Generation Z onboard with classic music that is timeless. We wish them the best!
Puppy that Plays the Tipping Point
Krista in Florida is having fun with her new digital dog. It is the cutest puppy that plays Tears for Fears everywhere it goes. It follows her around the house playing all the Tears for Fears songs. We love it and we want one! What an excellent pet!
Tears for Fears Dolls and Action Figures
The Dolls are back! Lady Richards has the doll versions of Roland and Curt ready to roll for TTP2! You can follow their adventures in the fan forum, and we will aim to share them on various platforms so everyone can enjoy the fun. They are super cute and even some of the band members thought they were nice.
Beware of Fake Accounts
There are several bands that have been affected by the fake accounts. The accounts ask for money, they will send you a video of the band and make it seem like they are trying to speak to you but lost connection when it was actually an upload of the band during live interviews. Curt nor Roland are going to solicit anyone to buy gift cards for them or ask for cash. The sad part is these scam artists know how bad fans want to speak to the band and these fans keep conversations with these accounts thinking maybe they have been singled out for a conversation. Please know that is not how this all works. The band does not have a live a chat nor do they single out fans for money. Be aware. Curt has already announced that he will let everyone know if changes his communication method.
Look for the shirts!
Tears for Fears Fan Forum fans are headed out to the shows. This includes the Travel Fans, and many will be in dark blue shirts with the beautiful sun design. You cannot miss them! Be sure to connect in advance on the Travel Fan page or the Forum to hangout. We created meetup invites for every show last year. This year we will post one large invite, and you can note which city you are going to be in if you would like. It is not required to sign up for a show and meetup. If you would like to have a warm family night with your relatives, go ahead. If you would like to go to dinner in advance and have a cocktail you can note that in the invite and all in attendance can meet up with you there. We are giving away a $200 Amazon gift card to the person that posts the best group photo featuring themselves and the Tears for Fears fans together at a show in the invite’s comments section. You can take it in front of the venue, or you can take it at dinner before the show. The photo must feature Tears for Fears merch or identifiers. Winners will be announced AFTER the Huntington Beach show on the 18th of November. Just in time for gift giving season!
ROCKUMEMORIES
Again, our mini documentary of travelling alongside the band for the Tipping Point tour is now ready for view. We will be posting a few more videos and fun moments from fan life before sharing with a wider audience. For now, you get first glance. We hope you will feel inspired to put the joy of Tears for Fears’ music in your life. Follow that band!
SEE YOU AT THE SHOWS! Thanks for reading!
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Tears for Fears’ Travel Fans Quarterly Update – Q1 2023
Happy Tears for Fears Day 2023!
While Tears for Fears are busy with their calendar plans, we’ve got some time to put the kettle on and chat amongst ourselves plus celebrate milestones and anniversaries of Tears for Fears’ amazing music. That’s what we’ve been doing this quarter.
As mentioned previously, the new album brought a lot of new people and a lot of longtime fans from ‘83 and ‘85 back into the fold. Because people are catching up with all the interviews, week after week, there are newcomers who repost or remind us of things that happened pre-tour season such as this lovely video below from the Sirius XM interview and Q&A. To find out how this took place and how people were chosen you can search the archives using the keywords SiriusXM, Becky or Danny and it should show up for you. Let us know if you can’t find that information. It’s a great interview featuring new fans and those hard core folks who were there in the early days with the band. Enjoy the rewatch!
Anniversaries
Big Shoutout to Danny Cricks of the Tears for Fears Travel Fans, Fan Forum and TFF Florida who took time to help lead the online anniversary celebrations and birthdays. Coincidence or not, the band often followed behind his reminders. Danny didn’t just celebrate albums, he went deep with specific song celebrations. Now that’s fan love! Here’s what we’ve been celebrating with him this quarter.
Birthdays
- Ian Stanley – 28 February
- Charlton Pettus – 16 February
- Lauren Evans – 3 February
- Nicky Holland – 20 February
- Michael Wainwright – 6 March
Music Milestones
- Songs from the Big Chair– 25 February, 1985
- Tears Roll Down (Laid So Low) – 10 February, 1992
- The Tipping Point – 25 February, 2022
- Break the Man – video released on the 10th of February 2022
Today we celebrate The Hurting, the album that started it all!! This is the official Tears for Fears Day and always will be! The Hurting is still available for purchase although some of the recent remastered deluxe options have sold out (if you have one, you better keep it). You can buy a copy of the remastered CD from Amazon, Walmart and music stores. The remastered one has extended versions of several songs so be sure to pay close attention to the version you purchase so you can get the all the goodies!
You can stream and in some cases buy the remastered album here from these sources. As a courtesy we ask that you make a purchase of the album first. Artists are not able to make what they are worth via streaming services alone.
Record Store Day 2023
Speaking of days, Record Store Day will feature Tears for Fears’ Saturnine Martial and Lunatic on vinyl! It’s a UK release so TFF UK and Fan Forum Moderator, Darren, is looking into what he can do to ensure global fans get an opportunity to buy this. More details to come.
Psych Night on Hallmark Channel
Big thanks to the Hallmark Channel and Peacock/NBC for re-airing Psych episodes featuring Curt Smith. Fans got to enjoy two throwbacks – Shawn 2.0 season 5 episode 8 and Clue from Season 7 episode 5. We tweeted and chatted while watching these episodes – still a little squeamish from Curt’s encounter with the panther among other things. We also remembered the cast members showing up at one of Curt’s events in November of 2010, pineapple in tow. That was an awesome night that has been documented here in the archives. Fans and followers of both Psych and Curt noted they are ready for another Psych movie with more Curt Smith and company including a duet with his daughter Lady Diva Smith. We’re still waiting on Psych on SNL with musical guests Tears for Fears. That petition is not dormant.
What music does Tears for Fears listen to regularly?
So there’s Record Store Day but have you heard of Recommendations Day? Well, along with the fan generated Tears for Fears’ (TFF) Tuesdays (first initiated by Lady Tamara of TFF “Nash” Nashville and the Tears for Fears Travel Fans), the day is now followed by “Tears’ Picks” on Thursdays. On this day, we listen to music the band loves or recommends. It’s not highly advertised nor have we thrown down a hashtag but we’ve noted some of their favourites and will be enjoying those on Thursdays. So far, we’ve listened to Curt’s daughter, Diva Smith’s song ‘Bet,’ Pascal Orzabal/Quarterboy’s 4 tracks available on bandcamp, Apple music, Spotify, etc. and Kimbra who released a new album in January of this year. *Pascal is one “L” – just to clear the record.
