Tears for Fears Travel Fans Update Q2-25

Before we say one word, let us celebrate the Man, the Icon, the Legend. Many happy returns to Curt Smith!! He’s celebrating his birthday today! It’s such an incredible week because he also has his wedding anniversary on the 29th. We adore him to the moon and back. We appreciate him for making our lives, we dare say and we’re speaking for many, worth living! He has literally kept us alive in countless ways! Wishing him an incredible year ahead and lots of love, prosperity and joy throughout 2025 and beyond! It is a struggle to refrain from writing him everyday to tell him how much we appreciate him. Seriously! He just goes all out. Sweet children, wonderful wife, very kind brothers; the Smith family is where it’s at! When he and Roland walk out on that stage, life just reaches another level of awesome! Wishing them all a great year ahead and super happy birthday to Mr. Smith! Infinite love for him!!!

Kinda don’t need to put this here because most of our subscribers already know that Tears for Fears are returning (just like Roland said back in February) to Fontainebleau in September and October of this year.

Tears for Fears will be performing a total of 6 shows (3 in September and 3 in October). Tickets went on sale the day after the announcement with the official Artist Presale taking place on the 4th of June. Suprisingly, there were not a lot of issues grabbing seats this time. About three people reported the usual struggle with credit card companies suddenly freezing accounts expecting fraud (you’d think the system would stop flagging the purchases by now given all we do is buy concert tickets, pay healthcare/healthclub fees , plane rides and groceries). We counted three complaints on Instagram and one on Threads. Otherwise, it was a decent experience. Gargantuan thanks to Tears for Fears for making Artist Presale a very reasonbable price of $217-$500 after taxes and fees. Platinum, from what we saw on the concert map, is not part of the APS. Those prices are currently in the 700s to 1000s+. We do have one second row center seat available on the 25th of October (a Saturday) if anyone is interested. It is well under the current resale prices.

We expect that this show will feature the new music from Songs for a Nervous Planet. We have a set list floating around for those that want to be familiar with the music ahead of time…that’s a thing we do. We like to know up front so we can sing with the band and let them know we appreciate their work.

This was sent to us from the stage. Don’t mind the blur. We have copies of this if anyone needs a clear one. Before the show starts the stage area is very blue and it glows with this hue. Set lists are placed all over in strategic areas. We do not know if this is the one the band will use for the Autumn 2025 shows but this is the set that was rehearsed for the Fontainebleau 2024-2025 mini-res. Fans have begun putting in requests for David Moyer to return and play The Working Hour. There’s also hope that Quiet Ones stays on the list and perhaps Change will get slipped in there as well. Hardcore fans are also saying Tears for Fears could sit there and read the phone book and they’d be just as happy. We feel ya on that! Several can’t wait for story time.

Should You Go? Again? Yes, here’s why…

It is a straight forward opportunity to stay in an exceptionally nice venue, attend an indoor show free of the troubles of outdoor challenges such as possible rain and excessive heat. In both 2022 and 2023 we experienced some weather related issues (e.g. Texas) that left a few fans saying they would not be returning to certain venues. It’s also a chance to see Tears for Fears multiple times in one place vs. literally scrambling to get back to the hotel and rush to the airport the next morning or attempt to drive overnight to the next city to be on time. We’re so grateful that this curated event gives many a chance to really relax and play for several days. If you’re having issues with attending and need some help, reach out and let us know what your challenges are so we can work through it with you and help find a solution. Fair warning we do conduct extreme logistics to make it possible.

A note from the Moderator – Andye Mod

In our most recent update here in the archives, we were just about to board the plane to go to Las Vegas for the second part of the Tears for Fears mini-residency at Fontainebleau. Let me interject that after the long week there in February, some of us read the entire history of Fontainebleau and it’s not pronounced as one globalist might assume. It’s actually “fountain blue.” It’ll always be Fontainebleau to me but I digress…

Several of us went for pure music therapy with medical teams in tow. Boy were they needed! Soon as we touched down and got settled, text messages came in about people arriving ill. I will save you the details of their graphic sickness but whatever was going around affected a lot of people. I went forward with the dinner party (same menu as last time) minus a few key folks. We discussed our topic of the quarter which is “what is the craziest thing you’ve done to get to a show or extend your time on a Tears for Fears Tour?” Right now, Lisa and Elana take the cake!

We also discussed the music of the many musicians in the fold including Lady Lauren’s new album, the songs on which she’s been featured past and present and her fun online gatherings through the Affirmations series. Fans spent a good two hours discussing the ins and outs of the songs and goings on of Soul Twin Messiah. We took a peek at Mr. Orzabal’s pal, Julian Lennon’s, latest and Mr. Lennon’s health update. It was quite a loaded late night of fun.

Big kudos to long time fans from Tears for Fears Boston, San Francisco and Nevada for spending so much time with everyone after super long drives, 5+ hour flights and workdays. It made that incredible bed feel all the more comforting. Speaking of, Lady Diva Smith stayed at Fontainbleau with her sweet bunny in tow. We adore that beautiful bunny on the blanket!

Shoutout to all who brought their bunnies and plushies to the residency. We need to do a gallery of those!

Her mother, The Good Lady Frances – Lady FP was there as well. So cool to have them around. They are so awesome. Yes, I brought an extra pair of TB earrings for the occasion. #iykyk

31 January Show

The first night was stellar. I learned later during one of the late night chats that the band records their work. I’m not sure exactly what that means and me being the non-nosy parker will not be asking. However, they have a playback of their show and I imagine from my own experience in music and media since age 13 that it’s to listen out for any issues or things that may need correction. Either way, they sound phenomenal to me. Though Curt jokingly pointed out some snaffoos. Of course, we in the audience barely noticed the issues he noted. We were just happy to be there!!

