Hoping everyone has had a great start to the new year. Last we spoke we were recovering from a wild weekend at Darker Waves Fest…let’s talk about that first.
photo from official site
Tears for Fears at DarkerWavesFest
The announcement for this show went out just as we were completing hotel bookings for west coast shows including The Hollywood Bowl. The general admission fee was a couple of hundred dollars and the suggested hotels were offering packages that were reaching into the 1000s for the full experience. Though our show budgets (and for some of us, medical fees during the tour) were reaching their limits, that didn’t stop us from making an attempt to go. We immediately got in touch with the ADA team – or reached out to them rather. No response. Then the announcement was made that they had sold out within hours of the presale. So…we were like, “Let’s just get a hotel room anyway and see what happens.” Some of us did, some of us waited until the bills from the main Tears for Fears tour were paid before committing to this…and some just couldn’t do it after attending multiple shows and flying to London for the Pryzm and BBC Radio 2 events. So we didn’t have our 85% rate of representation in that crowd but those that did show up did an incredible job of getting in a day in advance. They set up on-site so we all could experience as much as possible if we weren’t there. Shoutout to all you amazing fans who believe in this type of team work…cause that too comes at a price (monetarily and energy wise).
One of the biggest concerns was how do we get teams to the front to get pictures and do roll call so the band knows we even showed up at all? People flew in early, some waited until the afternoon and found a way to take their time and inch their way to the front. Do not expect to hear the best audio from the videos that have been posted online. One can only do so much when you’re in awkward spots. The videos from most are incredible but they do not compare to actually being there in person and hearing the incredible output from the sound set up and work that goes into these stages (Thank you Sound King Bill). It’s another reason some of us stopped videotaping because our little ol’ phones (I don’t care what brand) do not capture the true sound. We don’t want to do the band a disservice.
Big props to Luis Vladimir Brenes who was able to capture the whole show. Some things to listen out for are the respectful crowd. They were quiet on songs they didn’t know and soaked it all in. We, on the other hand at shows, turn it into a big ol’ gospel sing a long, hands raised and praising the Almighty for the glorious songs the whole time. This was much tamer. Lol. Also, Roland sang Kanye West’s nicked version of “Memories Fade” to start the song and then moved into the original. His ending of “Head Over Heels” was especially fantastic as he elongated the ending just a bit more than usual as it flowed into the best part – the “Broken” ending.
Carina was there as supporting vocalist and did the solo version of Suffer the Children. It was beautiful and we love that both she and Lauren have found a way to deliver that song so well in their own unique style. We’d love to have one version recorded featuring Lauren, one with Carina and one with them both singing it together. Just throwing that out there as I look around at my treasure of things we’ve asked for and received.
The Great Parts of the Festival
The wonderful part about a festival is seeing more than one band all in one place. From what we understand and from doing a video walk through with fans on the night before and the day of… the festival was right there on the beach. Right there in the sand. You had three stages from which to walk back and forth from to make sure you caught as many of the bands you wanted to see that day. Thankfully Tears for Fears were headlining so you didn’t have to give up one other band to go see them. Not so for The B52s, another amazing band with lots of Tears for Fears fans. The best strategy we found was to get to the DarkerWaves Stage just before B52s and stay there until Tears for Fears came on. That’s what several did, and they said they were thankful they did as they stood against the rail putting them on the front row.
This is the reality of festivals…some love it, some not so much. The plus side is you get to hear more than one band…if that’s your thing.
During the show, you could hear a pin drop during several of the new songs. It was quite a respectful thing to witness even if we were on someone’s phone watching remotely. After the show, there were so many who commented that they really love the new songs. In a private Darker Waves Festival attendee poll, Tears for Fears were right up there on the best performances list.
The Uncomfortable Moments – Typical Festival Issues
Not sure if this belongs in “the great parts” or maybe “the bittersweet.” Standing around like that from early morning til 9pm at night was a feat and it was also kind of painful (no pun intended). Roland mentioned it during the early part of the show stating that he knew many of them had been out there ALL DAY. He had reason to bring it up because that crowd might have been a lot bigger had several (like A LOT) not posted they were in pain and leaving after The B52s. They simply did not have the energy to stand around like that for hours.
At Shaky Knees Festival we were able to sit down in the VIP lounges until it was time for the show but even that was not as convenient as we were told it would be. Those lounges were nowhere near the stage that Tears for Fears were to perform on despite being told months prior they would be (the final schedule had them at a different one) and the lounge that was assigned to the stage had no seats! Many of us paid over $1000 each for those experiences as did these DWF goers. So… that kind of stuff right there can cause side effects on your concert experience. So, what did the DWF attendees do? Where did these people go? Several posted that they went back to the hotel and watched/listened to Tears for Fears from the balcony (as we had planned upon learning it was sold out).
Gratitude and Wishes for the Future
We’re grateful that for the first ever Darker Waves Festival, Tears for Fears were promoted like crazy. On nearly every social post they made, Tears for Fears was featured, played, referenced and more. It was incredible. It’s beautiful that the band was the headliner! We won’t ever forget that. Like any first time festival, we and other attendees feel it needs some work. Logistically and price wise, it needs to be reviewed.
What we’d like to see for future from the Darker Waves Fest producers:
A reliable livestream option with a safe credit card or PayPal option – for a one-time purchase to view vs. an option that says “free livestream” but we’re taking your credit card info anyway. We don’t believe the live stream option that was floating around was even legit from the festival.
An ADA package – just curate something for those who may be injured. Separate entrance, separate viewing stage that is high enough for those in a wheelchair to see over the heads of those who are tall.
More water closets, loos, ladies and gents facilities that are reachable by a moving walkway. That long stretch of walking to get there …dude, really?
Seats. Let’s face it, we ain’t three year old toddlers looking to run around and roll around in the sand. Build a tent or something and put a limited number of seats with premium prices or ramps or something. If you’re going to charge glam prices, then give us some glam accommodations outside of the four-star hotels so we can attend these shows with dignity. There’s got to be a way to work on that. A line of seats in the middle and on the sides or sloping standing ramps because that sand surface left people who were under five feet tall looking at shoulders all day long.
Please take some time to look at the comments that were made. Here are several other experiences from that day and the general consensus is we hope that the band was joking about doing more festivals. Right now, as Gen Z says, “this ain’t it.
‘80s Nostalgia Overdose: I’m happy for all the folks who can say Darker Waves was a blast and can say “best day ever” and such. Good for them. I’m glad they had a good time. Me, not so much.
From Daniel K:
We got to the beach early as we were worried parking would be a disaster. The Darker Waves promoters apparently secured no official festival parking so it was wherever you can find it. Thankfully, we easily parked super close to the festival and had time to meet up with friends for breakfast before the big event! We were off to a great start. The forecast called for rain, but we had beautiful weather all day. All indicators pointed to “Best Day Ever”!
As a hardcore introvert, I’ve always loved introspective bands like New Order, Tears for Fears and the Chameleons. Darker Waves put together 33 “dark themed” bands all playing within a 10 hour festival. I felt super excited for this “once in a lifetime line-up”. So many legendary 80s new wave, punk and goth groups. Feeling good and positive, I was looking forward to a magical day of music, food, beer and fun at the beach. I understand choices and sacrifices need to be made at festival concerts so we picked our “must see” bands. In the end we saw about 12 bands.
We entered the festival gates early and walked the grounds. To our dread, the majority of walking would be on beach sand. There were no set pathways to get from one stage to the next. And disappointingly, the ocean was no where in sight. It was my dream to see this amazing concert at the edge of the continent with the Pacific Ocean as our backdrop. Instead Darker Waves erected an opaque 8’ fence surrounding the entire festival area. This gave the whole place the feel of a sandy post apocalyptic prison. That isn’t necessarily a bad thing until you pour in thousands upon thousands of obnoxious drunk folks aka, the people who were having “the best day ever” I presume.
Once the music started it never let up. With all three stages set up to revolve, as soon as one band finished, the next would start in a matter of minutes. This gave us almost zero breathing room to chill between bands. I guess with 33 bands in one day, that’s required, but it did not make for a fun and pleasant day of music at the “beach” for me anyways. Too many short sets on the various stages overlapped, which made it necessary to leave early or arrive late to the next band’s set. We could have stayed at one stage for the day, but we did not.
Trudging ten miles or more through sand all day will make your legs hurt! The Darker Waves layout was atrocious. Earlier in the morning we were walking around before the show and we saw a bunch of what appeared to be platform risers and rolls of astroturf. It looked to us that the Darker Waves set up was left incomplete. It certainly felt like chaos inside the fences once the crowds filled it up.
The beach is flat! Views on the ground were terrible. The VIP sections and sound booths were major visual obstructions. We missed a couple of bands on our “must see” list just because the layout of the stages were so poorly placed. We couldn’t get from one area to another fast enough through the packed crowds. Especially later in the day when this “sandpit from hell” filled up to the point where it became necessary to physically push your way through. Sure, I’ve been to many shows were you’re down in the pit and people are all pushing against each other. I have no problem with that. But when it’s an entire festival crowd with no clear path of escape, it’s no fun and a recipe for death. A drunk girl almost puked on me when she was being carried away. The festival appeared to be way oversold, to the point of feeling locked in and completely unsafe. Crowd control appeared non existent as far as I could see.
By the time the sun went down It felt like we were being sardined in at every stage. Beaten and deflated, it seemed to me the promoters did not care one bit about creating a positive festival experience. Instead it was about packing in as many people as possible and taking our money. Trying to enjoy the music, stay positive and feel good gave way to misery and spiraling darkness in my own mind. We ended up leaving early. At least getting out of the parking lot was a breeze. The festival title “Darker Waves” might have been more literal if we actually saw the waves, but it’s a great name to describe my mood at the end of the night.
Where there any good points? Yes, quite a few. OMD did an energetic 10 song set of hits. Human League sounded fantastic. We got to see the Chameleons do “Swamp Thing”! We met up with friends and made some new ones too.
But the bad stuff overwhelmed the good moments far too much for me to give this mess of a festival a pat on the back. I’m sure it’s not easy to put on a major event like Darker Waves, but I’ve never been to a festival as poorly thought out as this one. I know there have been far worse examples in the history of music festivals, but for me it was a personal low and major disappointment.
I started the day with high hopes and positive energy and had it squeezed out of me by sundown. To end on a positive note, best example of the worst music festival I’ve ever attended.
Would I return again to Darker Waves? Hell no!
A collection of thoughts and responses can be seen here.
Darker Waves Festival was a great concept and we’re glad they had Tears for Fears as the headliners…we’re always happy to see Tears for Fears invited, booked, featured, and praised for their incredible healing music. Those that could attend, did. Overall, we want to watch and support them in a dignified manner. Festivals will have to change their logistics and provide a more comfortable realistic format to match the pricing tiers so that we can celebrate great bands with glee.
Heaven bless Roland, Curt, Charlton, Jamie, Doug, Carina, Lauren, Bill, Gooch, their families and all the fans who are married to their music. As we told Curt long time back, we’re not going anywhere. We’re a weird inheritance. You’ve got us for life. May we all be able to enjoy this band until kingdom come and even after.
What else is new?
There’s not a lot of heavy music news in the Tears for Fears fan land for this month… in fact the past three months have been pretty mellow. The highlights were some of the fun things the band members got into. We have a no “personal shares” policy so we are not going to post the photos from Roland’s life, their excursions or Curt’s visits to Ohio to see his daughter and catch a riveting football (soccer) match but we will touch on some of music related moments for fellow band members.
If you missed Drummer Genius Jamie Wollam’s interview with N:SHMusic on Instagram, you missed out on a pretty indepth two hours with these great musicians. We learned so much…things we did not know despite being on the Tears for Fears train since 1985. We won’t give anything away. Instead, select the link and listen for yourself. Get a cup of tea, sit back and take notes. Some parts will have you spitting up your tea but hang on….and get a good look at Mr. Wollam’s creative space. It is impressive to say the least.
So, there we were online, enjoying our day…when suddenly we get some news from Lady Tamara and Radio Bath’s Dave Mason that Moles (Yes, THAT MOLES!) was closing. The number of teacups and plates that dropped could be heard crashing all around the Tearsworld. After scooping Andye up off the floor and fanning Lady Tamara back to consciousness, we were left in absolute shock. The good thing is, Curt Smith swooped in with the offer to rescue and help with a community conservatory. This could get the space open again and allow for musicians to play there plus support the staff that will help keep it up.
On 8 December, Dave Mason of Radio Bath conducted an interview with the owner and founder, Philip Andrews, to discuss it further. That’s when we learned that Shaun, Curt’s older brother, noted Curt was interested in supporting a Community Conservatory. Mr. Mason noted on the broadcast how those stateside were ready to roll up their sleeves and handle any administrative duties remotely. We’ll see what happens and hope that can all get straightened out. To lose Moles is like losing a relative. If we can keep that as a historical monument that can’t be destroyed or repurposed for anything but music, that would be ideal.
Lady Lauren with the Queen of Christmas
Some fun news did follow that cheered us up this winter holiday season. We learned that Lady Lauren Evans spent a good deal of time on tour with The Queen of Christmas (and Andye’s new neighbour more or less), Mariah Carey. Several posts from Mariah’s team featured snippets of Lauren living it up with her team. We’re so glad to see her having a good time! Sharron Foxx was able to snag a photo with her during their Ohio stop. Super cool! We hope to chit chat with Sharron this quarter on a group fan call we’re arranging.
Oleta’s December Show
As planned and part of the postponement, Oleta Adams, now recovered from a ghastly bout with Covid, had her December show in Minneapolis and several other cities. She’s already posted her early 2024 schedule and tickets are available. As mentioned previously, attending her shows feels like a piece of a Tears for Fears concert. If you love Seeds of Love and RATKOS you need to see Oleta in person. It’s an incredibly moving experience that will leave you soothed and feeling elated and elevated! https://www.oletaadams.com/
Carina Round’s sold out show featuring the full album “The Disconnection” was a success! There is one more at the end of the month in New York. It’s a can’t miss as this is a really powerful piece of music artistry. If you want to try to get tickets, check here. She added a late show because the 28 Jan 7p show also sold out. We hope everyone that has tickets can go and won’t be delayed by life’s challenges. There were a few of those that happened on the 19th of Jan. So sorry for those fans who could not attend because of that. Hope your situations got worked out.