Will there be a Tears for Fears tour 2023?
There’s been some chatter from some anxious people who want to see tour info – notably some of it has been from those who do not actually join the tours but love to live vicariously through the many thousands who do. There’s also several who said, “Geez, I hope they’ll return to the USA one day.” Remember Roland’s joke from Shepherd’s Bush. It will remind you that most of the band (including him) have homes in the states. In addition to basking in the fact that they actually have homes in your country, Roland noted they will continue to do stateside tours as they have been almost consecutively since 2005. Along with a big dose of patience, remember, there’s a handful of UK shows to address including Pryzm. Let patience and understanding be our personal theme this year. Once they’ve solidified their calendar and plans, the information will be distributed and those of us who can make it out will move forward.
Oleta Adams’ will be in concert this month and next. Her upcoming show at the Folly Theatre in Kansas City, Missouri is on the 11th of March (this Saturday) at 8pm. She’ll have another show on the 14th of April in San Antonio, Texas. Be sure to keep up with her website so you don’t miss a beat!
Jamie’s in the News!
Be sure to catch Jamie Wollam’s interview in Drum Club Magazine Italy. It’s a great read!
Band Family News
Raoul Orzabal’s art prints are for sale. His latest work was shared this week and it is spectacular. Several of us own pieces of his art and it is worth every penny. These pieces work well in any home or office. Learn more about how to obtain one for your place by visiting his website.
Captain Julian Orzabal, Dion and team continue working on their music. Be sure to join them on Facebook for the latest updates. If you haven’t bought your copy of their previous album, don’t hesitate. It’s great for road trips, commutes and hanging out with friends. Really good stuff!
Price of Fandom
Whether the band tours this year or not, we want to re-emphasise how awesome it was to have the VIP options in 2022. They reminded us of the VIP Fan Experience app we worked on in 2019. To those who helped with user research on that app, let’s be clear, the app was a prototype produced by Andye the Moderator but no confirmation from Tears for Fears was given as to whether or not they, Tears for Fears, used this specific prototype to design last year’s VIP options for the tour. Several Tears for Fears fans were involved in testing the app prototype and answered questions to help create the final iteration. The semi-completed prototype was then sent to a band member in 2019. Coincidentally, several of the same features and merch perks were available through their VIP partnership with On the List Presents during the US tour in 2022. These features made it affordable to attend more than one show and we are grateful to Tears for Fears for it!
Tears for Fears’ friends, Duran Duran, our sibling band, also had a very interesting offer for their Ibiza trip for fans. It, too, had similar features to the app. They used the option to book accommodations plus concert tickets, etc. which created a unique upscale fan experience. Much like the features on the app we designed, which featured a Duran Duran option, the Ibiza event included a complete show package from start to finish. Again, we have no proof that they used or were inspired by the VIP app concept. For both bands it was a first in our living memory of having a more curated VIP fan experience where we got great seats, merch and so much more with each ticket! We are truly grateful! We sure hope they continue with these types of packages because it helps with seating. Let’s say that one more time.
WE ARE TRULY GRATEFUL! WE SURE HOPE THEY CONTINUE WITH THESE TYPES OF PACKAGES BECAUSE IT HELPS WITH SEATING! aka – for heaven’s sake, please keep the VIP option!
In a coming mini-documentary (TFF Rockumemories of 2022) we note the price of the VIP tickets for 2022. It was more economical If you purchased a ticket using the Tears for Fears presale codes through their site than it was to purchase directly from the venues’ options. A ticket in the same section as the VIP specified tickets (usually the first 10 rows center, right and left), could easily end up being $900-$1700 per ticket depending on the venue. We have receipts forbid someone want to argue. We took this tour very seriously and kept all the documents. While we’re not aiming to discuss “money,” or wag fingers at venues because that is just rude, we do want to say that Tears for Fears’ VIP made this tour extremely affordable compared to what the venues had in mind. We need these VIP options!
Does Tears for Fears have an app? Why didn’t they take the app prototype and use that to manage the VIP part of the tour? Answer: The prototype provides an idea, a suggestion. It’s not a one stop solution for ticket purchases and tour management. Apps also require a dedicated development team. Perhaps their management has devs but their resources were not used to build and maintain such a thing. The app would also require an api that allows the venue to distribute the tickets. Most venues are managed by Live Nation and Ticketmaster – and we all know how that experience can be. No shade on Ticketmaster but it is what it is right now. For some of us, it’s not the most enjoyable purchasing experience. So, we rely on presale codes to get tickets. It would cost a pretty penny to keep an app maintained and it may not really solve the issues and nuances that come with fandom. Not everyone wants to fly on Delta, not everyone wants to use a commercial hotel. So it may not be an efficient tool in the long run. But we had fun putting it together and we’re grateful that the concepts were used by both bands no matter where they got the idea. Other companies have been providing similar services for years so the app idea nor its features were 100% unique. We just wanted to have something for us so we can have a way to go to more shows than just one. Currently another fan member in the forum is looking to build a Tears for Fears ticket app for her school project. So if you want to play around with that and see what it’s like to be a part of user research, find her on the fan forum. Her name is Paola Fernanda. Her app is not affiliated with the band, but again, is a school project.
Tears for Fears’ Travel Fans Rockumemories
Yes, we made a rockumentary featuring moments from the tour and a lot of songs that were featured in 2022. We do not have licensed music for it yet and that is the hold up. We may have to release it as it is and put one of those “we don’t own this music” disclaimers at the top. Still, it has to go through a lot of approvals. We look forward to sharing that when all the legalities are done. Again, thanks everyone that provided photos, videos and so much more. It helped make Tears for Fears – The Tipping Point Tour aka “The Healing Tour” memories some of the best yet to come!
Shoutout to Shannon Green’s kids. Shannon is a member of the Tears for Fears Fan Forum. She recently found her son singing Shout in its entirety and recorded it. If you’re a member of the fan forum, use this link to revisit that fun moment. If you’re not a member, you can join today via Facebook. There is no fee associated with joining the forum.
Shoutout to Michelle “Shelley” for getting one of the false Roland Orzabal accounts removed. She went out of her way to get Facebook and Instagram to remove the fake account which is among several that are actually requesting money. Roland would not do that. Huge thanks to all those behind the scenes, admins and others going out of their way to protect the band. You are seen!