We love these moments…they could talk all day and we’d be thrilled!
(e.g.”Tell us a story!!” – Andye Mod Atlanta/Duluth 2017)

It was a very crisp and clean show. Super smooth! They did gift us with a few stories and dear Mr. Orzabal confirmed that his good lady dear Emily is indeed expecting a child (see first video). We, in the fandom, are excited for them and look forward to any updates they wish to share but are not going to pester them nor their families (or Curt) about the status of the child. When they are good and ready they will let us know and if they don’t that’s fine too. One must remind oneself that a band offers a product of songs and that is what we pay for…anything else is a bonus. We got what we paid for…songs in a live show. To expect anything else is borderline entitlement. I’m saying this to myself as well ::turns off How to Babysit Like an Expert audiobook::

Curt was kind to let us know that he and the band were fine regarding the wildfires that broke out in their area. They were forced to evacuate one night and were able to return home the next. It was a hair raising time for us as fans because we were on the phone, Zoom and other methods of communication watching the fires creep near their houses. All kinds of fasting, prayer and a number of spiritual rituals were taking place as well as slipping in messages stating, “If you need to postpone, just do it. We’ll figure something out.” Lauren noted she felt things would be great by showtime but I personally wanted them to just wait and let things settle down. My concern was they’d be on stage only to get a note that something happened. Then they’d have to rush home to attend to it. Thankfully all went extremely well. Again, that first night was strong and beautiful. Very sorry for fans who arrived so ill they had to miss all the shows and fly right back home. Huge thanks to Fontainebleau staff who were swift to the rescue with all the medical attention needed to get people in a state well enough to even get on a plane.

Also loved Curt’s chit chat re: Las Vegas…

1 February

Early that morning after a gift of delicious gluten free bagels piled high with all the accoutrement one could wish for (Thank you Lisa and Elana), there was physical therapy for me and connect sessions for fans. Those who were trying to rearrange their schedules to get there were successful. Despite some Ticketmaster snaffoos and miscommunications we were able to transfer a lot of the extra tickets we had to fans who could finally get the time they needed to be in attendance. I’ll leave my Ticketmaster/Live Nation thoughts to myself and continue to say I really wish there was a way that we could pay the band directly. It would feel so much better. Again, for those who are always curious about the logistics and true cost of these excursions, we can have that conversation in our “financing a tour” Zoom call which is recorded for transparency. We still recommend having tour soup for a few months each year if you can stand it. *There is an improved one fortified with vitamins. We’re working on a tour soup cookbook as well. We’ll discuss it on Substack.

Fans traditionally gather in the Fontainebleau Promenade throughout the day and before shows…

That night after our ritual prayers before the show, we gathered and took photos. All around us were familiar faces (see what I did there?) and some just coming in from surgeries. It should be noted, come hell or high water, Tears for Fears fans show up! One fan in Germany dropped everything, got freshly tattooed and hopped on a plane to attend every single show saying, “I wish I had done this sooner!”

Fans flew in from Michigan, Toronto, Northern California, Florida, England, Minnesota, New York and several other far off places. These were fans who make it a point to always support Tears for Fears. A few did mention that due to the outcome of the election in November they were not interested in participating in anything in the states. They were protesting the nation regarding the historical comments made by certain members of the current administration. Those fans were missed and we hope that they’ll feel comfortable joining Tears for Fears events in the future.

Rumours & Thieves

There was rumour of one guy who allegedly waited until everyone was entering the venue then slipped in with the crowd. He had been watching an empty seat on Ticketmaster/Live Nation and allegedly was able to claim the ticket by using a screenshot on his phone? The usher allegedly didn’t scan it but just looked at it? How that is possible is beyond many of us. We can’t even walk to the front without getting checked. Again, this is hearsay. Someone told us after the fact. There were also some rather pricey seats on the front row center ($2500 resale seats) that two ladies tried to take. They had been watching the empty seats and went to the front just before the show started. A fellow fan let security know that those were not their seats and they were just hoping to get away with sitting there. The venue staff asked to see their tickets and both ladies just stared at him without saying a word. He asked again and then one of the ladies made the universal sign of “capiche” but that didn’t fly at all. They were asked to move back to their seats on the far-right side of the venue. The two front frow resale seats they attempted to take remained empty the rest of the night but you couldn’t tell because all of us on the front row were standing (except me from time to time due to this illness/injury). No one was the wiser.

My advice to resellers is to just stop. Those tickets retailed at $950 each and there were at least six that were purchased and put up for resale at over $2000 each…again, they all remained empty. Tears for Fears fans (many) literally perch like trick-or-treaters waiting on the next information snack packet to be handed out from the proverbial band candy basket. We know how much we’re going to spend and what seat we’re going to sit in long before it’s ever put on the map. Some of us have been sitting in the same section, same seat since 2012. Attempting to scam us out of hard-earned money that we use to go to these shows for our physical, emotional and mental health will not work. Try it on someone else, do not try it out on us.

A Kind Word From Roland

Roland acknowledged that many of us were attending all the shows. We learned from Curt during one of the coveted chit chats, that Jamie was so dedicated he decided to play on even after a very tough day battling an illness/bad cold. It was the heart of winter and, as mentioend, many sicknesses were going around. It’s a miracle he was even able to play at all. Again, very sorry to the fans who arrived sick after long plane rides and had to be attended to by Fontainebleau staff then eventually go right back home without even hearing one song. Thank you, Jamie for going the extra mile. That was surely difficult.

Jamie plays on! What a work ethic and a hero. Glad he got some great care so he could feel better! We were very worried about him!

While on stage, Roland told Andye that the set list would be a bit different that night. He said they were moving some things around (there’s video of that conversation somewhere). We didn’t know what that meant. He also asked Andye which of his ensembles she liked best, his dark suave jacket or the winter white that he wore in 2024.

“I think he looks absolutely smart in both but told him I love the white one. I said that so that he’d know the self-depreciating jokes he made about himself in October/November re: looking like the Ghost of Christmas Past didn’t suit him (pun intended). He looked more like a smoking hot debonair rock dude, not a “character” in any form or fashion. It was rather upsetting to hear him say that about himself although I know he’s just joking. Still, I want him to own his Righteous Rock Royalty role. He joked that he’d dropped blancmange down the front of the white jacket ::cue the dry cleaners please::. He could turn up wearing a burlap sack and still rock it like no other in my opinion! Werrrk it, Mr. O!” – Andye Mod

Carina and Lauren’s interactions remained a highlight of the event. We really love what they bring to these concerts and many of us are willing to pay whatever it takes to support having everyone currently involved to remain involved. They each put so much energy into their craft. Yes, we have heard these songs live already and yes we get a terrible tinge of sadness as soon as we hear the opening chords of Head Over Heels just before the encore because that means the concert is almost over. But my goodness, we wouldn’t give this up for much of anything.