Upside Down Clinic and Bandcamp
Captain Julian (who celebrated his 60th birthday on Sunday) and his music partner with the Upside Down Clinic, Jon Birch, are busy as they are about release yet another banger of an album. The first one is reallllly good. If you haven’t listened, do so today. It’s a perfect album to loop! They have a Facebook group online that you can join and get the latest on everything they’re doing. Check that out here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1560020121198057
Graduate and The Korgis
January is often associated with beginnings and a restart of sorts. Well, two bands, Graduate and The Korgis, remind us of both. Members of Graduate did include Roland Orzabal and Curt Smith for a time. Though they did do their own BIG thing and create Tears for Fears, they continued to work with John Baker, one of the members of the band we know now as The Korgis. In fact, both bands’ members have continued to work together in very unique ways. John Baker detailed his work on several Tears for Fears albums and, as you may very well remember, was at the 2022 Tears for Fears tour spending time with the band, fans and family. It was INCREDIBLE! You talk about overjoyed and excited…IT WAS SUCH AN HONOUR and full circle moment having him there. Can’t stress that enough.
The Korgis have a new album out and are very active online. They are a fun band and worth adding to your circle of Tears for Fears, Upside Down Clinic, Diva Smith, Quarterboy (Pascal Orzabal) and some of the other works that the band members and their family have been a part of (i.e. Dion Smith and Captain Julian’s earlier band Libre Stone and also Captain’s work with De:LaQ). The music is just unforgettable and brings you into a whole other realm of the Tears for Fears universe.
Wouldn’t you just love a nice exhibition of Raoul Orzabal and Wilder Smith’s art? Imagine a modern museum with amazing music (preferably from their relatives) playing along as you wonder through Wilder’s world and Raoul’s intricate pieces. They continue to share some really dynamic and deep works. Visit their sites and see which one you like most. Raoul’s are for sale here.
The Latest from Diva Smith
If you follow her online, you’ll see she’s singing in a variety of cafes and music venues. Her single “Bet” has vanished from Spotify but you can still enjoy it on YouTube. The songs she has been singing at the latest venues are quite nice as well. She’s got such an incredible voice. We can’t wait to see what she does next!!
Stephen K and Stephen M are both active members of the Tears for Fears Travel Fan team and forum. They have clocked their fair share of miles going to shows and being supportive of the band. Stephen K is local to the states and shared a really cool video not long ago in the fan forum. It was a clip of Tears for Fears on PBS’ Reading Rainbow, hosted by the award-winning Levar Burton (known to many as Gordy on Star Trek). This was especially poignant for us as we watched Reading Rainbow as children and then watched Tears for Fears on MTV. During one episode of Reading Rainbow, Simon Rodia’s Watts Towers were featured. They are a spectacle of grandeur that is located in Los Angeles in the historic area of Watts. His story is quite riveting and we were thrilled to have passed by his famous towers while we were in L.A. for the later part of the 2023 tour. It was like being a kid all over again, reliving the good parts of childhood. Speaking of the good parts, Stephen M. received this incredible statue as a gift. It’s called “The Little Dancer Age 14” (created by artist, Degas) though for many of us it’s “the ballet dancer from “Change.”” How cool is that!? Who else remembers dancing to this song then stopping to step in time with the dancer in the video? Ah childhood. Glad we’re old enough now to go see the band without a chaperone.
Speaking of birthdays, we’ve had some pretty cool ones of late. Roland and Captain Julian’s mother had her birthday in early December. Curt’s daughter Wilder celebrated hers toward the end of the month on 27 December. Then Captain Julian’s daughter Genevieve and TFF Travel superfan Moderator Andye had theirs on the 28th. Eileen I. had one on the 29th and as mentioned, Captain Julian’s had his 60th on the 21st of this month! Many happy returns to everyone!
Anniversary of the Kitchen Appliances
Speaking of anniversaries…so this photo is surfacing again…and from what we remember, it circulated about two months after an infamous post on the now obsolete Tears for Fears dot net. We used to throw out ideas and wish lists like crazy in that forum. This was long before Facebook – we had to bookmark the site and we hopped on daily and spent hours chatting with fellow fans and preparing for concerts. The site was managed by a now absent moderator and she likely loathed several of us for all the wild ideas we brought forth…one being the suggestion that Tears for Fears have an estate sale. We mentioned them selling everything from saltshakers to socks. Andye brought up a toaster and discarded footwear. Roland didn’t find it funny at all. He made a mention of it in a response that went something like, “Yeah after I auction off my socks…and if you believe that…” or something to that nature. Conservative fans who didn’t put up with any type of jokes or fun were quick to dismiss the ideas as horrible and completely unworthy of being mentioned in such a sacred space. Roland did auction off a pair of jeans from the tour later on. As far as Andye is concerned, bring on the toasters! “I got a fiver on it! No, make that $500!” We gotta have a little fun sometimes.
Your Concert Health – tools to make it better
What’s not fun is missing out on concerts if you’re sick. We know that our bodies change over time and no amount of exercise and eating right can stop the inevitable weird things our systems are prone to do or develop. One way we have found to stay well is through deep tissue massages, keeping inflammation down and of course watching what we eat. Sure, we love a big bag of skittles in honour of Curt but we’re not having a bag a day (at least not anymore…that was high school lol). If you’re having trouble with your health, inflammation or feeling just awful, consider music therapy and non-inflammatory sprays like TheraPainPlus. That’s what got Andye through the summer and, for those following along, she’s now in remission for some of the ailments developed in recent years that left her in the wheelchair many saw her being pushed around in during the tours. If you’re not feeling well, don’t suffer alone. Reach out, let us know what’s going on and we’ll direct you to the therapists and physicians we’ve used within the circle of the Tears for Fears fans that may be able to help. We wish everyone a great year ahead and we’ll be back on with more band land news in the coming months or sooner!
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The first thing I wanted to do after the overwhelmingly exhilarating Hollywood Bowl show was get to my hotel room and finish detailing the magic of the latest shows we’d seen on the Tipping Point Tour Part II. I needed somewhere to store all that amazement! I had to talk about it and get it on paper. My goal for the next few days immediately following the tour was to be in full discussion of how awesome everything has been this time around. However, instead of in my hotel room, I found myself in Hollywood Hills with some amazing folks. Moments that followed the show were on par with everything cosmic that happened during this sparkling celestial tour. That little impromptu after party was filled with sublime surprises that made so many of us pinch ourselves wondering if we were even alive. I’ve always been under the impression that amounts of joy like that are only permitted in the heavens. So needless to say, it has been an overwhelming struggle to write because I was stuck on cloud 9!
I literally sat around in awe for weeks after the tour, unable to move thinking back to every moment and wondering if it was all a dream. Now, here we are nearly two months after the Bowl show and I’m still on cloud 9 wondering if it’s even possible to come down from any of this. Tears for Fears sent our spirits soaring into the cosmos, far into the cosmos, well into the great beyond! Here’s a montage of photos and videos from my phone and some from Christine’s, Bobby’s and Shelly’s. Rick has 90% of each show on his phone and will add those to the archives. Also I briefly referenced the Forum in this, I’ll make sure that it gets changed to “The Hollywood Bowl.” Enjoy the reel…it’s about 12 mins of moments…including a visit from an earth angel!
After each show, I try to connect with fans and hear their thoughts. I find that they’re either verklempt in a state of wonderment where they can barely talk because they are so overjoyed by the concert experience or they are detailing nonstop every single element from the show to the point they can barely breathe. There’s always someone with damp hair after dancing so much, one layer of clothing removed and a band shirt over their shoulder or the longtime fan wearing a piece of new merch as they recount everything that just happened…ready to add the experience to their long list of amazing TFF fan moments. Often people are hugging, smooching or walking hand in hand as was the case after the Palm Springs show. I noticed those on the right of me were exchanging phone numbers and going in for the long hugs. There were compliments and praise for people who obviously knew every song and committed to singing each one from start to finish. It was fantastic to see such love. A lady who had flown in leaned over across our front row seats and said to me in a joyful slur of emotion, “Your spirit…it’s amazing! You get it! You understand this band. You didn’t let anything stop you from being here tonight…” she said this and noted my injury. I held her hand for a few seconds and we smiled at each other with that knowing look of ”we just experienced something incredible.” Tears for Fears shows bring out the best in all of us…and can make total strangers the best of buddies by the end of the night.
Let’s back up though. The shows that followed those in Missouri included a lot of fans in the Northeast, Midwest and Pacific Northwest specifically that hadn’t seen Tears for Fears since 1985. Overwhelmed and flabbergasted by how incredible the show was and the fact that Roland and Curt sound as awesome live now as then, a huge number said they decided to just follow the rest of the tour. Several found tickets at the last minute to the remaining shows and went to those too! Next thing we knew, the Hollywood Bowl show was posting “sold out.” Now that’s the definition of a Tears for Fears Travel Fan!
Going to more than one Tears for Fears concert has become a healthy habit for a lot of people. I got notes from fans who even after seeing them more than 3-4 times on this specific tour, got more tickets and went west to catch even more shows. This is the Tears for Fears effect. It is nearly impossible to go to just one show and be okay. You leave those shows feeling so different and in such a good head space that it stays with you for several days if not a few months. People did not want to come down from the concert highs. The Tipping Point Tour had us so far into the cosmos, we experienced the point of no return!
Vancouver and Washington State
The commentary and love were flowing from fans in this region. Many of them went to VIP Soundcheck and enjoyed “No Small Thing,” “Rivers of Mercy” and “The Tipping Point.” A few fans also noted the ticket prices dropped significantly before the show for some of the areas in the back of the venue. Most, of course, had purchased tickets closer to the stage and perhaps the venue wanted to make it as affordable as possible or get their own profit in one way or another by lowering the price? Well, it worked. People called their friends about the lower prices and snatched up the tickets. This made for quite a lovely and loud crowd full of people who knew each other and were dancing around on the lawns and all around the venue.
One of the best moments for us and a sparkling moment for the band included the young man who was singing “Everybody Wants to Rule the World” in his own special way. He did this as he unknowingly walked past the band belting the song loudly. He even made a spiritual reference toward them not knowing that the very earth angels that created that masterpiece were to whom he was speaking. It was a heavenly sign in our opinion and we’re here for it! Love it when the cosmos aligns like that!
Big Mabrook, Mazel Tov and Congrats to the band! That very song, Everybody Wants to Rule the World, just surpassed over 1 Billion streams on Spotify. They got a plaque for it as well. We saw it earlier this week in the rehearsal studio and hope the band will post a photo of it. Thank you Drummer Genius Jamie Wollam and Superfan Admin Danny Cricks for announcing this!
Sacramento
Not sure what was going on with the venue but faithful fans overlooked its remoteness and rocked out regardless! We did hear many on the last part of the tour rather surprised by the inclusion of the cover of Radiohead’s “Creep” vs. the band’s very own “End of Night.” We learned that Roland really likes the song and wanted to sing it and therefore it was included during many shows on the tour. Overall, the sentiment was fans were just happy to be there, excited to see the band and experience soundcheck! Huge shoutout to Lisa who flew in from Atlanta for that show as well as Nicole who travelled from North Carolina.
Palm Springs
Several of us arrived super early for the Palm Springs show. The logistics and travel some went through to get there was unreal. Trains, planes and automobiles…all three methods were used in the same day by many to get to the venue. One person took a train for the first 3 hours, got to the airport and that took a few hours…then the rental car to drive them to the venue. Tears for Fears are just that important. We break the bank to make sure we show up and bask in their energy. Upon arrival there was The Tipping Point structure with chairs stacked and connected just like the album cover artwork. The only thing missing were the cats. It was placed near the main parking lot. I think more would have taken a photo with it had they known it was going to be there. It was a missed opportunity for a great group shot. VIP parking was on the other side of the building which was great for those who needed a less than crowded way to get in and out. However, it seems many missed the structure and, again, that’s rather sad because it was so perfect and would have been highly appreciated by dedicated longtime fans. There was a married couple who literally had their ceremony just before the show and made sure to get a photo by the TTP structure. The bride and groom came to the show in their wedding attire and attended soundcheck. It was really cool.
Serene Soundcheck
Soundcheck was on time. On the List team lead, Brit, was incredible as ever, organized and ready to help us all. Those of us who had mobility issues were treated very well and not neglected in any way. We were able to get in and get seated simultaneous to everyone else. The lights were very low in Palm Springs so it felt like a mini-concert. Roland had his hair pulled back in a bun and was very talkative, telling us about his 4 new guitars. Our ears perked up! Four new guitars!!? Whatcha got cooking, sir? They sang three songs and they were performed so richly in that immaculate ambiance that it just felt like a holy moment. It was just so different from other soundchecks we’d attended. It could be because it was indoors and again, the lights were out and you only saw the band on stage with the spotlights focused on them. It was just surreal really. I look forward to seeing the video from the Nashville/Franklin show so anyone who may not have been able to participate this time around can see the magic of soundcheck. It’s an incredible experience to be in their presence like that. The addition of this opportunity along with the show is really phenomenal. If they offer it in future, and we sure hope they do, just do it. Treat it like a mandatory procedure that you have to have. It’s a whole other world in that moment. It’s different from the concert, it’s like a pre-show conversation and spiritual experience with the band of your dreams.
We did have a sort of mini-meetup. Fans from long time back, including Armen and his wife (Armen is one of the coveted few who got the RATKOS cigar box set back in the day) sat around after soundcheck and had some long laughs and fun conversations about all the wild moments of our fan life. We recounted old interviews the band had done. We discussed those in which we had a hand in as many of us were from media teams. It gave us goosebumps to remember all those magic moments and to think we were all “here” again together supporting the band.
This venue had really comfortable seats. I was so grateful for that. A lot of us have had surgeries on our knees, hips, legs, etc. We have a very diverse number of abilities in the fan club these days – not just from legacy fans but their kids and grandchildren as well. So having a comfortable family experience with cushioned chairs is a big deal. This arena had that and it was very welcomed.