Thanks for reading! More to come as we get the info! Cheers.
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Going Into Q1 with Gratitude for Tears for Fears
Dedicated to The Curry Family and David Bowie’s team of musicians and friends
This week is a memorial honouring David Bowie. Hardcore fans of Tears for Fears understand why that is important to us. Many of those fans are ones who keep Ashes to Ashes, a song the band covered some years ago originally written by David Bowie, on repeat. It’s one of the best parts of Saturnine Martial & Lunatic. Over time, we’ve come to find Bowie fans at concerts, interacting with us online and virtually swaying alongside us during the recent memorial shows. One of those great musicians interacting is icon Kitten Kuroi, who is coincidentally a friend of the award-winning Lady Lauren Evans, Tears for Fears’ most recent band family singer. Kuroi was featured in the 2022 Bowie celebration curated by the honourable Mike Garson. Bowie teams make up one of the many beautiful mosaic roots of our fandom. They are strong foundations that have influenced us, bringing unity to our team in our quest to collectively and respectfully promote and celebrate the work of amazing musicians. Huge thanks to each of them for the ongoing interactions and online friendships.
We’re also grateful for Jack and Dawn Curry who went above and beyond to ensure that fans actually made it to shows in 2022.They helped ensure each one had spectacular seats. When we looked at our meticulous archives and documents, we saw that collectively, the travel fan team mod and in-kind supporters Jack and Momma D, purchased well over 32 VIP ticket packages for fans. They assisted with travel expenses, accommodations, dinners and hosted several warm gatherings throughout the tour. The comfort and ease of the 2022 tour season was due to these aforementioned contributors and their efforts will not be forgotten.
The list of really cool moments in 2022 is long and some of the favourites that we’ve seen include not just concert moments but extra special experiences that happened between shows. Given that we already have documented highlights through last October, let’s focus on the fun from Q4.
Curt Was Healed!
If Curt’s ribs breaking wasn’t the scariest thing that happened all year, we don’t know what was. Curt gave details of his injury during an interview on the BBC one morning. Learning that his injuries originated on the tour bus where he was literally sent flying after a false stop, was devastating to hear. The fact that he even tried to sally forth and keep going despite being in pain was a sacrifice we’re glad he discontinued. The wait and worry was fairly intense o\n the fan forum and in numerous Tears for Fears dedicated groups on Facebook (which now equal over 45 individual ones…). We’re so happy that this is behind us and that he was able to go to the UK and Europe to participate in additional interviews and appearances including the Deutsch Press awards as discussed in the previous update.
Holiday Song
Nearly every year Curt has released a holiday song. This year we got something quite special during Hanukkah. As mentioned in a previous post, Mad World has been used by at least two synagogues in the states during Shabbat service. Most recently, it was featured at IKAR LA, where well-known artist, Hillel Tigay, is the Chazan/Cantor and music director. The video of their Havdalah service featured the song and Curt loved it. He was invited to join them and did so on the 16th of December for Kabbalat Shabbat. For many observant Jews in the fan team, this was extra special and several noted that the occasion officially solidifies Tears for Fears’ music as a perfect accompaniment to prayers. Andye is contemplating writing a book about how much the band’s music has been important in spiritual journeys and healing for so many fans. But let’s let her get through the mini-documentary first.
The Mini-Doc
So, we took every photo given to us, those we collected and captured on tour plus videos and sandwiched them all together in chronological order. We have nearly an hour of photo slides so far if not more. It’s a lot. Next steps include a lot of fonting and finding licensed music to add to it. We had hoped to have it sent out by the 28th of December, but the task is huge and there are just a few people that actually have the time to maneuver through the technicalities of the project. We do not have an ETA on the completion, but it’s been a lot of fun going through all the memories from every show during the 2022 tour season. We’ll be sure to start sharing more BTS photos on Facebook and Instagram.
The World Cup
At the start of the quarter, we learned that the band would be featured in the Budweiser Beer sponsored World Cup Song collaboration with Lil’ Baby. It was a surprise song. As with anything Tears for Fears touches, the song was pretty darn cool and had a lot of new listeners and positive reaction videos from some who were completely new to the band. This, in turn, brought new people into the fold. Gen Z was already on board but now there are even more. Is that why it seems the band is more active on TikTok than Twitter now?
New EWTRTW Video
The band released a new version of Everybody Wants to Rule the World. It’s a compilation of clips from the history of the band on the road (looks like clips from a previous documentary). The video has an emphasis on imagery from the ‘Rule the World’ – Greatest Hits album that was released in 2017. However, we’re wondering why this was created when the band already has an EWTRTW video. Perhaps we missed a memo. Either way, it’s awesome and we love it. Nice to see all the concert footage again.
The Mystery Box of Merch (now sold out?)
Just as the year closed, the band’s U.S. store offered a mystery box of merch that includes three items. The box could be purchased by anyone regardless of location it seemed. If anyone had issues ordering it, let us know. But if you’re in the U.K. you should have been able to get a hold of one regardless of it being from the US. store. It was $35 plus shipping and a limited time only offer so no clue when and if such a thing will be available again. We know a few people that have already purchased two. Danny, let us know when it arrives!
The Tipping Point is #1
Classic Pop Magazine released a list of their top favourites for 2022 and yes, agreeably so, The Tipping Point is number one! We were told the band was flattered and thanked the magazine. Let us also say thank you Classic Pop Mag, from a fan perspective, for taking time to recognise that superlative album – very likely their best yet – and that says a lot because we all know they have produced so many hits that are timeless. They have the Midas touch in music! *Thank you, Martin Slade and Danny Cricks, for sharing the photo from the magazine.
About those NFTs
So, the tour packages included an NFT. In the rush and fit of all, we didn’t bother to look at the tax laws around NFTs at the time. So, those of us, as mentioned, who purchased quite a few, in hindsight panicked thinking we were clueless to how much tax we owe on these. However, there is no price tag on the NFTs in the Ticketmaster and LiveNation account. So likely we don’t owe anything. But you’ll want to refer to your tax advisor. From what we can see, one does not owe taxes on the NFTs according to a few tax documents we read.
Band Family & Alumni
Wilder Smith, Curt’s youngest daughter turned a lovely 21 on the 27th of December. Curt also published the URL to her new website. Not sure if she’s taking commissions but we’ll wait it out cause we’ve got some things we’d love to get a quote on and in production for the future.