We learned that it was an abbreviated show. A few songs were missing but it was still an excellent night. Several of us were just happy we didn’t have to go home yet. We still had several days of music therapy and a taste of what a future life with Tears for Fears will be like (*cough* TFF Music Commune of Condos *cough*).

Rock n Roll Respite

The 2nd, 3rd and 4th we were on our own to do whatever we wanted. Andye went to water and physical therapy, others went running up and down the Vegas strip taking pictures and some sat in the Promenade people watching with fans for several hours. Medical teams were still attending to fans and band fan loyalists were checking on Jamie making sure he was hydrated and healing. Our Lady Lauren had gone home to L.A. and was also resting. Other fans tried out some cool restaurants and iconic spots on the Vegas strip.

Craig and sisters Elana and Lisa – loyal fans of Tears for Fears that have been touring since 1985!

It was a much needed three days of rejuvenation and that’s what we’re hoping we see in the next “band fan wish” of a Tears for Fears retirement condo community. LOL. We have already envisioned it. Fontainebleau’s social team thought it was fun and funny. They even retweeted our idea of it back in November before we went home from the first mini-res. Why not invest in a little real estate owned by the band…we’ll be privy to random shows surely! We laugh but we do discuss the idea a lot. Some even cancelled desperately needed home repairs with the hope of the possibility to invest. Those nights knowing the band was nearby and we were just “living” in their midst was an unmatched euphoria. Bring on the forever homes! If Jimmy Buffet can maintain residential property for his fans (may his soul rest) so can Tears for Fears! Call the mortgage brokers, liquidate the retirement residential funds and let’s do this thing!

5 February Show Moderator Notes

“This was my 40th time seeing Tears for Fears in performance/attending a Tears for Fears event. It was also Jamie’s 15th anniversary with the band. I still remember seeing him in those early days…particularly 2014 just before the band played The Working Hour at The Wiltern… he came by and said a quick hello to those of us who’d been outside perched since 1pm for their 9pm show. It was gen am back in those days – we don’t miss that hard concrete or sleeping outside. Check out this photo I keep in my phone. Look at that smile. Bless him. 🙂

Drummer Genius Jamie was kind to stop and say hi (2014 throwback Los Angeles). In 2025 he celebrated 15 years with Tears for Fears!

I was in my 6th or 7th year committed to the travel fan life and I feel unbelievably fortunate to have made it this long. The band has seen me at my best and worst, sickness and in better health. I’ve made some good decisions and some pretty pitiful ones too. Thankfully they’ve been super gracious and patient through it all. I show up as much as I can. Huge thanks to all involved for letting me take part in all the pleasantries of fan life. Each show has been so unique it’s impossible to say which ones were better than others though there are plenty that stand out including the Hollywood Bowl, Oklahoma 2014, The Wiltern 2014, Brit Week 2012, being a part of The Tipping Point movie and these the residencies…which are a miracle and answered prayer!

Curt’s Kerfuffle of Kooks 2012 – Brit Week starring Curt Smith.
We’re all still going to shows!

I sat second row this time vs. first. I didn’t want to ‘be in their face’ like that a third night and possibly risk them getting sick of me. Craig, Lisa, Elana and many others happily persisted through as well having been there in November and for all these additional shows in February. We really gelled and it was good to see Danny, Mike, Yara, our Toronto family, Rachel and her husband, Hadleigh and her family and our dearest Christine and Shelley plus so many others in the aforementioned cities plus the Brasileira European couple that have been to every single tour since 1985. It’s a whole other world, dimension, time and space being around that kind of energy. I have yet to have seen anything compare in my few decades on this planet. I was born the year before Roland and Curt moved forward as “Tears for Fears.” I can still feel the energy of hearing their music for the first time as a child. I still get that same soaring feeling of being lifted right into the cosmos when they walk out on stage. They have elevated us to the euphoric realm of astronauts in outer space and I pray we get to stand by them for a lifetime.”

7 February Show

Craig, Joe from Toronto, Anastasia and friends from San Diego and Santa Clara were there for the final show of the February residency. Roland delighted in his third child on the way and there was a lot of support for this series which allows us to go to the band vs. them flying our way. A lot of us prefer it because it gives us more time and is easier to “go live with them” for a few days vs. trying to hop planes and follow them from city to city. We know many can’t go stay in Vegas for extended periods of time but when one looks at the cost from a travel fan perspective, this was the most economical set of shows we’ve had in a while. No, it was not cheap, most travel isn’t… but it gave us time to be together in a different way. They also nearly sold out yet again. That concert seat map filled up toward the end once the wildfires subsided and people were able to get their schedules sorted. Very sorry for the fans that couldn’t manage it due to the disasters. You were missed and we hope you’re doing better. Here are some snippets from the events…

Gargantuan thanks to the staff at Fontainebleau for the incredible hospitality. As always all our love to the band, their families and fellow fans who make life worth living…we mean that in every sense. The post show superfanitis was so intense this time, a few of us were literally doubled over in pain. Some could barely get through the day. It’s a situation.

Ending on a high note, the band did a very kind gesture of signing items for a fan who was up front. You can see that in the video. Thank you, Craig, for caputuring that. This is a rare scene so congrats to those recipients.

Deep Dives & Podcasts

There were two interviews that stood out recently. One was the conversation that Curt had back in October before we headed out to Vegas for the first part of the residency. It wasn’t published until Q1 2025. It is excellent! Here it is: Rock & Roll Highschool interview with Pete Ganbarg.

Then there was the one with Song Exploder. It was also a double deep dive with both Mr. Smith and Mr. Orzabal adding information that we do not have in the archives. The spirit of both interviews is very bright and you can sense a joy in the interaction between the three of them. Hopefully it’s still available so everyone can listen.

What we’ve noticed is these music shows and podcast hosts of late are doing their homework vs. asking the band about the same thing over and over or harping on that which is not to be spoken of… They are indeed focused on the intricate nature of the music, the deeper meaning, the behind-the-scenes production and engineering plus musical influences of their formative years. In these welcomed deeper dives we loyalists have been given so much more information on top of the incredible things that Dave Mason and Nihal Arthanayake gathered for us back in 2022-2024.