Merch Update
By this point on the tour, it seemed like they were just starting to run out of some of the larger sizes of merch. The 4XLs were not available but there were still plenty of other sizes from which to choose. We were able to meet our needs of extra hoodies and more. I have no idea why I feel like I need to have the same merch at every show but I did go ahead and buy some more stuff just because.
As customary we had front row for this show. We were on the far right (Curt and Charlton’s side). I learned something though…I got the front row seats thinking I wouldn’t have any line-of-sight issues given that I knew I’d have to sit down for most of the performance. However, if you have mobility issues, are not attending for roll call purposes and can’t stand up, it’s best to try and get seats in the center rows (3-5) or otherwise you’ll likely struggle to see over the heads of those who stand up at the rail. Despite my injuries and current condition, I was determined to try and stand up for at least 4-5 songs and managed it with the help of our medical assistant. I wanted to push my wheelchair up next to a speaker and sit next to the security person that is always placed between the stage and the rail. That’ll be the day. I just want to chair dance all night but I know there are rules lol. If that ever changes, IT IS ON! I will dance my arse off wheels, and all.
Cold War Kids did an excellent job as they had the entire tour. They had a lot of great energy and were able to maintain it despite having lost one of their tour team members during their time on the road with Tears for Fears. Their music is really good, and these guys are well versed in the greats of the industry. In Nashville they were wearing some really cool shirts, one sporting a Jazz festival and another in a Grace Jones t-shirt. I know “we’ve come a long way” but wearing those shirts for a show was rather loud and those who appreciate global music noticed it and appreciated them for wearing it. This is definitely a band I want to keep included in our updates and follow just like we’re doing with Arrested Development and Garbage plus other bands that have toured and supported Tears for Fears. These young men are quite special to us and we want them and their fans to feel welcome in our shared space.
The Palm Springs show was extravagant and felt very rich and full, It was just packed with all the musical flavours…robust it was! Everyone was full of energy and so smooth. Several of us have noted that one of our favourite parts of the show is Charlton’s guitar solos. That man is a quiet genius. So modest and humble he is that you just want to sit with him and hear anything he has to say. Watching him light up on stage and smile is one of the highlights of the concerts and tonight was no different. He was just right on point with his musical prowess. I don’t know how they do this or what prayers and chanting they do prior but they just seem to be so steeped in good energy and play so skillfully to the next level show after show. One of the crew members got in touch ahead of time before the tour started and noted, “I don’t know how this is possible, but they sound even better than last year!” Now 2022, had us throwing away crutches and healing from illnesses after their shows because their music was so powerful and permeating. How on earth is it even better? Well, at the Nashville/Franklin show I definitely saw it. It was like watching colourful silk fabric in vibrant shades flowing like a river in a fantasy galaxy. This Palm Springs show felt like a groovy speak easy with an award-winning band. Everyone as far as I could see (and I did turn around a few times to see the sea of fans) was really into the music, the older songs and the new. For me, the best part was hearing people sing along to the new music. Everyone was very familiar with The Tipping Point. I know the band appreciate it but so do those of us who’ve been following this band in person for a long time. We quietly have this extra protective care about their wellbeing and how they are received. So when we saw people singing Break the Man, we were in tears and fist bumping each other after the song because millions of others see TTP as another winner in the band’s vast discography.
Just before the encore, the audience loudly cheered for them to come back. When they got to the stage again you could see the appreciation on Curt’s face as well as others. They could have just sat there and talked about the weather and we’d have still been screaming. There’s just something about this band…I can’t stress that enough. Their energy and their warmth are unmatched. But they did sing us a song…lol. We got to hear Creep and everyone sang it to a tee. We also got Change and of course Shout. It was an added bonus and thrill to see Roland’s face light up when he came to our side and clearly recognized familiar faces. We’re super appreciative of how this team manages to remember people given the millions of fans that they have. It pays to show up folks. Go to as many shows as you can. Be fan family. We’re all in this together. It’s a wonderful time to gather and heal with others. Community is key in life and after being around this band and the fans, I understand it now more than ever. Being a part of a community was something I didn’t think was possible given the ongoing politics in the nation, so I rejected it in my own way at different points in my life. However, after being around Tears for Fears and their fans, I see it on a spiritual level. There is nothing like family – it doesn’t have to be a blood relative, chosen families count and that’s what we’ve got with this band and their fan land.
The closing of the show was like a song itself. The band graciously took a few minutes to wave goodbye, Carina and Jamie gave out drumsticks. Bobby Bblaze was a recipient of one. Shoutout to our newest fan family member, Rick H. who helps me with my medical situation. He took a ton of beautiful pictures and is in the process of editing them. He was a real hero during this tour and we’re so grateful to he and his family.
The only weird thing that happened was the lady who decided to tinkle on one of the light fixtures in the parking lot. I didn’t notice it until someone pointed it out. There’s always one person who does something strange. The ride back to L.A. was about 2 hours and along the way we learned fans that we didn’t think would be able to make it had gotten their tickets and would be coming to the Hollywood Bowl show. We also got to hear from Silver Kitty and that for me was another highlight of the night.
Hollywood Bowl
The day of the show we got to pick up fan family member, Shelly, from North Carolina. She flew in and stayed nearby in Hollywood Hills. We checked in as soon as we got to the venue. Shoutout to the Tears for Fears VIP team, Brit and her folks were ready to go, organized and making sure everyone had their VIP packages. The entrance to the Hollywood Bowl was beautiful! It was super clean with amazing trees that have benches underneath them. The breeze was blowing and it just felt like the most amazing day. I have not felt so comfortable at an outdoor venue. Perhaps it’s the California air and the lack of east coast humidity. I have no idea…maybe local California prayer teams shout praises at dawn making for a blessed day. It’s definitely something out there that I just can’t explain. It felt like we were surrounded by heavenly beings. There was “a presence” that I have felt only at Tears for Fears shows but this time it was even more peaceful than usual.
Within twenty minutes of arrival and enjoying the ambiance and texting fellow fans that I could see them and looked forward to a quick chat, a young man came up to me and said, “I’m here to take you to Soundcheck. I’ll be responsible for you today.” I was wheeled over to a golf cart which I learned was being used for many of the attendees with ADA needs. And within seconds was relocated to a very quiet spot near the stage door. Bobby, Shelly, Rick and I sat there talking quietly and wondering where we were exactly. It was hard to tell. I text the other fans and asked if they had gone in yet and said that I hoped to see them shortly. Danny let me know they were all waiting to go in. To pass the time, we began talking about our appreciation for each singer and how awesome it was to have Lauren Evans in the fold. “I swear I hear her voice right now. It must be in my subconscious,” I said. “Is she coming at all?” Bobby and Shelly asked. But before I could even answer that I wasn’t sure if she’d be in the audience or on stage that evening, I heard her voice again. We could hear the band practicing loud and clear from the area in which we’d been placed and it was such a joy that I thought…”I’m hearing Carina but I’m hearing Lauren too. My ears, heart and soul are all a flux.” We listened carefully and each of us went back and forth with the whole, “now I hear Lauren, now I hear Carina.” I chalked it up to us just loving them so much we were likely hearing them in our psyche. Then we got the signal that it was time to go in. I tried to settle the butterflies in my stomach and remain calm.
Security guided us into the Hollywood Bowl Circle Pool. I was helped out of my wheelchair and there before us stood not just Carina but Lauren and three more incredible contributors including, JJ and Charles Jones. Amazing musicians that were on the album were now on stage. All of us in attendance (especially the longtime fans) were like kids in a candy store with our chins dropped to the ground in awe. Not only were we in the VIP soundcheck again but we were in there with all the band’s energy and joy. It was like a portal opened and we were let in to see the magnificence of it all. It truly felt like a whole other world in that space. The chairs were right up against the stage. You could see every detail, piece of equipment and all the fine things that make up a musician’s moments on stage. Several were in sunglasses as the sun was also enjoying the moment and brightly burning alongside a breeze. We got to hear three songs and lots of conversation. There were waves, nods from everyone and so much of a family atmosphere it was literally overwhelming. But you know, there was also a peace about it. It was a peace that I have only found around this band. My soul was quieted, no anxiety, no pains from injuries, no interruptive palpitations from this damaged heart, no weird thyroid jitters and other things that come from being a human on the mend. I literally felt whole and well. THAT is the reason I believe so many people go to these shows and events. I have often read descriptions about people’s out of body experiences and NDE’s. They talk about the peace they feel. That’s what it was like at that moment in the Hollywood Bowl. It was just an incredible peace and joy that is otherworldly. It is truly a blessed moment.
When the soundcheck completed, one of the On the List members had me turn around. There was Dean and the team that had made these majestic moments happen. They were waving and saying hello. I was offered the opportunity to go over and say hi but I knew the band was busy and I didn’t want to overstay my welcome. So I got back in my wheelchair as fast as I could so we could get out of their way. I do want to take a moment to say these guys are so great. They are so solid and so good at what they do. On the List has totally elevated the Tears for Fears experience. They have made it possible for so many of us to get into that additional realm of joy by organizing these experiences. There will never be enough thank yous in any language to the band and their team for what they have done.
One of the things I was told was that once I was “back there” I wouldn’t have to leave. I thought that meant I’d go to my seat early and stay there the whole time through the end of the show. Nope, it was even better than that. I was wheeled out and placed in a spot adjacent to the backstage door. The security team and those in charge of that area noted we could go get food or whatever we wanted. Awaiting next steps and dinner time, we sat quietly and behaved ourselves while rejoicing over the fact that we’d be seeing “the show of shows” that night. We were still trying to readjust our chins to our faces after seeing that stage full of all that greatness during Soundcheck when the most magnificent things began to happen…
Next thing I know, there’s family members of band members walking by. We nodded politely and stood back at a distance so we wouldn’t be in the way. They, in turn, came closer and waved. Didn’t expect that at all. My eyes lit up underneath my shades and my smile was from here to Abuja. I was like, “how cool is that?!” I was wearing a Japanese street fashion coordinate underneath my black kawaii ruffle jacket and the ruffles caught the eye of one of the kids. They stopped and stared at it and we just smiled and stared at each other. It was such a lovely and cool moment to make that connection. Then more members started walking by and we waved like happy children seeing royalty on parade. It was then that I realised I was backstage. I looked around and noticed this was one of the areas I had read about when I became a L.A. Philharmonic patron when Tears for Fears first went on tour and we heard they’d be at the Bowl in one of the interviews that Roland gave. Did they know in advance that they’d eventually be playing the Hollywood Bowl? That was another topic of discussion during our time in what we called “the sacred space.” We were back there already planning for the future. We waste no time. We were like, “We’ve got a few minutes, let’s chat about 2024 and 2025 – have you heard anything, were there any hints? Do we have the funds in place to do a few shows?” That’s the trick to all this. Strategic planning in advance. While we sat there thinking about everything and in awe of seeing the band members and their families off to the side we decided we wouldn’t go over and say anything – let them enjoy a moment of nosh to themselves – it’s only right. The soul knows when to say hey and when to let the band enjoy a moment of peace.
I should mention that I had no idea I was actually living out a dream. In my dream diary (there are video clips of it in the Tears for Fears Travel Fan Documentary of 2022) there’s a passage from 2021 where I was standing in a backstage area where there were lots of the band’s friends and celebrities. One of their daughters was there and she was leaning on me while talking to someone and I was nodding and listening. I was so confused by that dream. I kept thinking, why are we in this odd spot with all these celebrities? Am I working or volunteering with them or what? It was only a day or so after the Hollywood Bowl show that I realised I had dreamt of this scene before it actually happened. Many who know me have read that diary and it freaks us out every time something actually comes true. If anyone wants to read it let me know. It’s kind of trippy but interesting nonetheless.
Now, here we were, in reality experiencing it all. As we stayed in place peacefully and silently rejoicing it was made clear that we had free reign to walk around and get food but it seemed odd that we were to eat in the same spot as the band, so we waited a little longer until the main concert venue vendors opened. We saw Jamie and Charlton as well. Shelly and I saw Roland walking to get something and at that moment I began “glitching reality.” What does that mean? Often at shows, I have a hard time believing it’s real. It’s hard to believe that I’m not still sitting in my room afterschool with my dolls, homework, books and Tears for Fears’ music on repeat keeping me company. I spent hours daydreaming of being at a concert or being near them and just basking in peace. So every now and again during a show, I close my eyes and sing along then open them to see that very scene that I imagined so many years ago has actually come true. But it causes a mental glitch. I often have to shake my head or take a sip of water because the fact that all those years of daydreaming of being in their presence has now come true is almost too much to bear. Is this really happening? If I close my eyes will I be back in that sad room or will I be at a concert? This is part of my show experience. I glitch reality a lot. So…when the next wildest thing happened, I was in shock. I had been sitting there and I guess I was looking at my phone or folding a piece of merch, I can’t remember but I look up and there’s Curt Smith the Great standing in front of me. He had come over to say hello. I froze.
“Oh my…Ohhhh. Oh wow!” I said. I was barely coherent as I tried to get out of my wheelchair and attempt to stand up to salute him properly. I believe I handed whatever was sitting in my lap to Rick. I was determined to salute this man like the king he is but he kindly and graciously said not to get up. The “glitch reality” began. Is this real? Is this him? Is he really standing right there or am I trying to manifest this into reality? It’s so hard to write about this. You all know me…I was so overwhelmed with gratitude…One would have thought I’d never met him before. I’ve seen him in person and attended his events on so many occasion these past 13 years and each time is even more exhilarating than the previous beautiful encounter. It’s just like seeing an angel in real life. He leaned down and we gave each other a hug.
I’ve read stories about people who have encounters with angels and it felt like that. It felt like…like I was being taken away to the next dimension. It’s no surprise that I felt part of me leave this planet at that moment. Something from my below my shoulders was lifting out and away. I guess a portion of my soul left me. I felt an energy toward my head that leaned forward and lifted away. I guess it went with him as our hug completed. We chatted with him for a few minutes about the venue, the amazing soundcheck and the beauty of the area. Some things I won’t mention for security reasons because it was clear he trusted us enough to tell us that and it probably shouldn’t be broadcast (e.g. home locations, etc). We have a rule, even if you know where they are for the day or where they live, where they like to eat, or whatever it is…we don’t broadcast it. Let ‘em live in peace.