Little Lady Genevieve (Vivi) Orzabal also had a birthday on the 28th. We wish her a great turn around the sun and lots of love.
Jamie’s daughter Bayley had a birthday on the 20th of December and it’s noteworthy that a lot of longtime fans also had birthdays this month. It was truly a band family and fan birthday extravaganza! Many happy returns to Eileen I, Sheila SheShe, Andye the Moderator and so many more.
Libre Stone sent out a loving note of thanks to fans who supported them this year. That was super sweet!
Supporting singer Lauren’s song “This Could Be” got a lot of air play in December and was trending. Congrats to her on that! Her voice is also featured in New Amsterdam’s Season 2 Episode 6 singing a rendition of “His Eye is on the Sparrow.” It is quite moving! Be sure to check that out on Netflix.
The Smith household got a new puppy named Twiggy. Twiggy looks a lot like sister Ivy Smith and the late Bella Smith of their Vizsla family of dogs reportedly of Hungarian hunter dog descent. That’s admirable. It’s a beautiful dog and Wilder has posted several photos of herself with the sweet new baby. Curt also mentioned sweet Twiggy in his New Year holiday message on the 31st of December.
Oleta Adams wrapped up her 2022 tour in December, but has more shows scheduled for March and April. She’s so loved and sought after, rightly so! Very grateful that many of us got to see her again this past year.
We’ll wrap this up with a shout out to those who took the Tears for Fears Pilgrimage. It does exist. Many fans go to the city of Bath every year and take a photo at several iconic spots including Moles where the band had their first show and brother Shaun Smith did the lighting. They go by Roland’s old home above the pizza parlour and take a walk near Snow Hill. Our lady Tamara got a great extra tour stop this year. She spent some time with Libre Stone, Radio Bath’s Dave Mason and the fan family stars like Stephen Marshall. Tamara is an amazing Tears for Fears Super Fan and we’re beyond grateful for all of her contributions in 2022!
To say we are grateful for all the amazing things that took place in Tears for Fears’ fan land last year would be an understatement. Despite illness, surgery, treating cancer and dodging Covid, the fan family showed up and showed out! Tears for Fears fans bought a record number of seats at the sold-out show at the Forum in Los Angeles and showed up in droves for every show on the tour…even the ones that got cancelled! Fan family gathered together at local pubs and sang together at nearly every event. Tears for Fears fans are some of THE MOST loyal and dedicated individuals. Let’s keep it going!
Thanks for reading!
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Spiritual Experiences with Tears for Fears
Dedicated to all the spiritually focused fans of the band. You are seen and you are heard. This is also dedicated to Jack and Dawn Curry who have been absolutely angelic to so many fans, not only helping them get to shows but being best friends. Since day one, they have been helping everyone get through the hard times in life. We love them both, wherever they are!
Authored by the Moderator:
Spiritual experiences have been so prominent throughout my years of following Tears for Fears – so much so, it’s difficult to remain silent and not discuss it. I understand that some people want nothing to do with religion, prayers or the idea of a Higher Power. I respect that. But I also lean in when I hear other fans discuss the spiritual experiences they have had with Tears for Fears’ music. Note that I will use the term “G-d” in this post. There will be a definition guide and or reference below to help out with terminology used for this specific type of conversation.
What is a spiritual experience in music?
In 2019, a publication quoted a fan after the Tears for Fears performance at the Shaky Knees festival. The fan said, “I don’t know if that was Tears for Fears or G-d that I just saw.” Many comments similar to this surfaced and I certainly noticed it because I have felt that way for years. Not long after that show, Oleta Adams was in town with her band. I was quite certain that an angel or some spiritual being was going to show up in the middle of her performance. There was just something so powerful about that show – it didn’t feel earthly – instead otherworldly and heavenly for lack of a better term. We were packed in like sardines at City Winery for the event and despite the slight discomfort, it was such a glorious feeling that the entire crowd was swaying and crying like one might see in a genuine praise and worship service at a prayer centre, church or so. But why? What is the explanation behind the magnetic pull toward the band’s music and that of Oleta Adams? I have been trying to understand the euphoria and elevated feelings. It’s as if one’s soul is being lifted up out of one’s body, suspended in blissful space as each song plays. I’ve noticed this since childhood – and even more so in adulthood after attending their live shows annually. There’s no solid answer. Many of us have just come to the conclusion that they are “anointed” and this is the Tears for Fears experience.
Has Tears for Fears’ “energy” always been this way?
In my opinion, yes. I also learned that for many who encountered their music in the 80s and for some who learned about them in the 90s, the answer is the same. There has always been a glorious, magnetic and spiritual pull. Their shows are indescribable life events. Each person I’ve spoken to has been able to recount where they were and exactly what was going on at the time they heard Tears for Fears for the first time. Overall, 90% of those encounters were during some seriously difficult, and in some cases, life threatening times.
I first heard Tears for Fears with a Judeo-Christian Church
As I look back over my toddlerhood, the point in my life when I first heard the band was coincidentally in a Judeo-Christian church daycare van on the way to school. I was having a bad day at the young age of 6 because I was aware that my family was going through some seriously hard times. I was wearing a navy English pea coat that I hated and wondering when things would improve for my parents. I remember the church van pulled out of the parking lot and stopped at a red light that was on the hill just outside the church doors. The light was always long and we often had to wait two or three light cycles to get to the main thoroughfare – therefore one might hear an entire song play by the time we got on the actual road. I remember ‘Everybody Wants to Rule the World’ being on the radio as we waited entry to the main road. It had to have been late March because I was shocked that the weather was still so cold that it prompted my parents to force me to wear that hideous coat. I wanted to be like my American friends and wear bright neon jackets. But I came from a religious, conservative international community and our style was different. We were different and while I embrace my differences now, being different added to the stress of the time. But something changed as that song played in the church van. My legs were dangling off the seat and I was grooving along to this new sound on the radio that felt overwhelmingly comforting. At that moment, I suddenly felt grateful for that warm coat, felt a twinge of hope for my family and also the need to be patient as a better life for us unfolded. I became quite attached to what soon became the only secular music allowed in my religious environment. The spiritual seeds were officially sewn.