Blueberry-Pineapple Smoothie Curt

Curt attended PsychODelphia which is the Psych conference that may become an annual thing. He was reunited with his buddies James Roday and Dule Hill plus the cast and crew. Several fans went and notably History from the Big Chair was there and got some great photos. Journey to Events provided photos which are what you see below from thier IG. We hope there will be another Psych movie and can’t wait to hear about future conferences. This one was well thought out, highly accommodating from what we could see and also featured several symbols that those in the know would easily recognise and enjoy. Andye the Mod actually owned a Blueberry/Blue Yaris up until Tour 2022. That thing saw some shows (well, the parking lots of many shows)!

Songs from the Big Chair turned 40 years old on the 25th of February this past quarter. We all celebrated online and coincidence or not, thought we were the first to post a group activity, and no we’re not in competition with their social media team wherever they are, but we suggested that everyone contribute a video of themselves singing. We of course loved the video of Lady Tamara singing EWTRTW and having an excellent time at Transmissions – the incredible party hosted by the awesome DJ Jake Rudh in Minnesota. Much like the success of Richard Blade that helped bring the joy of Tears for Fears to the states, DJ Rudh has indepth parties that go above and beyond your typical 80s top 40 bash. He plays deep tracks from ALL the bands. We’re so excited our Tamara has a great relationship with their programme and continues to represent the Tears for Fears fandom at those events. Video coming soon!

Transmissions is the ultimate portal to yesteryear! Follow DJ Jake Rudh on all platforms!

The rest of us had a big slice of cake – all kinds: chocolate, gluten free cheesecake, cookies and then several sprinted out to the featured one-off of Everybody Wants to Run the World (yes run…it exists, surely you didn’t forget about this song) to burn off the excess of sugar and honour Curt’s iconic running days he used to share. Also celebrating a milestone are The Tipping Point in year 3 and the 45th year of Acting My age by Graduate. Artist Ade Beanhead Pridham created some outstanding art to match. Amanda BT has displayed a lot of it plus some other great ones.

Appearances

The Hurting was featured in the series The Last of Us – episode from 4 May. For those that know Andye’s involvement with that part of the television industry, she says she didn’t have anything to do with that. However, she does have their photo everywhere possible and is not the only fan in that area of the television industry. We’re all hoping that The Tipping Point movie does end up on a streaming service soon.

Tears for Fears’ The Hurting featured on The Last of Us on HBO MAX

There’s more…

Lady Lauren Evans has new music! She was also invited to sing the National Anthem again at the 15 May L.A. Dodgers game. That’s at least the third time she’s been their guest. Pretty darn cool.

Lauren also hosted her 4th and 5th Affirmations series – both of which included a sound bath for attendees – and will have had a 6th by the time this note goes out. These sessions are so good. She also sang on the 5th one. That was healing for several of us. If you have not attended one of her weeklong online interactions that culminates with the Afterglow Party, you should. It’s not a gender based event, it’s a harmonious session for humans and we love it! Participants get a chance to really sit down and look at their lives, their perspective and change course if needed with her guidance. We do not offload our woes to Lauren in these sessions but we do feel further guided in efforts to take better care ourselves. Lauren’s Affirmations sessions are highly recommended.

Affirmations series with Lauren Evans – follow @thereallaurenevans on IG for the next one!

She’s also opened her Pen Alchemy Academy which is suited for song writers. If you’re looking to write music, join it. You’ll be in good hands!

Carina Round

Lady Carina also has new music and hosted an online concert experience from her January 2024 shows. The package came with a lot of cool things and she signed (on camera) the vinyls. Several fans flocked online to enjoy it. It was an overwhelmingly incredible event in that she gave more than her level best. She left it all on the stage as some say.

“I tried to hold it together but ended up crying uncontrollably by the 42nd minute mark. Her concert was soooo good!” – Andye Mod

Hopefully she has another opportunity for fans to enjoy her music. She extended this one to the 8th of June. That gave everyone plenty of time to watch. But still hope she does another. She also has really cool merch. So for those that constantly tell us how much you like her, show her some love at the online merch table. Carina also had a birthday on the 20th of April. Hope everyone got a chance to wish her many happy returns!

Professor Doug Petty (read that again, Professor Doug Petty… mmmm dontcha just love how awesome it is to have so much education and talent in one band?), shared this cool gradutation photo. Many will remember that Doug teaches at USC Thorton School of Music. Yes, we tried to take his class but some of us are remote and we can’t seem to find that opportunity in the course options. Hoping to get into some music theory classes with him and anything else he’s involved in there …education is a magic key!

Doug Petty with family at daughter’s graduation on Father’s Day 2025

The Drummer Genius Jamie Wollam is sitting in a state of nirvana with his craft. We say that because how can one improve on blessed perfection like his? He has a lot to offer on his website and continues to be interviewed by music shows as well as share what’s new in his world. Be sure to drop some hearts on his Instagram profile and follow him there.

Jamie on drums playing Tears for Fears’ “Change.”

Charlton and Gootch share a birthday on the 13th of February. We really need to sit down to dinner with both of them and just listen to everything they have to say. We’ll have our annual reading of Charlton’s Book “Exit Strategy” in August (could do with a book signing to be honest). We’ll also be looking to visit (as a group) his additional media industry work that he completed last year.

Tears for Fears’ Band Family and Alumni

Oleta Adams celebrated her 72nd birthday on the 4th of May. We wish her many happy returns and lots of love as she continues to find joy in retirement from touring. We miss her and look forward to seeing her at other events.

Nicky Holland also had a birthday on the 20th of February. Here’s one of her solo songs that we all love so much.

The Marvelous Artists in the band’s family are sweeping and swooshing their paint brushes plus perfecting pictures with their pens. Curt Smith’s youngest daughter, Lady Wilder, recently did portraits for patrons at an establishment. They turned out absolutely super. Raoul won additional awards including RISE Emerging Artist and has been praised in the art society for his excellent and detailed work. Both Lady Wilder and Mr. Orzabal create worlds that you can get lost in for hours.