Bobby noted we should take a photo and so I had everyone stand together and then Curt convinced me to join in a picture with him (he knows I don’t take photos lol!) and I’m so glad he did. It’s now one of my favourite photos that I’ve taken with him since joining the fan team on the road 13 or so years ago. After that amazing encounter we tried to float back down to earth but we realised we were never on earth to begin with. This was a whole other realm and we’d be in it for the rest of the month. Our place on Cloud 9 was solidified.
The Concert
Cold War Kids front and center is an experience. These guys are not only super cool and very cute, they also have a lot of soul. Watching them perform was like experiencing the meshing of good energies. They truly support and love each other. They have this habit of connecting with one another during songs. They’ll lean on each other or in one case press their heads together and sing. It’s so touching and warm to watch. Their sound is also extremely soulful and reminds me of a genre of music that started up in 2010 – in the Kenna era with bands like Passion Pit and Foster the People. It has that effervescent energy that you find among people who do not subscribe to political drudgery and participate in social ills. These guys have a purity about them that seems like they just “get humanity.” They were a perfect partner for this tour and again, I’m happy and excited to connect with their fans…and I did. The young lady next to me flat out said, “I’m here for Cold War Kids.” She was from Puerto Rico and she danced her arse off the entire time and I too got into it, chair dancing and singing along to the songs that I, now, know better after attending more than one show on this tour.
A moment of silence for their crew member who perished during the tour. We don’t have any information on it other than he had sustained some serious injuries unrelated to the tour. One of the Tears for Fears team stepped in for him and worked the audio equipment for the remainder of their time on the road. That was really nice. Tears for Fears’ team made sure they didn’t have to scramble to find someone else. We wish them much healing because losing someone is just unspeakably painful. Huge thanks to their team for all they gave on that tour…piano, shaker and all!
After Cold War Kids set, we tried to gather up for group photos but security wasn’t having any of it. Even those of us who were in the Circle Pool were not allowed to go past front row without a wristband. Lady Patty and I were trying to have a conversation and they stopped that. Both Patty and I looked like two sad kids when we couldn’t chat and take pictures. We did manage to get Kai up to the second row for a fun chat.
We love Kai! Met her through Silver Kitty years ago and it was the best friendship match! So grateful!
It’s always great to see her and have her in the fold! Still very grateful to SK for that introduction so long ago. But I didn’t get to speak to Silver Kitty and very few of us got to chat so I was very grateful for the few Tears for Fears fan family conversations I did get to have. Sadly, I didn’t get to speak to Danny, his sister longtime fan sweet Pennie who made us some TFF pillows, nor see his husband Mike. I didn’t get to hug Alisa. But we did text afterwards and everyone had a great time. We got online the next morning after the show and did our usual “omgeeees.” Due to several fans’ various pressing circumstances, the post-tour party plans in L.A. were cut short a bit. We’ll try again with everyone in the future. I think half of us didn’t even know we’d get to even attend shows on the TTP2 tour so the fact we made it at all is enough to be thankful for as a whole.
The Tears for Fears concert began about 30 mins after Cold War Kids and we, packed like sardines, made friends with people we didn’t know there with us on the second row. I got a few more emails to add to our subscription list and as soon as I heard “Stay” I let the newbies on the row know, “They’re about to enter the stage.” We all looked straight ahead and then the heavenly glow emerged followed by the band walking out on stage to all of us screaming and cheering!
It was all the things – a totally cosmic experience and, for once, I allowed myself to accept this was really happening! Here’s the show from a different angle. You can see us all up front, hands in the air and full of excitement. Also, the fashion that night was sublime. Carina, Lauren, the band members, they all looked immaculate. We still haven’t found a way to get one of those lovely brand shirts of Curt’s. We’re working on it. Gotta get our shirt sizes together.
One of the most majestic moments in the show was during “Rivers of Mercy” – a fan favourite on the new album. The crowd was encouraged to turn their lights on and boy did they. From the front row to the last, all lights were on in support of that majestic song. Everyone participated and paid attention. It was absolutely beautiful. Curt even mentioned his reaction in an interview some weeks later.
After the concert, every celeb that has ever shown up in a TFF reference, from Psych’s Shawn (James Roday) to Julian Lennon, were back in the area where we’d been earlier in the day. We waited on the crowd to thin out before leaving and that’s how we saw all these stars. They were all full of “hi and hellos!” We were literally like “omgoodness that’s (insert celeb)!!!” Of all the legends, here comes Lady FP shining like an Angel. She gently made her way through the crowd and we couldn’t help but call her name. She was sweet to turn around and greet us. It is such a coincidence that every lady on my row was wearing one of Tory Burch’s newest scents. It wafted through the first two rows like a sublime rose in a garden in the middle of the cosmic woods under an electric sky. *TB fans, see what I did there? lol.
The Universe blessed me with an opportunity to take some more photos with Lauren, Charles, JJ and team. Was happy to learn Lauren’s family was there. Curt let us know she was a big help getting everyone together for the show. At this point, I want some Carina and Lauren on a t-shirt. But let me not start up my ever growing wish list for dolls and brollies featuring the band. They obliged us with the beach towel this year that a few of us had been begging for and I bought two. One as a security blanket and another for the shrine.
Later on that night, an ADA team gently came and picked us up and took us to the car. I expected to feel like I’d been put back on earth by the gentle hand of The Almighty but no…the dream wasn’t over. We went out for some early “trick or treating” – more like holiday caroling (that’s what we’re calling it) afterwards at some familiar places in Hollywood Hills. Our final stop was a majestic looking cliff that oversaw the city. It was the perfect ending to a therapeutic miraculous healing tour. I spent the rest of my time in L.A. getting treatment for my Lymphedema.
There was another week in Oceanside where I spent time in therapy. That was followed by a few more days through the desert and America’s plains including iconic stops in Roland Town, near Mayfield drive in the neighbourhood of Fort Smith – look it up, it’s a real place. Then I found myself back in the hands of my east coast nurse who said, “Wow, you’re just glowing! You also shrunk!” 40% of the inflammation from this illness was gone. I was literally down 5 inches in overall body circumference. My friends were like, “That music therapy really works for you. Looks like you’re going to have to move to Cali for good!” Something about being in the proximity of Tears for Fears and the ocean…that’s the only thing that has brought forth a quick healing. Nothing else except intense doctor visits has worked. For the millionth time, there’s something about that band. Nowadays, I’m not as dizzy when I stand up and all the weird fevers have vanished. My entire torso is in remission, so I’m convinced Curt and Lauren’s hugs had healing powers. I’ve tracked my progress after every treatment and therapy session. Nothing had changed as drastically as the moments after those hugs. I don’t know what kind of angels they are but there’s something healing about them. Again, I’m convinced. Health is wealth, people. I’m not the only one who experienced it. A few others with chronic illnesses noted they just felt better out there in their presence. I didn’t scoff at music therapy but I never took it seriously. A series of Tears for Fears songs are going to rid me of a debilitating illness that prevents a person from walking? Well, after these past two tours, and being able to reduce my time in a wheelchair, I believe in it! Music therapy is real and it works! Shoutout to Carolyn and so many others including the young lady who stirred out of a coma after her brother played The Tipping Point on a cd player placed next to her ear in her hospital bed. Again, something about that band!
Rescheduled shows followed the stateside tour and we’ll talk about those in just a moment…It’s important to note that while the band was busy on tour, their family members, band family and alumni were also working on some special music extravaganzas.
Simultaneously
Julián Orzabal’s new album, Frequency of Memory was released just after the PNW shows. You can buy it here. Oftentimes, we’ve noted that his sound is great for road trips. This album is a cut above in style from his previous albums. It’s got a dance vibe that makes you want to open the sun roof and start “dancing with your memories” all puns intended. Check out that track on the album with a similar name. It’s definitely a favourite. This album is worthy of looping. Add it to your shuffle and be sure to leave a review! He’s also partnered on a musical endeavour with The Upside Down Clinic. Listen to their latest…
Also with new music is his amazing nephew and Roland’s son, Pascal (Quarterboy). His album is another that is hard to turn off because it’s so good. It gets into your system and you find yourself unwilling to turn it off. I dare to admit I kept it on all night a few times. I just couldn’t and wouldn’t turn it off. Really enjoying this. That family and band supply it all!
The artists in the family are hard at work. If you haven’t been following the incredible work of Roland’s son, Raoul, be sure to see the latest from Raoul Orzabal’s art collection that he shares on Instagram and Facebook weekly. He has prints for sale and several of us own a few. They are absolutely phenomenal!
Lady Wilder Angel
Lady Wilder’s senior year preparations were immediately following the tour. While we were all in a panic about the local weather and possible land slides affecting band members in Cali, dear Curt was far away in another state helping his sweet angel get ready for her last year of Uni. Good gracious, where did the time go? We’re keeping all their children, siblings and family in our prayers and well wishes as they launch into their next steps in life.
Lady Diva Smith
Lady Diva has been delighting us with her heavenly voice for over 2 years. She released a really well-done piece of work called “Bet” and it was available on Spotify for a while. We can’t find it anymore on that platform so we’re going to check Apple Music. Don’t really want to bother her parents about where to find it but if anyone has a link where it can be streamed on a loop and she’ll profit from it, let us know. She’s been invited to lots of events it seems and delivering amazing performances! She’s really good!
Tears for Fears Alumni
Oleta Adams
Our dear Royal Lady Oleta Adams was planning a show for November during this time. Sadly she came down with Covid and so it’s postponed until December. Be sure to get tickets for that if there are any available. We’re happy she’s on the mend!
James Colah
Our dear Mr. Colah, who toured with the TFF supporting band The Adventures during Tears for Fears ’85 tour has been super busy. He noted the following to fans, family and friends on his latest post:
Dear Friends I’m really excited to announce that ‘Mother River’ featuring, ‘Sujatha’ is now available on YouTube. Please click on the link in the comments section! “Mother River” is the first original song released as part of Sujatha’s “The Electronic Music Project”, in collaboration with award-winning producer, composer and arranger James Colah.
All lyrics/vocal melodies composed and performed by Sujatha. All music composed, performed, produced, mixed and mastered by James Colah at James Colah Productions Studio, UK.’
The piece is a fusion of electronic and ethnic music, combining ethnic-Indian vibe, English and Sanskrit lyrics with electronic music arrangement. Saraswati Maa is goddess of music, creative arts and wisdom and by listening to or singing along Sanskrit shlokas, we bring positive vibration to the planet and help to open heart of humanity. The mission of this project is to bring more true joy and love to the world and celebrate life in new, conscious way. Much love to all!
A Moment of Silence
Also during this time, we as a fan family recognize the power of pets and pups in our lives. Puppy Ivy Smith & Tamara’s Lord Seymour of Nash passed away in the final days of the tour. We learned of Lord Seymour’s passing the day before the Palm Springs show and of Ivy’s passing not long after the Hollywood Bowl concert. It was gut wrenching. We hope that all souls of the former living are in a peaceful place recognizing each other (and in their case, having a big bowl of Puppy Chow with Bella Ivy and Bobo). For those who don’t believe in it or have never had a supernatural experience, we thank you for your kindness and support for those who have. The Universe doesn’t begin and end with earth and we hope that all will have a peaceful experience navigating these journeys.
Speaking of peaceful journeys and the cosmos…the great beyond. I feel The Tipping Point helped us take another look at the next dimension and the line between our earthly existence and that of which happens when we step out of it due to illness or the myriad of ways one leaves this body behind. Even before the album we’ve had conversations with individuals who have felt a sort of universal cosmic pull in the midst of a show. One young man was quoted in a newspaper as saying, “I don’t know if I saw G-d or Tears for Fears just now.” This was right after the Shaky Knees Concert in 2019. That whole show and the days that followed were absolutely filled with spiritual happenstance.
The band has a lot of fans who are spiritual fam. One awesome fan family member is Rabbi Ryan who sent in another awesome video. Any time he is out and hears a Tears for Fears song he kindly sends us a video. He has no idea how excited we get to see those texts come in with he and his family dancing along to Tears for Fears music being played by an appreciative band!
We appreciate Rabbi Ryan so much! He and his family are incredible humanitarians and contributors!
So…before long it was time to go “Back to London!”
The Pryzm show that was postponed last year due to the passing of Her Majesty the Queen did indeed take place as promised. Following that show was the BBC Radio 2 in the Park with Tears for Fears headlining. Both shows were just absolutely incredible and so many fans from the Tears for Fears Travel Fan team and the Tears for Fears Fan Forum on Facebook came out to support and show their love for the band. Big shoutout to Sean Kennedy, Darren Hull and our beloved Fan Ambassador of 2022, Stephen Marshall who were on hand taking pictures, recording snippets and ensuring everyone who couldn’t be there in person was still able to be a part of the experience. Huge THANK YOU TO CURT SMITH who took time out after the show to shake hands, pose for photos with fans and sign autographs. They had a crazy schedule that week with interviews and more but he still came out and represented the goodness of the band with this incredible gesture! Thank you, Curt!!! Huge thanks to the band for always going the extra mile and for keeping the UK close to heart.
As usual, many experienced the superfanitis following the London shows. It’s just part of the experience. Once you get in their feel good realm, it’s hard to go back to the reality that is earth. We hear you Lidian! We really do!
“Sorry if I am still dreaming about this… does anyone know why are they so magic? I had no idea the post-gig would give grieving vibes ” -Lidian Bonfa
Kudos and high fives to those who flew in from Boston, San Diego, Idaho and North Dakota to be in London for those shows. That was a huge gesture of love and devotion to the band. Also read here about Patricia G.’s experience of flying out to meet up with fans and enjoy the show!
On the Radio
Nihal Arthanayake’s interview that followed was one of the best follow-ups we’ve heard yet. He is a phenomenal journalist and on air host that does his homework. As mentioned before, he doesn’t go down the list of the same old questions that far too many radio hosts have asked. He did another deep dive. Try to get a listen if you haven’t already. We probably should have recorded that because it’s now archived and we, the public, do not have access to it. In the interview Roland spoke about more music coming from their vast unpublished works. No timeline given, just a note that, yes, they plan to give us even more audible gems.