As a kid not even in double digits yet, I had no idea who Tears for Fears were (e.g. names, where they came from, etc.) but whenever I heard their voices or if their video was featured on one of those 80s compilation commercials, I would run to the TV and sing along (never did get the words right – “everybody wants to rock around…” that’s not right). I would touch the screen as Curt sang. I would touch the other side and put my hand on Roland’s head as he sang ‘Shout.’ I was so drawn to them. They were the sound of hope, of patience, of kindness…important parts of the fruits of the spirit as noted in religious texts. Then one fine day in school I looked in the back of the music history book and there they were! My teacher played Head Over Heels and I started screaming, “That’s the band! That’s them!! I’ve been trying to find them. You don’t understand! I need this music right now!” My mum allowed me to stay late at school so my teacher could get copies of the music for me. I learned their names and used my allowance to buy all their cassettes and Cds. The years that followed were filled with serendipity as their music would always come on randomly when I was about to make a big decision in life. I remember going to the salon and taking Roland’s RATKOS picture with me for my first real hair cut and dye job, “Can you make my hair like this? Blue black…also I’ve never dyed my hair before. Do you think it will work?” I asked. Break It Down Again suddenly came on the loud speaker. I freaked out. Thankfully the man helping me with my hair was also a fan and sang along. Then he sang ‘Shout.’ There was also the time I was finishing up a junior media internship in Atlanta and the organisers of the educational program took us to Fox Theatre where Tears for Fears was said to have performed (they made it seem as if the band was there all the time). As we left, Everybody Wants to Rule the World came on someone’s cd radio. Ended up getting the media job fulltime some years later as a recent college grad and Everybody Want to Rule the World came on AGAIN, this time on the loud speaker of the atrium on my first full day of employment. I remember pausing and giving thanks – the very place I stood I would later meet a wonderful musician named Michael Roland Magno who was also a huge fan of the band. He and his beautiful wife, Meg, were with me at the 2017 show. It felt like Tears for Fears’ music was being used to comfort me throughout life.
Tears for Fears’ Music in the Synagogue
More recently, after numerous shows and events with the band and their family members in 2010 to 2012, I came back to Atlanta from Los Angeles and Vegas, feeling especially grateful and desiring to show my gratitude to G-d. I decided I would rededicate myself to my Jewish faith. I grew up within a Jewish, Christian and Islamic spiritual structure so I wasn’t sure how I was going to do this properly or if I should do it at all. Would it even matter? Well within the first week of Jan 2013, a brand new friend of mine of the same name who was not aware of my serious love for the band randomly said, “Come on, we’re going to *Shabbat. My synagogue is hosting a *Shabbat Shira. You should attend.” I was nervous for so many reasons. We walked into the synagogue that Friday night and the end of Mad World was playing… I was like, “You have got to be kidding me! You’re playing Tears for Fears!”
I had never met these people before. I had not attended Synagogue anywhere in Atlanta and they didn’t know a “Tears for Fears fan” was coming. After the initial prayers, the team went immediately into a theatrical reenactment of the parting of the Red Sea and what song led them out as Pharaoh came after the Hebrews? Yep, Mad World! A guy lept to the microphone and started singing with passion and intention, “All around are familiar faces, worn out places, worn out faces…” Soon the entire music team was joining in and the musicians were full on with the drums as the congregation sang and swayed along (they did the original version, not Gary Jules.’) There I was, crying profusely on the 3rd row, shaking and feeling like I had received the biggest sign of my life. I wanted to scream, “I hear You G-d! I hear You!!!” I knew right then that I was headed in the best direction for my life. Returning to my Jewish spiritual roots was the right thing for me to do.
Fast forward to 2022, the High Holidays in my faith are in full swing. It’s the night before Yom Kippur, the most important night on the Jewish calendar and I’ve just sprained my arm from stress because I was in a tizzy trying to prepare for this 25 hour (yes, 25) fasting day where we have no food and no water. I had to break my fast this year to take medicine (which is allowed) because I was in so much pain I couldn’t do basic life functions. I’m also still recovering from some serious thyroid issues. Sipping that water and throwing down those pills, I felt like a failure. I began to question why I was even doing this and thought to leave the faith because I felt like I couldn’t follow through with anything. The year before I somehow forgot to take the day off work and found myself answering work email between prayers. Now, this year, I couldn’t even fast properly. I felt defeated, unorganised and ready to quit. I went to bed nearly in tears.
The next morning, I wake up and see Curt retweeted the video of the IKAR_LA featuring Hazan Hillel Tigay (of MOT) leading the congregation through the final hours of Yom Kippur with Mad World! There it was. There was the sign! I knew there was hope. I screamed, “I hear You G-d!” It’s so wild because just a few days before – during Rosh Hashanah – I had this vision of Roland and Curt holding a Shabbat service before a concert. I saw Curt in a *Tallit and wearing *tzitzit. I’m by no means trying to convert them to Judaism or pray them into any type of belief. But it was a vision of peace and the band sharing peaceful prayers with others…and then this happened!
So, what was it that we were looking at in the video? What is Yom Kippur?
In my faith, it is best that a spiritual leader explain everything. I don’t believe I’m ordained or anointed to explain what was happening in the video. But I will speak to it from my own personal experience in the faith (in a very elementary fashion). Every year around this time, September/October, we have the High Holidays. It begins with *Rosh Hashanah. Everyone wears white. White represents atonement, forgiveness, introspection and shedding away of bad habits and willful wrong doings as well as asking for forgiveness for things we don’t even know we did wrong but have hurt others. The white “hats” are kippahs or yarmulke and are worn by men. Women also can wear this and sometimes you’ll see a white lace fabric on women’s heads. In my faith and culture (I’m Nigerian), we cover our whole heads with a scarf. Not everyone does this and not every Nigerian is a Jew. In fact, most are Christian or Muslim. But Nigerian Jews do exist. There’s also a longer shawl called a Tallit. One will often see it worn around the shoulders. During Yom Kippur I’ve always noticed that most of the leadership and Rabbis will wear white ones. The rest of the year, the tallit that is worn is often white and blue. There’s a lot more to it and we can discuss that one day. During the ceremony of Rosh Hashanah there are many additional prayers that are read aloud – usually in a fashion that sounds like singing. There’s a reason for this and we can discuss it “offline” as one might say. All of our holidays begin at sundown and conclude at sundown the following evening. In this case, it was Yom Kippur which occurs 10 days after Rosh Hashanah first begins. As mentioned, it is the day we do not have food or water and use that time to pray, introspect and more. You may have noticed that one of the members of the congregation was touching his fist to his chest. This is part of the repentance – one gently beats the chest for each transgression listed. Learn more about that practice here.