“I know I’m not the only one who has spent a significant amount of time meandering through their incredible designs and detailed work. You come out of that wishing it was something you could literally step into and maybe never come out! They create the most glorious worlds!” – Andye Mod

Lady Wilder was featured at the FineDayFair and created incredible art for the guests!

Curt’s eldest daughter, Lady Diva Smith, has released two new singles. Both are incredible and have been on repeat in Tears for Fears fan land. They each have videos that we love. She also was part of a very well conducted interview with B-sidestv. You can watch that here:

Rock n Stroll Tours Bath (in Bath UK)

Cool guy Shaun Smith and the beloved John Baker have launched their Rock n Stroll Walking Tour in the great city of Bath. As many will remember our Lady Tamara was privy to such a glorious experience that included a personal tour with the renowned Dave Mason of the media and broadcast industry. To step into history and take the path of the beloved Bath musicians we swoon over daily is certainly sacred. Fans are quickly queuing up for this opportunity. Be sure to put this on your travel list. They also were featured on Radio Bath. This interview won’t last forever, but here it is for now. If you come back in a year and it’s gone, we’re so sorry. You may want to reach out to Dave Mason and team to get a copy.

The Way You Wear It?

People are making their own Tears for Fears merch. It’s become a situation. LOL. There are rugs, bags and so much more. We do enjoy what the band has provided but we’re also diggin’ the phone cases that we’ve seen in the forum and in general. Thanks to those not selling their image and making money from it because that’s a copyright infringement and we don’t want to be rude to the band that heals us.

Musicians Among Us

Soul Twin Messiah released a really good golden nugget of a song called …Only Gold Matters Now and “It’s a Day Worth Imagining.” It’s perfect timing as the economy went bizerk at the time of the release. Not to get deeply political but good gracious it was a wild ride out there and this song was quite comforting in the midst of the angst. As mentioned, STM has a YouTube channel and they are more than just musicians, they are Tears for Fears fans and humanitarians among us. Several of us have spent many a night and early morning watching their content.

When we as fans are together in person we brainstorm and discuss how to give back and improve the society around us. After much research that began almost one year ago thanks to Sharron Foxx, another musician in the fold with great ties to legends in the industry, a few of us literally found the answer to many of the things we’ve been discussing…in STM’s recent work.

This quarter we suggest focusing on the history of how we got to where we are now. When one looks at the origins and influences of Songs from the Big Chair, a lot of people go straight to The Beatles. Roland has spoken in depth about SOL and in the recent interviews mentioned other musicians’ work that was in their ear at the time of production. Go back and revisit those interviews and you’ll “hear” songs like “Woman in Chains” in a whole new way. We certainly did! We have more of an appreciation for it now than ever before.

“What does this all have in common with our love for Tears for Fears? Counter Culture. I won’t go into the deep dive, I’ll save that for our next Substack article (oh yeah, we’ve moved off Facebook and on to Substack– details later). But take it upon yourself to understand the root of this music which can be seen in the videos that were produced by Soul Twin Messiah’s Evan G. Hirsch (The Blue Rocker). They have a library of videos regarding the origins of this change in society that no longer accepted limited roles, classifications for various ethnic groups and other things that were rooted in propaganda. Very grateful for all the work they put into their series…” – Andye Mod

In our next Zoom call we’ll be taking a moment to discuss the era, the timing, musicians and leaders who thankfully swerved society out of a chaotic future. Their efforts allowed a few generations to experience a time of enlightenment before we reached the level of absolute chaos we’ve seen of late. It’s important to remember these movements, their origins and why we still need them. Soul Twin Messiah’s core tenant is LOVE and we know Tears for Fears are all about sowing those seeds. Enjoy STM’s S.O.U.L videos and let’s have a conversation!

Also take a look at these great organizations Women’s Audio Mission (WAM) and Marin Shakespheare Theatre. They are worth learning about and will benefit from support.

Gen Alpha Adores Tears for Fears

We have a number of kids in the fifth generation of our fan team that love to get involved with Tears for Fears fan activities. Some even play music. Bobby B-blaze’s son, Keanu Russell, plays lots of Tears for Fears at home and practices their songs using one of Roland Orzabal’s guitars! Kinda helps that he has a big brother named Roland as well. Check him out!

Tamara’s nephew loves to sing “Shout,” by Tears for Fears. Look out for him in the Q3 update on Roland’s birthday!

Sending lots of hugs to all fellow fans. Thank you for keeping in touch and checking in with each other. Stay well, be healthy, follow the band on Instagram and Threads. They do have a shadow presence on Bluesky but it’s not active. We have no comment on the TikTok account because we don’t know who is managing that. Big hugs to Garbage for giving Tears for Fears a shoutout on their latest album Let All That We Imagine Be The Light. Be sure to get a copy and mix it into your Tears for Fears band – fan family musicians playlist.

Post Haste!

Get your tickets for the September and October shows directly from Ticketmaster. We do not recommend using third party vendors. A fan recently purchased from a third party and suddently couldn’t find that party to deliver their tickets. Also, a recent festival had to cancel on the 2nd day. They issued refunds to the point of sale meaning those that bought resale tickets did not get their refunds. The sellers who already collected money for the tickets (likely at a higher price) just bankrolled. The purchaser on the other hand is out of luck. A rule of thumb, buy from the original source. You don’t need to be chasing people for your tickets. Try your hardest to avoid it. If you buy from a fellow fan, they should transfer the ticket immediately, not hold it until the day of the show. Also go ahead and book your accommodations now before occupancy fills up. Remember what happened last fall…the show sold out!

Fontainebleau is located on the northern most part of the Vegas Strip… it’s quiet and serene…

Word of caution for fellow fans, do not put your seat number and section plus order number on social media. It’s not safe. Just say you’re going and let people you trust know where you are sitting. Do not put a screengrab or details of your exact seat anywhere online. We’ll discuss why in our Substack deep dives.

Remember merch has been available through the app on the day of the show (both Oct/Nov and Feb). You likely will not need to stand in line but can order in advance and pick it up once the show is over. Then enjoy a seat in the promendae for the post show wind down with fellow fans.

Countdown to showtime starts now!