There were additional interviews that followed including a BBC Radio 2 interview and a Tim Burgess post talked of another listening hour… then Mr. Burgess of The Charlatans UK made good on his word. Listen to the podcast…
Radio Bath had a replay of Dave Mason’s 2022 Tears for Fears – Curt and Roland Brotherly Love Interview on the 22nd of September. Dave Mason also had a birthday on the 16th of November! Many happy returns to him!
*Moving forward, we’ll save those audio files as the radio stations don’t always keep the day’s broadcast for more than a few months or so. We want to make sure everything is preserved so we’ll go back to capturing that audio and store it in the archives.
More Band Family News
Jamie Wollam
So, just after all these amazing music moments, long time fan family member, Yara N. ran into Drummer Genius Jamie at an event where ABC’s Andy Carr was featured. From what we understand, Jamie may have been a guest drummer at the show. Seeing these three in the same space was pretty darn cool. Many of us are ABC fans and the band supported Tears for Fears during the 2019 UK shows. Big thanks to Yara for staying on the scene and supporting the band and their friends in music.
Carina’s show in January
Carina Round will be playing a sold out show on the 18th and 19th of January at The Echo in Los Angeles. The show sold out pretty quick. She’s going to do her album “The Disconnection” in its entirety both nights. That’s a treat! Again, it’s sold out but it looks like there are some verified resale tickets on the Live Nation site. There will be VIP opportunities as well.
Lauren’s collaborations and possible Q&A
If you’re following Lauren on Instagram, you’ll see she’s apart of some really incredible music collaborations and has a plethora of incredible music friends including one of her besties, Kitten Kuroi, who just toured with Billy Idol. Lauren is definitely one to watch and enjoy online as well as in person. She’s got exciting things in her IG stories. She also has a very dedicated fan base embedded in the Tears for Fears fan family. Sharron Foxx hosts a fan group dedicated to all things Lauren. You can join here. Lookout for a possible Q&A in the future.
A Deeper Look Into Fan Land
One of the reasons we have such a good time on the tours and are able to connect is due to the endless work of the behind the scenes teams. Let us take a moment to appreciate the group and page administrators.
Danny Cricks has been a Tears for Fears fan since day one and currently manages the Tears for Fears group on Facebook. Throughout the tours he announces reminders and provides countdowns so that busy fans can stop and take a moment check on their VIP passes and remember to get ready for shows. Thanks to Danny we get our anniversary of shows and albums celebrated each year He is the concert husband of Kim H who has worked on numerous events and fan activities over the years – all the way back to the Soul on Board days. You’ll find that Danny is a humble man, very modest and friendly. And you better believe that he is out here supporting the band by going to multiple shows. He is that kind of fan! Love you Danny!
Darren Hull is the newest administrator for the Tears for Fears Fan Forum. He took over this group some years ago and renamed it to reflect the goal of this service. In this group you’ll find a crossover from other groups. Discussions on shows, upcoming events, wish lists and a weekly show and share featuring the growing collection of merchandise and souvenirs from past and present shows. Darren provides live videos from concerts, band Q&As as well t-shirts for fans to wear and identify each other at concerts and events. The fan forum also includes a few members of the band.
Sharon Foxx recently joined in the world of administrators creating groups that focus on the band members. Sharron has a lovely group that highlights Lauren Evans and all her work with the band as well as her ongoing success as a musician. We’ll likely have a group Zoom call at some point. No promise of band members and family joining that call. We’re just doing a check in and we’re happy to have a safe place to host it. Thank you Sharron!
Shoutout to Angel Jones who recently created a group for Tears for Fears and also has one dedicated to Curt Smith and The Korgis. She also reported and helped remove some unsavoury lies and rumours in an unofficial band account’s video on YouTube. These ladies alongside Carolyn H., Sheila S., Heather and Dave H. all host admin Facebook groups where you can find a variety of focus – from making friends, to expressing gratitude and even collecting and swapping iconic merch. These admins keep the conversations going and help support the ever-growing number of Tears for Fears fans. I dare say, without these opportunities to interact, we’d probably not have as many “in the know.”
Also very grateful for Sujit who is currently in Japan. He flew in for the shows in Western Canada. We love what he has done to preserve his VIP goodies. He writes:
“Over a month since I saw the @tearsforfearsmusic concert in Vancouver and I can’t stop shaking my head in how great it was. The drummer @jameswollam captured them coming back for the encore and I did a screen grab (hope it is okay). The crowd was going crazy and you can see one in the front row who was especially in nirvana! I am definitely one of this group @tfftravelfans!”
Big Hello to Yaseen from Kuwait/London!! He always offers a kind word!
With that, you are encouraged to connect with the Tears for Fears Travel Fans and various groups that support attending shows and events with the band as they light up DarkerWavesFest this weekend in Huntington Beach, CA. It’s tomorrow, Saturday, 18 November and it’s also sold out but some hotels were offering general admission tickets. If we can’t get in, we’ll sing from the hotel balcony!
Thanks for reading!
Be sure to follow the band’s official account @tearsforfears @curtsmith (Facebook & X/Twitter), @tearsforfearsmusic @curtsmithofficial (Instagram) and you can also find them on Threads. See you at the shows!
Much appreciation to Patty, Nicole, Anthony, Daniella and the magnificent Christine! We see you!
Sincere apologies to those who were eagerly awaiting all the footage and notes from Curt’s wonderful appearance at IKAR shul on 25 September, 2023. We have the video completed and a write up about that incredible service. However, due to the events that occurred recently and ongoing escalated catastrophes in the region, we’ll share it when we feel it is safe. IKAR is a safe place, a home of diverse humanitarians led by a leadership that works toward and wants the absolute best for everyone vs just one group of affected people. Sadly, far too many are caught up in the divisive rhetoric and aren’t hearing voices of reason who are working to heal and unify a region in turmoil. So, we’ll find the right time and place to share the joys of that beautiful day when it’s safe again. We have so much respect for those interfaith speakers that were there that day, 25, September, 2023. They showed how beautiful it is to be together and filled with gratitude and reverence for that mystical space we call the spirit world. Looking forward to being with them there in person. Gargantuan thanks to Chazan Hillel Tigay and Curt Smith for leading the music for such a beautiful time of year. What an amazing day!
Danny Cricks has been a Tears for Fears fan since day one and currently manages the Tears for Fears group on Facebook. Throughout the tours he announces reminders and provides countdowns so that busy fans can stop and take a moment check on their VIP passes and remember to get ready for shows. Thanks to Danny we get our anniversary shows and albums celebrated each year. He is the concert husband of Kim H. who has worked on numerous events and fan activities over the years – all the way back to the Soul on Board days. You’ll find that Danny is a humble man, very modest and friendly. And you better believe that he is out here supporting the band by going to multiple shows. He is that kind of fan! Love you Danny!
Darren Hull is the newest administrator for the Tears for Fears Fan Forum. He took over this group some years ago and renamed it to reflect the goal of this service. In this group you’ll find a crossover from other groups. Discussions on shows, upcoming events, wish lists and a weekly show and share featuring the growing collection of merchandise and souvenirs from past and present shows. Darren provides live videos from concerts, band Q&As as well t-shirts for fans to wear and identify each other at shows. The fan forum also includes a few members of the band.
Sharon Foxx recently joined in the world of administrators creating groups that focus on the band members. Sharron has a lovely group that highlights Lauren Evans and all her work with the band as well as her ongoing success as a musician. We’ll likely have a group Zoom call at some point. No promise of band members and family joining that call. We’re just doing a check in and we’re happy to have a safe place to host it. Thank you Sharron!
Long Post. * London trip and ***Tears For Fears concert. If you wish to skip either, look for the symbols.
* This trip was quick in the making, albeit a year in the works. A small club concert for the band Tears For Fears sold out over a year ago, but was postponed due to the passing of the Queen. When rescheduled I had fancied trying to get a ticket from someone no longer able to attend. Cue Barbara, a member of a FB group I check in on. She kindly offered me her ticket and I jumped on booking a flight. This was just about 10 days to show day. I bought with points as flights were going for close to $1500 round trip. I booked a cheap room around the corner and Kim assisted in logistics of bus and train travel to and from Heathrow (since I would be in Zone 6). My flight on the 12th actually was waiting at the gate when I got there. Will my travel curse be crushed? While on my phone at the gate, the second of the two gigs in Kingston, at the Pryzm Club, offered up more tickets so I jumped on it and now had both 45 minute sets booked. Luck on my side? The flight was uneventful, I arrived early morning to sunshine and great travel weather on the SL7 bus to Kingston Upon Thames. It was so nice to see the club as I rolled my case to the hotel. It was only 9:30 there so I wandered around. As soon as I could check in I got on the way to the West End of London to visit my old haunts. Being that it was about 23 hours in from the departure of my flight and 12 hrs from waking on Tuesday morning, I had been up a considerable amount of time already. Only about two hours nap on the plane as they had audio of TFF’s newest album, The Tipping Point, on audio. I fell asleep on the train into Waterloo and a nice Japanese passenger woke my at arrival into London. I hoofed it to the National Portrait Gallery for the Paul McCartney photo exhibit there. There were some very insightful photos of Jane Asher, and a few of his bandmates, The Beatles. But mostly my phone was blowing up with the Wifi there, and I got to touch base with my husband at home and let him know travel went well. After that I just wandered the streets of Covent Garden, Carnaby Street, Saville Row and enjoyed a city I have spent an awful lot of time in during my life enjoying music and art. I had some dinner in the city and then knew it was time to get back to the hotel and rest. I had been up clearly more than 48 hrs.
*** Show day. I slept in as I knew it would be a late night. Walking in London yesterday had my legs sore so I set out for some potassium in the form of bananas for breakfast and to mail a postcard to a friend. The light walk was good and no one, as of noon was lining up at the club. Darren, the admin of the Facebook TFF Fan Forum met up with me about 12:30 and we headed the Kings Tun pub across the street from the venue. Over the next hour people started to arrive, have a drink, lunch and just visit. Somewhere in the 1 o’clock hour a line began to form outside Pryzm. I felt the need to join the line, along with another fan. We spent that time to doors at 6:45pm visiting with people from around the globe, sharing music stories and particularly of Tears For Fears. It was a truly pleasant time. I was fortunate later on, before doors, to meet drummer Jamie Wollam, in the pub. He could not be more friendly and so nice to be able to meet. He is such a talent. At doors it was an obstacle course of up two flights of stairs, and then into the venue and down stairs onto the main floor. I went for Roland Orzabal’s side as I was on Curt Smith’s side in North Carolina in July. I found a spot front row between Roland and backing vocalist Carina Round. It would be my first time hearing her, as my other two recent shows we had Lauren Evans on vocals. I truly enjoyed this concert with Carina. I got a kick out of the plethora of 80s tunes being played pre show in the venue. A short Tipping Point song ladened set with some big hits added in totaling 45 minutes was planned. That would be 45 of the best minutes in my concerts history to be added to some incredible concerts I have experienced in my life. The band comes out and plays No Small Thing and Tipping Point. Roland had some witty banter about the last time they played two shows in one evening, and that turned out to be decades earlier, at the beginnings of their careers. Time goes so fast when you are having fun. And when that fun means being so close to a band I have followed for 40+ years that I am sharing oxygen with them it was truly a once in a lifetime experience. These guys still play massive arenas. This opportunity was something I was very proud of myself for jumping on when I got the chance.
Set two meant going outside for the second queue of the day, being further back meant searching out another view, this time on Roland’s side but on a raised portion, beside the stage for an almost profile view of the band. Unfortunately the stage was so small and deep that seeing Doug Petty on keys and Jamie Wollam on drums was a challenge. I did get a few photos of Charleton Pettis on lead guitar to Curt’s side. Amazing to hear the same set repeated and prepare myself for special musical points in songs and some notes being hit by Curt and Roland. They have only become better at what they do over the years. The Tipping Point was definitely helpful to me in getting of the loss of family members. And now seeing this band three times in 2 years has been great fun.
I would like to thank all the people that I met that Thursday. I will not name names for fear of leaving someone out or identifying you when work thought you were out with a cold. But I had the best time and hope to see you again.
* Friday morning, roll out of bed, scrounge for some food (bananas again) and roll on to the SL7 bus stop back to LHR for my midday flight home. Talk with an American woman living in Kingston and Beirut, who sells the wine her husband makes. It certainly passed the time as I was sadly leaving my favorite city in the world, and I have been to quite a few. My flight home again was as planned so my travel curse is officially lifted. My husband picked me up at O’Hare airport. And life as I knew it was back to normal. But I have this in my bucket list of concerts forever. And I am so happy that a year in the making came through with this accomplishment.
Photo credits :Patricia Golding. No authorization to share without her permission.
The Superfanitis has been intense these past few days dear friends. This happens after every show and every encounter. I sit down and suddenly it hits me that I just saw the band again. It never seems real. It feels like the Great Higher Power has allowed me to touch a heavenly dimension. I’m often in a daze for weeks afterwards, one time it took a few months to adjust to reality. Thinking back to the first time I saw Tears for Fears, I remember feeling like I was floating above the world. I was having an out of body experience. After a week or so I was literally fighting with reality. I was beyond happy that after all those years of being so focused on them mentally and spiritually I finally had that physical euphoric experience of being in their space – in their presence. It’s a very unique feeling and one that is impossible to forget. It propelled me into a whole other mindset. From that point forward, all I wanted to do was support their shows and be present. After a few more Tears for Fears related events that year, I learned I wasn’t the only one that felt that way. Following one event, several fans were in the parking lot (as I came to see was the custom). These fans already had a list of other Tears for Fears events that were coming up. They said the only way to deal with the post show blues is to stay connected and try to go to anything they host. They showed me a list of what was coming up. “You have to fly back in for it. You must!” I have tried to ever since. Now, we are a solid kerfuffle of fans and aim to help each other get to the band’s events.
Just a few days ago I got a note from Lady KT in Florida. She said, “Hey, you got any extra Tears for Fears tickets? I saw (well known band from the same era) the other night, but I didn’t get the same semi-spiritual experience I get with Tears for Fears.” That says a lot. So many of us feel like that. Other bands are incredible but there’s something about Tears for Fears…it’s an unmatched energy that is hard to explain. One fan noted that she had been a fan for years but this was her first show. She was depressed because she woefully regretted not having seen them sooner.