In nearly all ceremonies, you will see a cantor, or someone singing and leading the prayers as well as the Rabbi. I’m not a member of the IKAR-LA congregation so I do not know who the cantor is but I believe that Hillel Tigay is the director of music there. What a fine and divine moment he led. I’m still saying Baruch HaShem every time I think about it! I do suggest you follow his work and music no matter what faith or religion you claim.
I’m not certain at what part in the Yom Kippur ceremony the congregation was on in this video. So I can’t really say more on this but as mentioned, Mad World was used in 2013 by Congregation Bet Haverim in Atlanta, Georgia as part of the Shabbat Shira. The band’s lyrics express the deep heart and soul of man’s “good” conscious in so much of their work. In my faith, we are taught to examine and question…get to the heart of matters and not follow blindly. Every Rabbi that I follow spends exponential time reading, studying and seeking guidance. The ones I know in Atlanta are also Tears for Fears fans. Rabbi Ryan Lambert even came to the June show. If I hear any of Tears for Fears’ music again in a synagogue or learn that other faiths use it, it would make sense to me. I find it absolutely fitting and appropriate. I’m thrilled that people can be enlightened by their music and find it essential or useful during spiritual moments of reflection. It’s important that we not rely on what we see on television as our only image or knowledge of faith. Just like we wouldn’t stereotype a person, we should not stereotype religions and expect media versions of them for ourselves. From Agnostics and Atheist to Zoroastrian beliefs, there is something one can learn. A lot of religion is not what we’ve been brainwashed to believe.
In 2019, about two months before Tears for Fears returned to Atlanta, I adopted an atheist way of life and thinking. I was angry about things in the world and felt, there’s no way there’s a Higher Power. I was done with all of this. I stopped praying altogether and whenever someone brought up prayer and seeking guidance, I rolled my eyes and rejected their comments. I went to the Tears for Fears show later on in May of that year with the same attitude. The day after the show, I experienced a supernatural event. The band was still in town and I remember one of their family members was nearby. Not wishing to appear as if I was “hanging around too closely,” I went back to my hotel room and took a phone call from the UK and…well, I won’t go into detail about it but it was revealed to me that I was wrong about my atheist beliefs. All kinds of things began to happen – revelations of all sorts began to take place. I learned that there is more beyond this life…a lot more. While I no longer agree with agnostics and their beliefs, I don’t think I could ever make an assumption about them or write them off. They are also on this journey of understanding. I hope that in seeing this peaceful ceremony of Yom Kippur that others will feel encouraged to read and understand faith. Do not let “man” or media make you decide what faith is…seek, for yourself, clarity and understanding for everything. Reach out, read and learn for yourself.
Throughout my time as a fan, I’ve witnessed and experienced really loud supernatural type things that have occurred in conjunction with the band’s music – especially during tours. Some are things that I’m not ready to share. I don’t know if I ever will. I’m not sure how to even discuss it. It already took me this long to discuss this. All the visitations and heavenly type encounters were peaceful experiences and loud confirmations filled with comfort. I met a lot of fans on tour who reported similar coincidences and noticed that the band’s music miraculously plays just as they are dealing with a life crisis or in the middle of making huge life changing decisions. Of course, we know Roland and Curt have nothing to do w/it. They aren’t sitting in their homes or on the tour bus with crystal balls looking at us then pressing play supernaturally on a stereo or radio station’s equipment. But are our guides and guardian angels leading us to these spaces to be there at just the right time? Who decided that a random January after the tour I would find myself in a synagogue crying with joy as people danced and praised G-d using Tears for Fears music? I don’t know but I look forward to continuing the connection to fans who are also finding spiritual solace in the band’s music.
Shavua Tov/Have a great week ahead! To the members of congregation IKAR-LA, Chag Semeach! Thanks for reading, feel free to leave a comment and connect with us on Facebook and Twitter. Happy to continue the conversation and perhaps gather for Shabbat or Jummah prayer with many of our fellow spiritual fans.
-Andye, Tears for Fears Travel Fan Moderator
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Terminology – these are not complete definitions. Please consult with a Rabbi or Chabad to get the full definitions and explanations of these terms and why they are important.
G-d – in my faith we do not write the name of our Higher Power with vowels. YHWH or G-d is the highest term used.
Anointed – blessed by a supernatural power or Higher Power with a gift to help heal.
Shabbat – a time of rest as noted in the Torah (holy book for Jews). It occurs on Friday evening at sundown and concludes on Saturday evening at sundown. Torah observant people of the faith will attend prayer ceremonies filled with gratitude and ancient recitations in a Synagogue.
Shabbat Shira – a Shabbat service including music and singing.
Yom Kippur – 25 hour fast in the Jewish faith – a time of repentance and reflection on one’s deeds.
Rosh Hashanah – the head of the year – a type of new year in the Jewish faith – the start of the High Holidays where Jews and Torah observant take time to get closer to the Higher Power through prayer, fasting and weeks of gratitude.
Tallit – a long body length shawl worn during services among Torah observant people and those of the Jewish faith
Tzitzit – tassels or fringe worn by Orthodox Jewish men as noted in the Torah
Tears for Fears’ Travel Fan Quarterly Update Q3 2022
Dedicated to Tineka Rose’s mother who was a long-time fan of Tears for Fears. Her mother and family found joy listening to the band. Tineka and her family loved to play the albums on repeat. The band’s music helped their mother as she battled a serious illness. May her soul rest in peace and the family be comforted during this time.
The Bittersweet
After a very dreadful injury experienced by Curt, we’re grateful for the turnaround of late despite the shows that were halted. We learned from the BBC2 interview that Curt’s fall in the tour bus was the reason his ribs were fractured or broken. Scared us to pieces! Several of us spent quite some time in a state of prayer, adding his name and the band’s to prayer circles and envisioning him healthy and well again. It was a lose-lose for both sides with the team having to cancel shows and local UK fans plus those from around the globe who flew in losing their opportunity to see the band after 3 years. Thankfully there were show refunds, and most important, Curt recovered!