Safe travels and travel planning to fans from Japan returning as well as a long time fan from Sweden. Big shoutout to Becky H. for reporting seat corrections that were needed and not originally in order upon arrival during the 30 October show last year. She and a Fontainbleau staff member ensured that the sections were corrected so that everyone got the seats they picked and paid for…both are heroes!

Talk to you soon! Enjoy a slice of one of Curt’s favourites – Blum’s Coffee Crunch Cake and Get ready for Roland’s birthday in August! Thanks for reading!

Cheers,

TFF Travel Fan Team Moderators

*pardon any typos, we’re still adding a few things but wanted to make sure we got this out on Curt’s cake day! More to come on Substack!

Tears for Fears Travel Fan Quarterly Update…90+ Days of Bliss and Superfanitis

Dedicated to Penny in Canada who worked with fellow travel fans to ensure they got premium seats and then gave away an extra set of tickets. That said a lot. Thank you so much Penny! Those seats were incredible floor seating and she went out of her way to make sure true fans were able to enjoy the show. In addition, long time fans in the area were able to go because of her! It’s not the first time she’s done something super cool in the name of Tears for Fears. We salute you Penny and appreciate your presence in the fandom!

We also want to recognize the superfans that showed up and showed out for Vegas 2024. According to the Ticketmaster seating chart, there were only resale tickets available for the 3 shows by mid October. In other words, looks like Tears for Fears had 3 sold out concerts at Fontainebleau.

VIK and MVP award goes to Sujit for flying in from Japan to make sure he was there Friday and Saturday night. What a gent! Huge thanks to Shelley and Chris for going the extra mile to encourage others to give it a go. We made it and the two months of events were a sensation – Tears for Fears took it to a whole other level of love and excitement!

There were 3 main events that took place in Q4: The Tipping Point movie with the album release, the Vegas mini-residency and multiple interviews and appearances. But some fans were just hopeful the band would take a much needed rest. Some just wanted them to get some sleep. They work so hard, when do they rest?

From the moderator, “I simply wanted the band to rest in 2024. I wanted them to do something else vs. touring because that is hard on the mind and body despite the fun. In January 2024 I started making a Tears for Fears wish list and on it was “rest for the band.” A few have seen the list.  I prayed, ‘please let them do something else other than a tour.’ My hope was that they would be involved in something profitable for themselves, something we could all enjoy no matter where we were in the world and that it would give us fans a chance to save up for a residency in 2025 or future. However, I did feel like something was going to happen in the fall and thus I tweeted a snippet from a conversation I had re: ‘something will happen in the autumn months’ and it did! Yay Superfan ESP lol! Hopefully whomever is currently in charge of their schedules can let us know soon about coming events so we can prepare in advance.”

Clearly the prayer was answered beyond many of our wildest dreams. We got Despicable Me 4 featuring Tears for Fears music, The Tipping Point Movie and a beautiful mini-residency at a very nice venue. It would be remiss to say the announcement could and should have been a heck of a lot sooner than a few months out but Roland and Curt are not to blame for that. We on the travel fan side recognise that many fans almost didn’t make it and several did not stating they didn’t have time to change their already set fall schedule. We are planners so most of us already know six months in advance (at least) what we’re doing for the year. However, a miracle did happen and we collectively filled that venue for the three nights. Rick H. of the TFF Travel Fan team captured this brilliant image of a packed house!

Let’s celebrate the awesomeness of the past three months. Each event had huge fan fare and activities. Years ago, sitting around with fellow fans we talked about how we’d love to be in a Tears for Fears video. We came up with a variety of scenarios such as singing on the beach on a breezy day or forming a TFF Choir with the elegant choral attire and all. But nothing could have prepared us for the idea of actually being in a movie. In an interview earlier in 2024, we heard about a “musical.” We thought it was going to be something on Broadway. As we began looking into hotels in the Manhattan area, assuming that we’d end up flying to New York to see some guys portraying Roland and Curt in a stage production, we were beyond thrilled to see that it was something even better…we’d all be on the big screen! To quote their friends Duran Duran, instead of Girls on Film, it’s Fans on Film.

Tears for Fears Travel fans & Brit from VIP in Franklin Tennessee for the Tipping Point Live production

The Franklin Tennessee show (the one that we refer to as TFF Nash and actually had t-shirts to boot two years prior when Lady Tam turned our attention that way) was brought to all around the world. It was super cool seeing ourselves and a huge gift from the band to take it to this level. Lady Tamara attended the event and got a photo with one of the production team members from the concert. She went to both showings in her town, driving the extra miles to get to the locations where it was featured.

Huge thanks to Lady Tam and Darren for sharing all their photos from the Tipping Point Movie events. Congratulations Darren on meeting the band after all these years. We were happy to see that Pascal Orzabal, Roland’s extraordinary musical son we know as ‘Quarterboy’ was also present. Simon Skinner was able to get some incredible photos as well. There was also a Q&A opportunity the following night. Very grateful the band was kind enough to host these types of extras that are quite coveted. We hope they’ll spend some time with us in Vegas/sign a few pieces of merch as well given we have literally 3 days between shows on the 2-4th of February. Still shocked the shows are even happening given the emotional state of California re: the wildfires. Curt and family had to evacuate for a night. If anyone is travelling from L.A. and needs to talk or wants a hug, we’re here for you!

The interviews that took place between the movie and the Vegas shows were outstanding with Nihal Arthanayake. leading the way. Mr. Arthanayake conducted an indepth conversation with Roland and Curt that was just as incredible as the ones he did in 2022 and 2023. He always goes above and beyond in that he is a true fan that truly knows the band’s work. He does his research and is able to refer to things that no other interviewers do outside of their pal Dave Mason from Radio Bath. While others have the cheek to harp on the same information time and time again, Nihal prompts the band to converse about things we have never heard before. Between he and Dave Mason, we’ve learned more about the band in the last 3 years than we have in their 43+ year career. Speaking of Dave, he was the first to play a lot of the new music and he continues to play new Tears for Fears music on his Friday show that we nicknamed “The Listening Hours.” Be sure to take time and listen to Nihal’s interview and set your alarm to tune into Radio Bath on Fridays from 9am to 12pm ET (2pm BST).