Sitting Speechless
Because of the overwhelming feeling of bliss and otherworldly energy followed by the thud of a sudden landing back to reality, it’s been harder to keep up with this tour despite the very welcomed days of respite between shows at times where we would collect our thoughts. After the Franklin show, I found myself with one of the toughest cases of superfanitis yet…I had bad headaches and felt so weak I slept for two days the following weekend. As many know, I’m in some serious physical therapy for Lymphedema. I have rehab nurses who help me get around and take me to the shows as it’s the only time I get out except for medical reasons. My nurses have been so overwhelmed with awe and joy of the events this year and last (they come to Soundcheck). Nurse Jennifer from Nash was so impressed with the details of the stage. She walked around the venue throughout the night taking in all the gorgeous views of images displayed for each song. It was truly phenomenal to say the least. This tour has been hard to sum up. How does a band supersede themselves year after year? They are the kings of perfecting their craft. They truly rule the world.
So here we are in the home stretch. The band is literally headed to the great pacific northwest in North America including the wonderful city of Vancouver. We’re beyond excited. Then they’ll head down the West Coast for shows in Sacramento, Palm Springs and of course Los Angeles at the Hollywood Bowl. Soon, we’ll have another year of amazing Tears for Fears shows for the record books. But what does that mean afterwards? For some, it’s simply trying to survive rounds of superfanitis until the next set of shows. It’s real folks. We’ve got receipts!
Stephen Kohlmann is one of the dedicated Tears for Fears Travel Fans that participates in conversations online with fellow fans. His recent post was a clear testament to what it’s like for fans AFTER the show. That aftermath is really something.
He’s not alone. Over 40 posts like these have been floating around in the various groups. One fan has started a practice of meditation and praying because she said she feels an energy leading her to do so. The show is just so cosmic that earth feels uncomfortable and we’re unable to face it. We just want more shows, more events, more time in that beautifully curated space we call a Tears for Fears soundcheck and concert. Serenity now!
Highlights from recent shows
On the Tour page you can find videos that relate to each show. Below are some sentiments and insights gathered from hard core fans as it pertains to some of the historic venues the band played during the tour thus far.
Merch Tips:
A few of us bought every single tshirt and accoutrement. Combined total for each item was in the mid hundreds. Ask for the beach towel first. Most who are buying one of everything have a tendency to also be a part of the VIP Soundcheck. Know that your VIP bag will carry half of all they’ve got available. It’s a huge bag. Bigger in person than in pictures. They also have up to 4XL on some of the shirts. We measured and saw that several shirts went up to 62 inches in circumference.
Madison Square Garden New York
It’s over 100 years old, opening its doors back in 1879 and is named the coolest arena in America. Our darling Cindy “The Concert Chick” represented the very dedicated TFF NYC team with friends in tow. Family and friends of the band were also present and that, in our opinion, made the show extra special. Tears for Fears’ fan base has always been a great mix of men and women appreciating their music and now in the past 10 years the shows are known to include whole families – with second and third generation Tears for Fears fans. The teens and very young grandchildren are singing along word for word. It’s a family holiday to go see them play. That’s huge! The band has acknowledged it as well. They see you out there!
Bethel New York
Home of the historic original Woodstock, this location had several swooning. We were so excited to see this venue on the list for all the reasons a music aficionado can imagine. Legends were born at Woodstock. A new era formed on that soil. That amazing music festival led and helped push for a revolution that included rights for all who step foot in this country. The band is now a part of that history. Tears for Fears’ lyrics and overall message fit right in with the essence of the land. The History of the Big Chair podcast hosts said it best.
Toronto Canada
The band finally returned to Toronto after nearly 4+ (they were last there in 2015 or 2017?). Our amazing friend and dedicated die hard fan, Joe G brought his entire family plus friends to the show. He then drove up to Laval, Quebec for the next show! Joe has been coming to the United States for every tour as far back as we can remember. It’s awesome that all he had to do this time was hop in his car! Yay! Finally! Tears for Fears in his backyard!
Toronto is special for many reasons including the city where “Head Over Heels” was filmed. Also, the famous Massey Hall show took place there. Such an amazing city that so many of our fellow fans call home. We hope the band will continue to keep it on the tour list or find a nice spot to set up a weeklong residency.
Raleigh North Carolina, Nashville/Franklin
(From the moderator)
When we hear of the tour we usually get several tickets to shows even if we haven’t booked our plane tickets. In this case, I had planned to ride with my medical team to get treatment the day before and after and then head off to Franklin. But that became impossible. So, I gave my tickets to some dedicated fans in the area including one who had a sick puppy that afternoon. After offering the ticket she noted she wasn’t able to go because of the sick dog. But the suggested pet sitter came to the rescue and she was able to attend what was her very first show AND capture some really cool interactions from the front row. Lisa W. and Roland had a cool convo. So grateful that worked out!
OMG, I’m so excited!!! I had two friends in the audience who actually captured this moment for me! I’ve been a fan since The Hurting came out, so this made my night. @tearsforfears, you were AMAZING!!! @AndyeIsTheNews – I will post more later today! pic.twitter.com/6VytMMKEMj
— Lisa Wolfe (she/they) (@baileypup97) July 9, 2023
TFF Nash (Franklin)
*This show was recorded for a future DVD. The venue was gorgeous. It was constructed out of a rock quarry. You’ll see it in HD on the DVD.
I first heard Tears for Fears in Tennessee as a toddler. Several of my family members chose East Tennessee as their first stop in America. The band’s music was on rotation on the way to school as well as the faith based international day care center I attended for several years. Returning to the area for this show was a full circle moment. I literally had to stop one of my relatives from coming to the show bearing too many thank you gifts. Huge thanks to Curt, Roland, Lauren, Charlton, Jamie and On the List – they know why. I swear this band just brings me an immense amount of joy and healing. When several relatives returned to our original nation(s), TFF’s music was all I had left to remember those hopeful times. They were a huge part of my every day since age 5/6. This visit to Nashville/Franklin was part of my physical therapy and music therapy program suggested by two of my doctors. To be able to enjoy soundcheck and all the accoutrement that came with it is worth its weight in gold. It is the true lottery ticket. Nothing compares. I lost two inches of inflammation after that show. Now I only have 8 more to go. It was a joy to experience and see signs of improvement in my health while being in the Tears for Fears environment. I look forward to being able to walk again. Sadly the superfanitis hit and I fell into a weird depression like everyone else so now I know that following their events, I need to have rehab lined up so that I can recoup mentally. Crazy but true!
Lady Tamara and Lady Ann were there as were a ton of familiar faces and fans that travel to see the band when they are nearby. Janice Jennings (Alabama), Teresa P (Georgia), Nicole B (Virginia), The Sunflower Sister and so many other familiar faces -most of whom were at the Tampa and Atlanta shows in 2022. Darren from the UK came and so did several patients from various medical facilities. I guess Tears for Fears is part of our medical treatment plan? We are here for it! Their music sure does prompt healing! Shoutout to the lady that flew in from New York (fellow wheelchair user) to be present. She noted how she has been going to shows for years in sickness and in health.
The venue ensured the ADA seating had a great view of the stage. I stayed in my second-row center seat because I already purchased tickets to sit with my friends but had I not, I would have requested a change to the ADA seats. If you’re experiencing any mobility issues, some of these ADA sections aren’t bad at all. At this venue, there was an unobstructed view of the stage and plenty of space to stretch out ailing legs. We can discuss offline if we want to try to sit together next time granted the space is as nice as some of these that have been provided. Very grateful that the world is becoming more accessible for all.
So, here’s to Skittles, Sesame Street minis, car plates and sounding great! #iykyk Huge thanks to Lady Tamara of Nash for all her efforts in ensuring things went extra well that day. Big shoutout to Nurse Jennifer, Vanderbilt Medical team (Kevin from First Bank Amphitheatre ADA and Sam Rivera from Vanderbilt). Gargantuan thanks to the ADA teams and again to OTL for making things so smooth for fans. I hope the band partners with them until retirement! Maybe they’ll handle some of the events in the Tears for Fears retirement community we requested.
There were some hopes that Oleta Adams would show up at this one. Maybe in future? Some haven’t gotten the memo that she has her own band and tours. Not sure she was even in town. Her next stateside show is noted as December (as of now, that could change). Check out her page.
Some fans that were worried they wouldn’t be able to go did indeed get tickets. We’re happy to hear that. We’re also happy that there were interpreters at the show. We hold a special place in our heart for those who sign at Tears for Fears shows. Some of our Travel Team members sign on their own at shows and to see Roland recognise these professionals providing this service is so heartwarming.
The Texas shows were definitely the hottest shows on record with temps soaring into the 100s. A few fans even sold their tickets and bought seats at other shows to avoid that overwhelming heat. But that didn’t stop the band from bringing the house down with an amazing performance. Fans are STILL talking about this show and rightly so… Roland sang happy birthday to a child in the audience wearing her birthday crown.
Tears for Fears fan generated group page admin, Danny Cricks, was there as were several from last year’s Texas shows including travel fans that attended multiple concerts. You know how we are, one tour date is never enough. These travel fans have plans to keep it going by attending a few more this year. Looking forward to seeing them in various cities. Shoutout to Mr. Liguez and his wife for being such dedicated fans and taking their whole families to shows.
Denver Colorado
Fans who participated in the VIP Soundcheck were on edge due to bad weather. No one expected that they’d eventually be led to the side of the stage where they were able to stand and listen to the band right on the very stage they would be performing on later that evening…and what an amazing show it was!
This is a big deal. As Curt noted on the Psych podcast, the band is excited about it. It’s close to home for many on the team. Many hardcore fans know, this will be a very special concert.
— The Psychologists Are In Podcast (@psychologistpod) July 6, 2023
Lots of family, friends and long-time fans who always fly in for the Los Angeles based shows will be there. This venue’s tickets began to vanish pretty quick. Fans had already bought 2/3rds before the band even got out on the road to head to Atlantic City. There are some left so if you plan to attend you will certainly want to buy now and prepare for that event quickly.
Big hugs to all, another birthday hug for Lady FP who celebrated on the 18th of July. Lady Emily’s is in the summer as well. Many happy returns to both! Be on the lookout for the Tears for Fears dolls. They are also on tour and have been seen in various cities along the way.
Enjoy these great Moshe (Moses on a Motorbike) stickers one fan forum member, Lara Olgletree Gautreaux, made! These were gifts she mailed out to fans.
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**Fan Fun Online & Core Fan Goals Disclaimer
There are so many different Tears for Fears fan groups and pages online. Some are more focused on the admin’s experiences and some are focused on the band and fans. There’s lots from which to choose. The Tears for Fears Travel Fan team page is dedicated to helping make travel easier for fans. We have a lot of things in place for those that subscribe to our updates and follow us on our social media channels. Our focus is the music and the band. We do not claim “ownership” (e.g. this is x member’s group). We do have dedicated admins and a moderator who remains semi-anonymous though most already know who it is. We aren’t seeking accolades, continuous praise or validation for the work we do behind the scenes to assist others. For us, being a Tears for Fears fan is not a competition. It is not for Olympic glory. When we focus on the gratitude we have for the music Tears for Fears has given us all, it makes fan life a lot easier. We don’t consider Tears for Fears’ fans to be something we try to capture and obtain. The band’s fans belong to the band, not us. If one’s desire is to have a relationship outside of fandom, focus on band aesthetics, compare the band at ages 19-21 to now or focus on things that are far from their music, the travel fan team can’t help you there. Sorry! That’s not our focus. Our goal is to make sure hardcore fans who enjoy the music and being present are able to get the best seat possible and rest well in a 4 star hotel without going broke. We’ll continue to focus on that and nothing else. Thank you for understanding!
As promised, we made a mini-documentary of our 2022 Tears for Fears Tour Travels. Now you can see what it is like to literally follow the band around the world. In this set of Rockumemories, we’re in the United States and the U.K. – enjoy!
There is so much that goes into tour planning that one could write a book about it, and we’ve decided that once we’ve finished the larger projects, we’ll likely do that. We scrambled to try to make this one work out for everyone but looks like we can’t go to every single show this time. Depression has set in. It’s not cute. But we’ve got about 10 extra tickets for those who are doing all they can to attend. If you would like one so you can sit with people you know on the first and second row of a few shows– fellow longtime fans – let us know. But first, how about some cake?
Curt’s Birthday is Saturday!
We are so grateful to the Universe for this man that “grateful” is an understatement. He takes absolutely no jive and does not give a **** what anyone else thinks for all the right reasons. In addition to his contributions to the song Break the Man, this man has spoken out for human rights, civil rights, ALL THE RIGHTS! He also did this during times when it was not popular to do so. Curt has taken on controversial conversations and people with finesse and grace. He does not shy away from tough topics and heaven and earth knows he has had to face some irritating situations and people in his life. Still, he shows up and gives 100% plus some in every way. This is not a paragraph to kiss his arse, we are stating facts and we have receipts. The man is good. He has an incredible memory and notes things, people, places and tweets you think he may not have even seen. One could dare say he is heavenly. Change our minds. You cannot. He is overwhelmingly awesome and there is a group of people who pray for him and his family daily. The Smiths are incredibly special people, and we are blessed to have gotten to know not just their individual work but also “them” in that they share some special music and more with everyone. They are top quality. ::straightens our TB neckerchiefs:: #iykyk We like their fashion too.
Curt has gone above and beyond for so many of us. One time a fan did not have tickets to one of his events and she had been standing outside in line with us all day trying to figure out how to get a ticket. Curt found out and made sure she was able to get into the event. The list goes on…and a lot of us have seen his kindness. It is not just toward certain fans either. A manager at a dinner theatre learned of our appreciation for the band and he immediately told us about how kind Curt was to him at a show in 1985. The manager was a kid at the time and Curt caught him hiding out backstage. Curt gave him a Reese’s peanut butter cup and sent the child on his way without getting him into trouble. He could not remember Curt’s name but when he described him we knew which of the two he was talking about. We are so happy that Roland and Curt met, and we love the details of their relationship and life story. It is inspiring and they deserve every ounce of success in their incredibly challenging industry.
We pray Mr. Smith has an incredible birthday. He deserves all the good things. We will be having a piece of one of his favourite treats, a Coffee Crunch Cake, in his honour this Saturday night. Be sure to send him a message on Twitter or tag him in a loving post on Facebook and Instagram. Let us continue to wish him well…and make sure he stays seated two minutes after the tour bus has completely stopped.