Then Her Majesty the Queen passed away and services were scheduled during the same days as the Leeds Festival with the BBC and the long awaited Pryzm show in London. This led to additional cancellations. Several fans had already landed in London when many of these unexpected situations occurred. It’s the tough part about being a travel fan. Some issues are totally out of our control. The lesson we learned from this is to do our best to book hotels and options that have realistic refund policies. We also hope that band management can help us out with timely cancellation notices.
Big shoutout to Lady Tamara who, like many, pushed forward and made the most of the situation. She spent a memorable time throughout the UK with members of Libre Stone and the Tears for Fears fan family. She has a ton of amazing photos from her trip. She’s no stranger to the nation(s). She’s seen this and similar situations before. We’re so happy that she got to spend time in Peter Gabriel’s studio where Libre Stone album production has been underway. She also spent time with Radio Bath team members and members of Curt’s family. That is very rewarding!
Another rewarding moment in the midst of some of the disappointment of the UK shows being paused were Daniella’s dolls. She designed this cute set of darlings with various scenarios detailing what things may have looked like behind the scenes. The popularity of the dolls was so intense she got requests to create a set for various fans. We love them and we appreciate the comfort these dolls brought during what for us was a very scary situation. We’re thrilled that Curt is well and look forward to all the good things to come in fan land.
More Honours
Though the 2022 Tears for Fears tour season seems to have come to a close, we got news of some unannounced pluses for the beloved pair and their pals. They were honoured and performed at the Deutsch Radio Press event this month. Throughout the night they were mentioned, applauded and praised by fellow bands, the media and the event hosts. Then there were a few more interviews, commentary about the Queen’s passing and additional appearances that took place in Europe.
Our favourite right now is the session they did with KCRW. In this iconic space, the band sang the first few songs from the set list of the 2022 tour. It was very touching and beautiful.
Long, Long, Long Time Video
On the 18th of August, we were gifted by the band’s new video. The response was incredible but much like the ILYBIL video, the band was just not in it. That upset some fans. They crave a good R&C dance scene and singing. Some fans were slightly militant about it, noting angrily that the video should have featured the guys. ‘Boys of Summer’ was void of their members but it’s still a great song and so is this one. We’re just happy to have a video but yeah, c’mon Roland and Curt, smile for the camera! Take us with you!
Song Anniversaries and Significant Moments:
The month of September is FULL of Tears for Fears anniversaries for the band and the fans. Some of the band’s best and most memorable concerts in the last 10 years have occurred in September. We’re also celebrating the 33rd Anniversary of Sowing the Seeds of Love and the 40th Anniversary of Mad World.
The 11th of September (2001) was the anniversary of the sacred Tomcats Screaming Outside – Roland’s solo album that was filled with timeless mega beats that are still a hit among those fans that have a copy. It’s very hard to get and when one does find it, it’s often attached to quite a price tag. It is indeed priceless so we understand. We have literally asked Roland for it to be re-released along with several solo pieces from Curt (to be put into an album of its own that some of us like to call The Genius Brain).
There was the 17 September (2011) show at the Wiltern where Roland began gifting the microphone to an audience member. The first one was Andye. This is also the commencement (2010) of the Tears for Fears Travel fans commitment to aim to go to as many shows as possible every tour.
To top it off, the 23rd of September is the day ‘The Working Hour’ showed up on the tour after being absent for yearrrrs thanks to saxman David Moyer of DDHorns. Mr. Moyer joined the band for several appearances including one that night at The Wiltern where fans were overjoyed to tears hearing that song live. It was an epic moment to say the least.
We also celebrated three birthdays. Curt’s gorgeous wife in August, then Diva Smith, Curt’s darling first child, celebrated a birthday on the 14th of September! You can get her music here. The third of course was last month on the 22nd, the Good Sir, Roland Orzabal began his 61st turn around the sun with lots of love and well wishes in tow.
What’s everyone up to right now?
Lauren is out and about. We saw a video of her this summer singing one of Whitney Houston/Dolly Parton’s famous ballads and it was so beautiful. We pray her schedule will be filled next year with Tears for Fears busiment. Carina’s schedule is filled with her band Puscifer. She was also at the #DRP22 ceremony.
Oleta Adams‘ tour has begun and several fans have their tickets, some having already seen her to start off the autumn months. Her summer tour was amazing and we look forward to supporting her upcoming shows as well.
Neil Taylor has lot of cool shares online and interactions. Be sure to check those out!
Raoul Orzabal’s art and work was featured in the Financial Times.
Libre Stone are super busy with their next album. Several fans and supporters were allowed to be in studio during some of the recording. The legend, Chris M. Hughes was also on hand. The band then had their first show as a group at Komedia in Bath. The audience was packed with top names including notable producers, travel fans and a young Mr. Raoul Orzabal.
Many thanks to Darren for providing live video from the show and big welcome to Chris Nichols and Danny Cricks as Libre Stone moderating team members. The band also did a Q&A available on YouTube. One of our favourite moments was in July when the band joined media member and Bath Radio icon, Dave Mason at Radio Bath for a great interview. We’re excited about the future for LS! Gonna be a good one!
Many fans are still working on their thoughts from the tour, putting together summaries video collections and looking at their finances wondering how to do this again. It’s an ongoing question as we do our best to support the band. We’re hoping residency shows are on the list for the future. The band is busy with next year’s plans, more promotions, conversations and the World Cup FIFA collaboration with Lil Baby! Checkout the song here:
Lots of former fans still finding their way through the new material and material post SOL. That means lots of questions and surprised finds. In some groups, you’ll see people who are returning after the successful marketing of the The Tipping Point but are not aware of ELAHE, TSO, RATKOS or even Elemental. As shocking as it can be, we’ll continue to be patient and flood their threads with all the new info so they can sing along at the upcoming shows. There’s also the new fans in their teens and 20s who are discovering photos, interviews and information that many of us archived years ago. It’s exciting to see them discover it for the first time and share the moments when we were there for those super special events. The Tears for Fears fan family has grown to well over 1 million with over 47 groups on Facebook and multiple fan accounts on IG. The fandom may be close to 2M at this point. Cheers to the good years and those to come! Enjoy this great set from the summer and leave a comment for Mr. Javaruski – he’s one of us! More memories and fan fun moments to share in the coming months.
Thanks for reading!
-TFF Travel Fan Team
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Nights to Remember – Talking About Tears for Fears with Fellow Fans
Mingling with fellow fans and getting their amazing fan stories and experiences helps bring us together. There’s nothing like finding a kindred spirit in Tears for Fears. Today, we focus on three major fans who have been following the band since the start. Enjoy their contributions that we’ve highlighted here in the archives.