Other notable and worthy interviews and articles include:

Album release (all the versions)

Chris Nichols of the TFF Fan Forum on FB among many others have each version…EACH!

The album release was 25 October. So many of us have come to see that 25 is a powerful number in the Tearsverse. (e.g. 25 Feb 1984 SFTBC, 25 Feb 2022 TTP and 25 Oct 2024 SFANP). There were SEVERAL versions/colourways of this album which soared quickly to icon status with incredible symbols. We have adopted one of the symbols and are now using that as a fan descriptor. Years ago we asked ourselves, “what shall we be called?” Many replied, “Kooks and Orzies” after all the fan activities and the coveted VIK badges we received in that beautiful bundle Curt provided for us in 2012/2013.

Sujit’s collection includes the VIK badge

Some suggested “The Seeds,” in reference to the sunflowers that decorate the Tears-space. However, after we met the astronaut in October, we were hooked on Astro-Kooks or some form of that. We’re going with Astronauts and Kooks right now and wearing little astronaut pins and such on our clothes representing the album and so much more. Again, the album itself has 4 new songs and a bonus called Landlocked that in our opinion has gone virtually unsung and ignored. That needs to change. Somebody get that song on the setlist please! Maybe Radio Bath UK will give it a spin during Dave Mason’s listening hours on Fridays.

The Target release CD has the song Landlocked on it while others do not. Correct us if we’re wrong, but we haven’t seen it on any other version. In fact, the Target website said it was out of stock as of 26 December. So check back again if you don’t have that version. However, we doubt most fans didn’t grab it in advance. The Tears for Fears fan admin team members (looking at you Danny, Darren and Brian) have more than a few versions of the album it seems. Reach out to them on the Tears for Fears Collectors page to get a comprehensive view of what was available. From the SDE Superdeluxe option to the coveted Blueberry Cream to…you name it! Thank you Adam H. of Atlanta and Evan Gary Hirsch – The Blue Rocker for sharing the unboxing of the album and merch!

Adam H. and Evan Gary Hirsch – The Blue Rocker unboxing Songs for a Nervous Planet.

As The Blue Rocker noted in the video, songs include the live versions from the Franklin Tennessee show that took place in July 2023 at the First Bank Amphitheatre venue plus the four new tracks. Making a total of 22 gems. We were there and you read about it here in the archives – 2023 section. It was overwhelming in person and sounds incredible on the recording. Shoutout to Lady Tamara for her continued promotion push for the band to do something in Nashville. Franklin was close enough and we were thrilled. Team NASH for the win!

Sadly fans in parts of North Carolina did not get to see the movie due to the hurricane that came through and ravaged everything in sight. A group of musicians on their way to their own performances created a video showing the issues they faced while there. Our dear Shelley lives in the area and it was an ordeal getting out of there. It’s a miracle she made it to Vegas at all! Shoutout to all who literally leap over all sorts of hurdles to get to Tears for Fears events. We know the band is certainly aware of our situations otherwise the album wouldn’t have been called Songs for a Nervous Planet. They see what’s going on from natural disasters to political fallouts and have said so on multiple occasions. They pay attention (e.g. Monsoon of 2012 The Philippines). Hate that we’re back in a weird situation on the planet again with so many things in disarray. Let the music bring us solace.

Track List (and their abbreviations as created by fans e.g. ELAHE)

  1. Say Goodbye to Mum and Dad (SGtMaD)
  2. The Girl That I Call Home (TGTICH)
  3. Emily Said (ES)
  4. Astronaut
  5. No Small Thing (NST)
  6. The Tipping Point (TTP)
  7. Everybody Wants to Rule the World (EWTRTW)
  8. Secret World (SW)
  9. Sowing the Seeds (STS)
  10. Long, Long, Long Time (LLLT)
  11. Break the Man (BTM)
  12. My Demons (MD)
  13. Rivers of Mercy (ROM)
  14. Mad World (MW)
  15. Suffer the Children (STC)
  16. Woman in Chains (WIC)
  17. Badman’s Song (Badman’s)
  18. Pale Shelter (PS)
  19. Break It Down Again (BIDA)
  20. Head over Heels (HOH)
  21. Change
  22. Shout

The vinyl is gorgeous and even if you don’t have a record player or turntable at home, it’s still nice to have. Again, shoutout to Adam and Lisa who are proud owners of a signed copy from the SuperVinyl event in Los Angeles. We love you both!! The artist that designed the SFANP cover is a super cool chap by the name of Surrealisty. He’s on most social platforms and is very interactive. I think we have an exchange nearly every day. His work combines AI and a variety of other art mediums to produce almost Salvadore Dali level delights that will make you stop and stare.  

*We’d love to hear from those who bought theirs from Amazon. One fan reported that the cd didn’t have but one in the cd package – the other was missing.

As mentioned, to honour the album release significant things took place in addition to the Vegas mini-residency. There was the aforementioned vinyl signing at SuperVinyl and also an appearance on Jimmy Kimmel. Big thanks to the fans that did a detour and rushed over to L.A. in advance of the Vegas shows to be there to support the band’s event at SuperVinyl.

Fans at SuperVinyl with Tears for Fears before the Vegas shows at Fontainebleau ^^

Seeing the band on Jimmy Kimmel Live was so much fun. We were screaming when we saw both Lauren and Carina on stage. Our phones were blowing up as excited fans called and texted that they were happy to see them singing together. We are all hoping this power move is the norm moving forward. Something about those two voices and how they interact and collab during the live shows is something to behold.

Speaking of something to behold… We were not ready for what we witnessed that week in Vegas. Those shows took us into another dimension!

Fontainebleau is an incredible hotel! If you’re going to Vegas 2025, take advantage of their great discounts and stay there!

The Vegas Shows at Fontainebleau

Fontainebleau itself is majestic. Perhaps because it’s so new and less than two years old (opened in December 2023)? It’s super swank and that makes a huge difference. It’s also pronounced “fountain-blue” and not the traditional French pronunciation that many of us were giving it the whole time and still today. Andye is not switching, so if you hear her say “Fontainebleau” you know…

Enjoy this reel of the fun everyone had while there ^^ with Tears for Fears… It’s 45 mins of featuring the day many fans left their homes to the end of the 3rd show.