**As mentioned on Twitter, we will include both Roland and Curt in our nightly prayer and meditation services. For those participating in Maariv, we’re saying their names during Mishaberach: Roland bn Margaret, Curt bn Norma plus the first names of each band member and road crew. May the Universe look after the entire team and get everyone safely to and from each city. May all go well for fans, fan family, Bill and the road crew. Amein v’Amein
The Out of the Blue Tour Announcement
It was a surprise. Yes, we were aware the band wanted to do a tour in the states again, but we did not expect it in 2023. Many have written in to say, “I was not prepared. Last year we knew in advance. Remember the tweet?” Yes, we remember. We save everything.
But here we are, and we are going to do the best we can. However, our best this time around might mean only 1-2 shows each vs. the usual 5-6 per person or all the shows like our dear Stephen Marshall, Fan Ambassador. Serenity Now. What we wouldn’t do to just hitch a wagon to that tour bus and tag along. If they ever let us, it’s on!
There are several who are going to sleep in their cars and attempt to make it to every soundcheck in the northeast. We even have one fan who has a family engagement on one of the show days but will try to at least get to soundcheck even if they must miss the show. That is loyalty! As fellow fans, we know it costs thousands of dollars to fund a full trip around the states to try and attend these shows. If you cannot do it this time around, do not feel bad.
For those who wrote in stating serious symptoms of depression about missing out this time around, we wish you comfort and calm. Do not deny yourself professional help if it is needed. Might be silly to some, but we understand. The incredible energy of Tears for Fears events is so unreal it is difficult to even “think” about missing one. So, know you are not alone. Go ahead and get ready for the things they mentioned might happen in the future (e.g. musical, piano compilation, etc.).
Retired Legacy Fan Families
Two longtime fan families (Family C and K) are now retired from full time travel fan life as they prepare to focus on their health and personal plans. Both have said they will be happy to join us again if and when the band adopts residencies. That will allow us all to be in one place and reduce the amount of air travel. Flying from city to city does wear on the body and wallet so we completely understand. Meantime, we are happy some are going to attend 1 or 2 shows close to their primary residences and we know they will have an amazing time.
The VIP Soundcheck Package – It’s worth every dime!
For those who are doing all they can to make sure they go to The Tipping Point Part II, please read your ticket information. There are several types of tickets. Some have told us they have not purchased their tickets yet. When you do, we suggest you buy your tickets directly through the links on the band page because it leads you directly to the VIP Soundcheck options. When you select VIP soundcheck (usually around $450 before taxes and fees), you will see everything that comes with that package. Premium and Hot ticket packages are also available, but they do not include soundcheck. Premium seats are sold by the venue and offer a splendid view but they do not include gifts from the band. Hot tickets have gift bags filled with incredible Tears for Fears keepsakes. If you purchased a ticket and have now decided you want to do VIP soundcheck, you have options. You can go to the band’s official website, select VIP, and buy it that way in addition to the ticket you already have, or you can contact the VIP team and let them know you need to buy the package after the fact. Right now there is not an “add on” button.
VIP Soundcheck tickets are packages that include an actual concert ticket that allows you entry into soundcheck. The VIP team will contact you a few days before the scheduled show(s) you chose and will give you directions on what to do and where to go. We have already spoken to them, and it will be the same as last year. You arrive early at the VIP check-in table. From there they will lead you to the Soundcheck when it is time. Last year it was ridiculously hot outside as we waited to go into the venues. There is not a large, shaded area to wait at a lot of these venues. Sometimes it rained hard. A few times we hired a car to wait with us so we could sit in the air conditioning until we could be allowed back in the venue. It was THAT hot. It was an added expense but it’s better than having a heat stroke and missing the show. If you are taking a ride share (e.g. Uber, Lyft) to a concert, you have nowhere to go so you have to be creative. Wear a hat or anything you can to keep the sun off your face. You may want to bring an umbrella and in some cases you may want to ensure you can get back to your car after soundcheck because it is in advance of the show, and you will sweat a gallon or two waiting for the reentry. Is it worth it? Yes, the Soundcheck and the show are worth every penny.
*Remember to bring valid ID when you arrive at the VIP Soundcheck check-in table. Just saying your name is not enough to get your package. They cross reference with your ID.
NFTs for 2023? It’s a Virtual Commemorative Ticket…
Andye received a notice. So it looks like yes, you do get them but do not forget to download them once you get the notice that it is available. Do not let them sit in Ticketmaster files. We do not know if those files will expire so it is best that you download and save your ticket to your desktop and a backup drive. They look like the below. You will get one per VIP Ticket but it’s hard to tell if it’s included with all ticket purchases.
Please Say Lauren Will Be on This Tour!
She is! It has been confirmed that Lauren Evans will be on the tour. We do not have permission to say which shows. But she will be there, and we are SUPER THRILLED!!!!
Interviews and Promotions
There are promotions in local newspapers so if you like to keep those check your local newspapers’ online options and see if you can get a paper copy of the tour announcement. Long time fan, Deb of TFF Boston, sent one earlier this season and it is posted on Twitter.
Jamie continues to be applauded for his genius.
Be sure to check out the latest article in Recovery Today.
Record Store Day
Record store day was the 22nd of April this year. We were blessed to get a vinyl of Saturnine Martial and Lunatic. So excited to own this incredible piece of work featuring the band’s B-sides from their earlier work prior to ELAHE and TTP. In many cases, record stores only allowed each customer to buy one or two albums per person. So, being who we are, we got neighbours, relatives, and others to get up at dawn to stand in line with us…in the rain. We got our albums. Shoutout to the person who was able to help get records for everyone (legally of course, these aren’t bootlegs)! You know who you are!
The Band’s Family
Let us begin with the eldest son, young Mr. Orzabal and his amazing art…
He continues to impress with amazing pieces that are just phenomenal to stare at for hours. The artwork is so intricate that it is hard to look away. You just want to dive into the photo and walk around its nooks and crannies. The best part is he does sell art. You can buy prints of his work from his website and get them framed for your home.
Quarterboy (Pascal Orzabal)
Now Pascal Orzabal has five incredible singles out and they stay on loop in our world. His voice is just everything! You can support his music by purchasing a track from Bandcamp, Songs begin at .99cents US but you can pay whatever you want. Drop some dough on those beats guys. He is making a name for himself independent of his father. You gotta respect that. He recently posted that in addition to the five songs, he will be releasing even more music soon.
Graduation for the Girls
Curt recently posted that he was at one of his daughters’ graduations. We know both girls are in University but given that Darling Angel Diva is a hair older than Sweet Lady Wilder, we are guessing it was Diva who graduated. Either way, we are excited that his children are doing so well with their talents. We hope we get another t-shirt for a show from Wilder and more music from Diva! They are both so gracious to share their lives with everyone online!
Fan Family
DJ Rudh Transmission Anniversary Party
So, this past April, long time fan, Lady Tamara was able to go to DJ Rudh’s party and meet the man himself. Transmission is an incredible broadcast that features some of the best music ever released on this planet. The team behind it are big fans of Tears for Fears. During the event, the entire crowd got into it and sang their hearts out. Thank you Lady Tam for capturing the moment!
The Podcast
There is a podcast called History from the Big Chair – a play on the title of the 1985 SFTBC album title. The podcast is hosted by two fans – one who is a second-generation fan in that his parents are fans and he has been listening to the music since conception. He talks about that in some of the episodes. The other host seems to be his girlfriend and she stumbled upon Tears for Fears just before 2020. Their podcast is filled from start to finish with their opinions on various songs, albums, and videos. While there are a few awesome facts shared in most of the episodes, it’s mostly their opinion as self-described “youngsters” who like the band. The Instagram account associated with it is a bit different. It has a lot of great fact posts and highlights every week. The duo is working to make the podcast a very professional broadcast and we look forward to hearing what they do in the future. Always nice to have Generation Z onboard with classic music that is timeless. We wish them the best!
Puppy that Plays the Tipping Point
Krista in Florida is having fun with her new digital dog. It is the cutest puppy that plays Tears for Fears everywhere it goes. It follows her around the house playing all the Tears for Fears songs. We love it and we want one! What an excellent pet!
Tears for Fears Dolls and Action Figures
The Dolls are back! Lady Richards has the doll versions of Roland and Curt ready to roll for TTP2! You can follow their adventures in the fan forum, and we will aim to share them on various platforms so everyone can enjoy the fun. They are super cute and even some of the band members thought they were nice.
Beware of Fake Accounts
There are several bands that have been affected by the fake accounts. The accounts ask for money, they will send you a video of the band and make it seem like they are trying to speak to you but lost connection when it was actually an upload of the band during live interviews. Curt nor Roland are going to solicit anyone to buy gift cards for them or ask for cash. The sad part is these scam artists know how bad fans want to speak to the band and these fans keep conversations with these accounts thinking maybe they have been singled out for a conversation. Please know that is not how this all works. The band does not have a live a chat nor do they single out fans for money. Be aware. Curt has already announced that he will let everyone know if changes his communication method.
Look for the shirts!
Tears for Fears Fan Forum fans are headed out to the shows. This includes the Travel Fans, and many will be in dark blue shirts with the beautiful sun design. You cannot miss them! Be sure to connect in advance on the Travel Fan page or the Forum to hangout. We created meetup invites for every show last year. This year we will post one large invite, and you can note which city you are going to be in if you would like. It is not required to sign up for a show and meetup. If you would like to have a warm family night with your relatives, go ahead. If you would like to go to dinner in advance and have a cocktail you can note that in the invite and all in attendance can meet up with you there. We are giving away a $200 Amazon gift card to the person that posts the best group photo featuring themselves and the Tears for Fears fans together at a show in the invite’s comments section. You can take it in front of the venue, or you can take it at dinner before the show. The photo must feature Tears for Fears merch or identifiers. Winners will be announced AFTER the Huntington Beach show on the 18th of November. Just in time for gift giving season!
While Tears for Fears are busy with their calendar plans, we’ve got some time to put the kettle on and chat amongst ourselves plus celebrate milestones and anniversaries of Tears for Fears’ amazing music. That’s what we’ve been doing this quarter.
As mentioned previously, the new album brought a lot of new people and a lot of longtime fans from ‘83 and ‘85 back into the fold. Because people are catching up with all the interviews, week after week, there are newcomers who repost or remind us of things that happened pre-tour season such as this lovely video below from the Sirius XM interview and Q&A. To find out how this took place and how people were chosen you can search the archives using the keywords SiriusXM, Becky or Danny and it should show up for you. Let us know if you can’t find that information. It’s a great interview featuring new fans and those hard core folks who were there in the early days with the band. Enjoy the rewatch!
Anniversaries
Big Shoutout to Danny Cricks of the Tears for Fears Travel Fans, Fan Forum and TFF Florida who took time to help lead the online anniversary celebrations and birthdays. Coincidence or not, the band often followed behind his reminders. Danny didn’t just celebrate albums, he went deep with specific song celebrations. Now that’s fan love! Here’s what we’ve been celebrating with him this quarter.
Birthdays
Ian Stanley – 28 February
Charlton Pettus – 16 February
Lauren Evans – 3 February
Nicky Holland – 20 February
Michael Wainwright – 6 March
Music Milestones
Songs from the Big Chair– 25 February, 1985
Tears Roll Down (Laid So Low) – 10 February, 1992
The Tipping Point – 25 February, 2022
Break the Man – video released on the 10th of February 2022
Today we celebrate The Hurting, the album that started it all!! This is the official Tears for Fears Day and always will be! The Hurting is still available for purchase although some of the recent remastered deluxe options have sold out (if you have one, you better keep it). You can buy a copy of the remastered CD from Amazon, Walmart and music stores. The remastered one has extended versions of several songs so be sure to pay close attention to the version you purchase so you can get the all the goodies!
You can stream and in some cases buy the remastered album here from these sources. As a courtesy we ask that you make a purchase of the album first. Artists are not able to make what they are worth via streaming services alone.
Speaking of days, Record Store Day will feature Tears for Fears’ Saturnine Martial and Lunatic on vinyl! It’s a UK release so TFF UK and Fan Forum Moderator, Darren, is looking into what he can do to ensure global fans get an opportunity to buy this. More details to come.
Psych Night on Hallmark Channel
Big thanks to the Hallmark Channel and Peacock/NBC for re-airing Psych episodes featuring Curt Smith. Fans got to enjoy two throwbacks – Shawn 2.0 season 5 episode 8 and Clue from Season 7 episode 5. We tweeted and chatted while watching these episodes – still a little squeamish from Curt’s encounter with the panther among other things. We also remembered the cast members showing up at one of Curt’s events in November of 2010, pineapple in tow. That was an awesome night that has been documented here in the archives. Fans and followers of both Psych and Curt noted they are ready for another Psych movie with more Curt Smith and company including a duet with his daughter Lady Diva Smith. We’re still waiting on Psych on SNL with musical guests Tears for Fears. That petition is not dormant.
What music does Tears for Fears listen to regularly?
So there’s Record Store Day but have you heard of Recommendations Day? Well, along with the fan generated Tears for Fears’ (TFF) Tuesdays (first initiated by Lady Tamara of TFF “Nash” Nashville and the Tears for Fears Travel Fans), the day is now followed by “Tears’ Picks” on Thursdays. On this day, we listen to music the band loves or recommends. It’s not highly advertised nor have we thrown down a hashtag but we’ve noted some of their favourites and will be enjoying those on Thursdays. So far, we’ve listened to Curt’s daughter, Diva Smith’s song ‘Bet,’ Pascal Orzabal/Quarterboy’s 4 tracks available on bandcamp, Apple music, Spotify, etc. and Kimbra who released a new album in January of this year. *Pascal is one “L” – just to clear the record.
Will there be a Tears for Fears tour 2023?
There’s been some chatter from some anxious people who want to see tour info – notably some of it has been from those who do not actually join the tours but love to live vicariously through the many thousands who do. There’s also several who said, “Geez, I hope they’ll return to the USA one day.” Remember Roland’s joke from Shepherd’s Bush. It will remind you that most of the band (including him) have homes in the states. In addition to basking in the fact that they actually have homes in your country, Roland noted they will continue to do stateside tours as they have been almost consecutively since 2005. Along with a big dose of patience, remember, there’s a handful of UK shows to address including Pryzm. Let patience and understanding be our personal theme this year. Once they’ve solidified their calendar and plans, the information will be distributed and those of us who can make it out will move forward.