Tears for Fears Making Maryland’s Night – Show with Chuck
Chuck is one of us! After attending a couple of shows he, like many of us, found it difficult to stop thinking about his euphoric experience. He reached out on Twitter to let Curt and we fellow fans know, he could not let that show go. It was etched on his soul. See more…
Cindy “The Concert Chick” at Jones Beach SetList in Video Snippets
Cindy is a loyal soldier of sound. She has attended Tears for Fears concerts faithfully for YEARS! Always energetic, gorgeous and giving her all for the people, Cindy has created a beautiful video playlist of the shows she attends for all bands. A silent Sherlock in her own right, she knows how to find a good seat at a show. She gets in there and brings us a magnificent experience every single time. Her work is an absolute gift. If you miss a show, find out if Cindy went…she is the queen of recreating experience! Enjoy!!
Tour Synopsis from Lady Tamara
Lady Tamara is a logistics Queen. We were up til nearly 3am in the morning nightly during the tour but she was THE FIRST one downstairs in every city, checking in online and connecting with others. If a change to the schedule needed to be made, she was there to assist with solutions. She was there! A true travel fan indeed! She came ready and correct every day! Enjoy her blog!
“I’m downstairs and ready for this show!” – Lady Tam @ 11am ET 12 June, Alpharetta Ga.
Sharon Foxx’ Fan Experience
May 21, 2022
I posted this pic of me in 2020 not too long after lock down. And while looking back, in the light of the toll Covid took on the world. I apologize if my quest seemed trite and insensitive. My goal to experience the band live and hear songs that provided the soundtrack to my life, was very high on my to do list.
I made the decision to buy my ticket for the tour immediately after it was announced. I put the call out to friends and family and told them I would not wait for people to decide if they were going with me. My cousin Rey heeded the call in time to get his ticket and join me.
Day of the concert
MAY 21, 2022
I could say I’ve been waiting for this date since March of 2020. But I’ve actually been waiting since February 25, 1985. Happy the tour was making its way to my hometown of Cleveland. Blossom Music Center is actually a lovely lush outdoor venue outside of Cleveland. It was the second stop on the tour. As Rey and I made our way to Blossom, the heavens opened up and poured down rain, torrential, monsoon rain! We arrived and waited it out in the car, like quite a few other fans did. We made what seemed like the five mile walk from the parking lot to the venue. We took our seats and the anticipation continued.
After an incredible set by Garbage fronted by the great Shirley Mason and before the roadies set the stage for TFF, I introduced myself to the two guys in front of me. I humbly apologized in advance and told them that I would be clapping, dancing, cheering, whistling, possibly crying and definitely singing at the top of my lungs for at least the next 90 minutes or so. They both laughed and said, “Go for it!” House lights down and the band took the stage, Curt, Roland, Jamie, Charlton, Carina, and Doug.
The opening acoustic strains of “No Small Thing” filled the venue, the rain continued but, we were off! My personal highlights from “The Tipping Point” album were the rockin, “My Demons”, the soothing calm of “Rivers Of Mercy” and the fabulous “Long, Long, Long, Time”. “Pale Shelter” “Head Over Heels/Broken” were well worth the wait, BUT…“Bad Man’s Song” was absolutely incredible and is in my top 10 TFF songs. I could hardly contain myself!
My second concert was at Pine Knob in Michigan. My friend Rita and I decided to pack snacks, turn on some great music and take the three hour trip from Cleveland to Michigan. It was incredibly hot as about 30 of us with VIP access, got our swag and waited to enter for sound check. I sat in the first row about seven seats to Roland’s right. They went through usual sound check procedures. Curt and the Sound man discussed levels for I think, “Long, Long, Long, Time” Roland briefly joked about the heat, which was sweltering. They both took time to say hello and acknowledge us, but the focus of course was making sure, the front of house was ready for the show.
We were introduced to the beautiful Lauren Evans who filled in for the amazing Carina. Where Carina’s voice is soothing like a cool gentle breeze, Lauren’s tugs at your heart while holding you in the palm of her hand with range and passion. She smiled and waved at me.
Again the concert was fabulous. I had great seats to Charlton’s left. He frequently came to the edge of the stage and played to the crowd. The kicker for all of us on that side, is when Curt made his way came over and several lines of EWTRTW! Yea baby!
The Pine Knob show took place well over four months ago. It’s taken me this long to process the visuals, the lights, the relentless pouring rain, the heat, the sweat, the music, the VIP experience, the meeting up of folks from the fan page, from both shows. It was all very surreal. Now when I listen to “Bad Man’s Song” and “Woman In Chains” from my favorite TFF album, “The Seeds of Love”, I still can’t believe I heard those songs live…just incredible!
Seeing Curt and Roland enjoying performing live again and smiling at each other was really great. It seemed a very genuine love of both the music and each other. They were having big fun just like we were!
Like everyone else I was totally bummed to hear about Curt’s accident and the tour having to be postponed. Nothing can take precedence over the heath and well being of the band members. My heart goes out to all of those who traveled, sacrificed, saved up, bought tickets and made plans. I sent up a heart for those who said either due to finances, personal or other reasons they just weren’t able to see the show. I did understand I was fortunate to see not one but two. To those who moderate pages and went above and beyond to connect, get tour info out, and help is commune with others who love the band, Andye, Darren and Danny, thank you. All those who I met for the first time at both shows..too many to mention, most of you we are in pics together LOL, especially those who traveled across the pond. Those whom I’ve made close friendships with, that have gone beyond the fan groups. You all ROCK!
The music of Tears For Fears is a great example of how great music can cross cultural boundaries and connect people all over the world. I purposely haven’t listened to the three bonus tracks. Let it all evolve, Secret location and Shame(Cry Heaven), for two reasons; one, I missed out purchasing TTP special edition, and two, I’ll give those a listen when I return to earth and need “new” music from Roland and Curt!
Though as unfortunate as it was, the seemly negative childhood experiences of Curt and Roland pushed them to delve into their creative mind and compose thought provoking, melodic, personal music that we the fans, are the beneficiaries of.
With that I say thank you…
More to come! Be sure to follow the band – @tearsforfears on Twitter @tearsforfearsmusic on Instagram!
UK leg of the tour begins in just a few hours! Additional tickets are available for some shows.
-Tears for Fears Travel Fan Team
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