Oleta Adams’ will be in concert this month and next. Her upcoming show at the Folly Theatre in Kansas City, Missouri is on the 11th of March (this Saturday) at 8pm. She’ll have another show on the 14th of April in San Antonio, Texas. Be sure to keep up with her website so you don’t miss a beat!
Raoul Orzabal’s art prints are for sale. His latest work was shared this week and it is spectacular. Several of us own pieces of his art and it is worth every penny. These pieces work well in any home or office. Learn more about how to obtain one for your place by visiting his website.
Captain Julian Orzabal, Dion and team continue working on their music. Be sure to join them on Facebook for the latest updates. If you haven’t bought your copy of their previous album, don’t hesitate. It’s great for road trips, commutes and hanging out with friends. Really good stuff!
Price of Fandom
Whether the band tours this year or not, we want to re-emphasise how awesome it was to have the VIP options in 2022. They reminded us of the VIP Fan Experience app we worked on in 2019. To those who helped with user research on that app, let’s be clear, the app was a prototype produced by Andye the Moderator but no confirmation from Tears for Fears was given as to whether or not they, Tears for Fears, used this specific prototype to design last year’s VIP options for the tour. Several Tears for Fears fans were involved in testing the app prototype and answered questions to help create the final iteration. The semi-completed prototype was then sent to a band member in 2019. Coincidentally, several of the same features and merch perks were available through their VIP partnership with On the List Presents during the US tour in 2022. These features made it affordable to attend more than one show and we are grateful to Tears for Fears for it!
Tears for Fears’ friends, Duran Duran, our sibling band, also had a very interesting offer for their Ibiza trip for fans. It, too, had similar features to the app. They used the option to book accommodations plus concert tickets, etc. which created a unique upscale fan experience. Much like the features on the app we designed, which featured a Duran Duran option, the Ibiza event included a complete show package from start to finish. Again, we have no proof that they used or were inspired by the VIP app concept. For both bands it was a first in our living memory of having a more curated VIP fan experience where we got great seats, merch and so much more with each ticket! We are truly grateful! We sure hope they continue with these types of packages because it helps with seating. Let’s say that one more time.
WE ARE TRULY GRATEFUL! WE SURE HOPE THEY CONTINUE WITH THESE TYPES OF PACKAGES BECAUSE IT HELPS WITH SEATING! aka – for heaven’s sake, please keep the VIP option!
In a coming mini-documentary (TFF Rockumemories of 2022) we note the price of the VIP tickets for 2022. It was more economical If you purchased a ticket using the Tears for Fears presale codes through their site than it was to purchase directly from the venues’ options. A ticket in the same section as the VIP specified tickets (usually the first 10 rows center, right and left), could easily end up being $900-$1700 per ticket depending on the venue. We have receipts forbid someone want to argue. We took this tour very seriously and kept all the documents. While we’re not aiming to discuss “money,” or wag fingers at venues because that is just rude, we do want to say that Tears for Fears’ VIP made this tour extremely affordable compared to what the venues had in mind. We need these VIP options!
Does Tears for Fears have an app? Why didn’t they take the app prototype and use that to manage the VIP part of the tour? Answer: The prototype provides an idea, a suggestion. It’s not a one stop solution for ticket purchases and tour management. Apps also require a dedicated development team. Perhaps their management has devs but their resources were not used to build and maintain such a thing. The app would also require an api that allows the venue to distribute the tickets. Most venues are managed by Live Nation and Ticketmaster – and we all know how that experience can be. No shade on Ticketmaster but it is what it is right now. For some of us, it’s not the most enjoyable purchasing experience. So, we rely on presale codes to get tickets. It would cost a pretty penny to keep an app maintained and it may not really solve the issues and nuances that come with fandom. Not everyone wants to fly on Delta, not everyone wants to use a commercial hotel. So it may not be an efficient tool in the long run. But we had fun putting it together and we’re grateful that the concepts were used by both bands no matter where they got the idea. Other companies have been providing similar services for years so the app idea nor its features were 100% unique. We just wanted to have something for us so we can have a way to go to more shows than just one. Currently another fan member in the forum is looking to build a Tears for Fears ticket app for her school project. So if you want to play around with that and see what it’s like to be a part of user research, find her on the fan forum. Her name is Paola Fernanda. Her app is not affiliated with the band, but again, is a school project.
Tears for Fears’ Travel Fans Rockumemories
Yes, we made a rockumentary featuring moments from the tour and a lot of songs that were featured in 2022. We do not have licensed music for it yet and that is the hold up. We may have to release it as it is and put one of those “we don’t own this music” disclaimers at the top. Still, it has to go through a lot of approvals. We look forward to sharing that when all the legalities are done. Again, thanks everyone that provided photos, videos and so much more. It helped make Tears for Fears – The Tipping Point Tour aka “The Healing Tour” memories some of the best yet to come!
Shoutout to Shannon Green’s kids. Shannon is a member of the Tears for Fears Fan Forum. She recently found her son singing Shout in its entirety and recorded it. If you’re a member of the fan forum, use this link to revisit that fun moment. If you’re not a member, you can join today via Facebook. There is no fee associated with joining the forum.
Shoutout to Michelle “Shelley” for getting one of the false Roland Orzabal accounts removed. She went out of her way to get Facebook and Instagram to remove the fake account which is among several that are actually requesting money. Roland would not do that. Huge thanks to all those behind the scenes, admins and others going out of their way to protect the band. You are seen!
Thanks for reading! More to come as we get the info! Cheers.
Dedicated to The Curry Family and David Bowie’s team of musicians and friends
This week is a memorial honouring David Bowie. Hardcore fans of Tears for Fears understand why that is important to us. Many of those fans are ones who keep Ashes to Ashes, a song the band covered some years ago originally written by David Bowie, on repeat. It’s one of the best parts of Saturnine Martial & Lunatic. Over time, we’ve come to find Bowie fans at concerts, interacting with us online and virtually swaying alongside us during the recent memorial shows. One of those great musicians interacting is icon Kitten Kuroi, who is coincidentally a friend of the award-winning Lady Lauren Evans, Tears for Fears’ most recent band family singer. Kuroi was featured in the 2022 Bowie celebration curated by the honourable Mike Garson. Bowie teams make up one of the many beautiful mosaic roots of our fandom. They are strong foundations that have influenced us, bringing unity to our team in our quest to collectively and respectfully promote and celebrate the work of amazing musicians. Huge thanks to each of them for the ongoing interactions and online friendships.
We’re also grateful for Jack and Dawn Curry who went above and beyond to ensure that fans actually made it to shows in 2022.They helped ensure each one had spectacular seats. When we looked at our meticulous archives and documents, we saw that collectively, the travel fan team mod and in-kind supporters Jack and Momma D, purchased well over 32 VIP ticket packages for fans. They assisted with travel expenses, accommodations, dinners and hosted several warm gatherings throughout the tour. The comfort and ease of the 2022 tour season was due to these aforementioned contributors and their efforts will not be forgotten.
The list of really cool moments in 2022 is long and some of the favourites that we’ve seen include not just concert moments but extra special experiences that happened between shows. Given that we already have documented highlights through last October, let’s focus on the fun from Q4.
Curt Was Healed!
If Curt’s ribs breaking wasn’t the scariest thing that happened all year, we don’t know what was. Curt gave details of his injury during an interview on the BBC one morning. Learning that his injuries originated on the tour bus where he was literally sent flying after a false stop, was devastating to hear. The fact that he even tried to sally forth and keep going despite being in pain was a sacrifice we’re glad he discontinued. The wait and worry was fairly intense o\n the fan forum and in numerous Tears for Fears dedicated groups on Facebook (which now equal over 45 individual ones…). We’re so happy that this is behind us and that he was able to go to the UK and Europe to participate in additional interviews and appearances including the Deutsch Press awards as discussed in the previous update.
Holiday Song
Nearly every year Curt has released a holiday song. This year we got something quite special during Hanukkah. As mentioned in a previous post, Mad World has been used by at least two synagogues in the states during Shabbat service. Most recently, it was featured at IKAR LA, where well-known artist, Hillel Tigay, is the Chazan/Cantor and music director. The video of their Havdalah service featured the song and Curt loved it. He was invited to join them and did so on the 16th of December for Kabbalat Shabbat. For many observant Jews in the fan team, this was extra special and several noted that the occasion officially solidifies Tears for Fears’ music as a perfect accompaniment to prayers. Andye is contemplating writing a book about how much the band’s music has been important in spiritual journeys and healing for so many fans. But let’s let her get through the mini-documentary first.
The Mini-Doc
So, we took every photo given to us, those we collected and captured on tour plus videos and sandwiched them all together in chronological order. We have nearly an hour of photo slides so far if not more. It’s a lot. Next steps include a lot of fonting and finding licensed music to add to it. We had hoped to have it sent out by the 28th of December, but the task is huge and there are just a few people that actually have the time to maneuver through the technicalities of the project. We do not have an ETA on the completion, but it’s been a lot of fun going through all the memories from every show during the 2022 tour season. We’ll be sure to start sharing more BTS photos on Facebook and Instagram.
The World Cup
At the start of the quarter, we learned that the band would be featured in the Budweiser Beer sponsored World Cup Song collaboration with Lil’ Baby. It was a surprise song. As with anything Tears for Fears touches, the song was pretty darn cool and had a lot of new listeners and positive reaction videos from some who were completely new to the band. This, in turn, brought new people into the fold. Gen Z was already on board but now there are even more. Is that why it seems the band is more active on TikTok than Twitter now?
New EWTRTW Video
The band released a new version of Everybody Wants to Rule the World. It’s a compilation of clips from the history of the band on the road (looks like clips from a previous documentary). The video has an emphasis on imagery from the ‘Rule the World’ – Greatest Hits album that was released in 2017. However, we’re wondering why this was created when the band already has an EWTRTW video. Perhaps we missed a memo. Either way, it’s awesome and we love it. Nice to see all the concert footage again.
The Mystery Box of Merch (now sold out?)
Just as the year closed, the band’s U.S. store offered a mystery box of merch that includes three items. The box could be purchased by anyone regardless of location it seemed. If anyone had issues ordering it, let us know. But if you’re in the U.K. you should have been able to get a hold of one regardless of it being from the US. store. It was $35 plus shipping and a limited time only offer so no clue when and if such a thing will be available again. We know a few people that have already purchased two. Danny, let us know when it arrives!
The Tipping Point is #1
Classic Pop Magazine released a list of their top favourites for 2022 and yes, agreeably so, The Tipping Point is number one! We were told the band was flattered and thanked the magazine. Let us also say thank you Classic Pop Mag, from a fan perspective, for taking time to recognise that superlative album – very likely their best yet – and that says a lot because we all know they have produced so many hits that are timeless. They have the Midas touch in music! *Thank you, Martin Slade and Danny Cricks, for sharing the photo from the magazine.
About those NFTs
So, the tour packages included an NFT. In the rush and fit of all, we didn’t bother to look at the tax laws around NFTs at the time. So, those of us, as mentioned, who purchased quite a few, in hindsight panicked thinking we were clueless to how much tax we owe on these. However, there is no price tag on the NFTs in the Ticketmaster and LiveNation account. So likely we don’t owe anything. But you’ll want to refer to your tax advisor. From what we can see, one does not owe taxes on the NFTs according to a few tax documents we read.
Band Family & Alumni
Wilder Smith, Curt’s youngest daughter turned a lovely 21 on the 27th of December. Curt also published the URL to her new website. Not sure if she’s taking commissions but we’ll wait it out cause we’ve got some things we’d love to get a quote on and in production for the future.
Little Lady Genevieve (Vivi) Orzabal also had a birthday on the 28th. We wish her a great turn around the sun and lots of love.
Jamie’s daughter Bayley had a birthday on the 20th of December and it’s noteworthy that a lot of longtime fans also had birthdays this month. It was truly a band family and fan birthday extravaganza! Many happy returns to Eileen I, Sheila SheShe, Andye the Moderator and so many more.
Libre Stone sent out a loving note of thanks to fans who supported them this year. That was super sweet!
Supporting singer Lauren’s song “This Could Be” got a lot of air play in December and was trending. Congrats to her on that! Her voice is also featured in New Amsterdam’s Season 2 Episode 6 singing a rendition of “His Eye is on the Sparrow.” It is quite moving! Be sure to check that out on Netflix.
The Smith household got a new puppy named Twiggy. Twiggy looks a lot like sister Ivy Smith and the late Bella Smith of their Vizsla family of dogs reportedly of Hungarian hunter dog descent. That’s admirable. It’s a beautiful dog and Wilder has posted several photos of herself with the sweet new baby. Curt also mentioned sweet Twiggy in his New Year holiday message on the 31st of December.
Oleta Adams wrapped up her 2022 tour in December, but has more shows scheduled for March and April. She’s so loved and sought after, rightly so! Very grateful that many of us got to see her again this past year.
We’ll wrap this up with a shout out to those who took the Tears for Fears Pilgrimage. It does exist. Many fans go to the city of Bath every year and take a photo at several iconic spots including Moles where the band had their first show and brother Shaun Smith did the lighting. They go by Roland’s old home above the pizza parlour and take a walk near Snow Hill. Our lady Tamara got a great extra tour stop this year. She spent some time with Libre Stone, Radio Bath’s Dave Mason and the fan family stars like Stephen Marshall. Tamara is an amazing Tears for Fears Super Fan and we’re beyond grateful for all of her contributions in 2022!
To say we are grateful for all the amazing things that took place in Tears for Fears’ fan land last year would be an understatement. Despite illness, surgery, treating cancer and dodging Covid, the fan family showed up and showed out! Tears for Fears fans bought a record number of seats at the sold-out show at the Forum in Los Angeles and showed up in droves for every show on the tour…even the ones that got cancelled! Fan family gathered together at local pubs and sang together at nearly every event. Tears for Fears fans are some of THE MOST loyal and dedicated individuals. Let’s keep it going!
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