Read the Show Details

30 Oct

Each show was different from the next. Yes, same set list but there were nuances that made them feel like a different event each night. We planned to meet up at 4pm the day of the first show to spend time together as a fandom but actually met at 6pm and waited by the doors of the BleauLive theatre instead. Several fans alerted each other that there was a new merch opportunity where we could use a QR code to buy everything we wanted versus standing in a line that wrapped around in all kinds of ways. The line was organised but still quite long as expected so we used the QR code option.

The merch for SFANP is gorgeous and comfortable. You can see it in the online store. The hoodie and the white t-shirt (lovingly rebranded as the new SFTBC) is a favourite and a few of us wore it excessively. Andye had a hard time forcing herself to take it off and even slept in it. Not to get too off on a tangent, one fan noted that the hoodie that they purchased in person is different from the ones online. She took a photo and compared them (photo is further down in this update).

The venue staff was lovely! They were super in helping us to our seats, had a warm demeanor and did not harass us about gathering near the stage to take photos prior. They even let Pierre from Mexico hand over his posters to be signed. Now that’s rare!! Congrats Pierre!

The show began about 8:17pm. Not to be petty but we noticed the exact time because the interlude music was still playing at 8pm. We started praying at 8:15pm because we thought maybe something was off. You know we can be prone to panic in our concern for their well-being.

When they entered the stage it was like watching the heavens open and several earth angels walk out. Roland was dressed to the nines in that gorgeous winter white with his stunning tresses. Curt was mega handsome and sharp as ever looking súper suave. Charlton was warm and immaculate while Jamie was cool in his drummer genius way. Doug was dapper and “The Girls” as they have been nicknamed endearingly were fierce and fashionable as ever! The energy they brought to that stage was 50 to 100 times higher than tours past. We are accustomed to a beautiful stoicism with grace, excitable and energetic peace if you know what we mean – super soulful and mindful. This show, however, was like watching supernatural sparks flying all over the place in perfect union. We were gobsmacked!

The conversations, chats and backstories were welcomingly plentiful and the shoutouts to fans who flew in were a MAJOR BONUS! My goodness Curt! That was worth the whole drive across country! To top it off even more, Roland, Curt and Charlton were so close to the fans. We on the front row got a real treat when they came forward together and played guitar. It didn’t feel like earth at all. It was a whole other dimension.

Roland and Curt – Tears for Fears up close and rockin’ out for fans! ^^

They spent TIME with us at that concert. It literally felt like a MeetUp or a intimate event similar to the ones Curt hosted in the past. Words are not enough. This was a total immersion in peace, love, understanding and ultimate joy! They brought it ALL!!!!

A Shocker After the First Show

So, we sat around trying to come down from the astrological experience. We were practically gasping for air. Not sure at what point this occurred but we got a note that they were coming back to Vegas in Feb 2025. We freaked out! A 5-hour emergency meeting took place on the 31st. We did all we could to work out the logistics. We, again, had less than a week to come up with the resources to repeat the experience. That’s a whole other conversation for another time. The consensus was “We’ll try.”

1 & 2 November, 2024 Shows

The next two nights were just as fantastic with, again, incredible energy! They were dancing from one end of the stage to the other! Toward the end, Lauren was singing between Curt and Charlton. Carina came over to the center right and sang. They were bouncing around and partying in perfect pitch. We were ogling at Roland’s guitar stickers too. They are so cool! Way to decorate all the new guitars you told us about in Palm Springs, Mr. Orzabal! Curt made it clear that we were in for a rocky ride for this event because they hadn’t gotten all the songs “down” yet but none of us could tell really. They performed perfectly and we were on cloud nine!

He also noted we were in for a politically wild situation. We see he was right. No matter who you like or don’t, we see the in-fighting with the new stateside administration. Curt’s thoughts on the matter are valid but some very obnoxious people showed their arses further demonstrating the craziness of it all. Those people have been identified due to hateful comments they made during the event and online. Those who harassed innocent fans online – fans who hadn’t even engaged with them prior – have been blocked and banned from mingling with us specifically as they clearly don’t actually listen to the lyrics of TFF but want to request all the backstage passes they can get. Unacceptable.

Another bonus was learning the meaning behind the songs and becoming more familiar with, and sealed to, the astronaut theme. Our appreciation for Emily Said grows more and more daily. As mentioned, Curt gave some lovely shoutouts. He recognised a fan who was at the very first Tears for Fears show in the United States back in the 80s and he said hi to Andye who was there celebrating her 37th TFF event/show attendance. Fans who flew in from around the world were noted and the band was generous with souvenirs as always.

Bobby B-blaze wore Roland’s jacket from the Elemental tour and it was noticed. He also got a guitar pick to give to his son who is currently working on music and playing Tears for Fears songs. From one row to another the fans were interacted with and getting some quality face time with the band. It was a blessing, a gift and we love that the venue is arranged in such a way that we can be that close without encroaching on their personal space. It’s very well set-up.

Tears for Fears Super fans gathered at Fontainebleau for the 2 November 2024 concert…^^

From the moderator:

“The dimension that Tears for Fears led us into was supernatural. No one will ever change my mind. They are always over the top incredible but this time it was even more than the gargantuan phenomenal extravaganzas they’ve done before! How is this possible?

The love that Carina and Lauren received was welcomed. They deserve so much praise for what they brought to the stage! We’re obsessed with the both of them! We’re just trying to behave and not do some frightening superfan scream i.e. Beatle mania (also pray for Julian Lennon please – he’s had a health scare.)

When I say, I did not want leave. I was ready to see about a transfer to Vegas or just move back to the west coast immediately. Their joy permeated the hotel. Everybody in there from the in-room dining team to the bellmen were singing their songs when they saw our t-shirts. My superfanitis was more intense than it ever has been. I was emotionally distraught on Monday when we headed home – I still am. Trying to “go home cause you can’t stay here” was impossible to accept. Not even counseling has helped. I was turnt!! These shows were like none other. They did that!”

But there were some odd moments – no fault of the band…just things that can be fixed (and in two case have been) for future by the venue.

The first night, the sides got switched and people thinking they were on Curt’s side were actually on Roland’s. Shoutout to the lady that yelled for that to be rectified. The thing is, many fans have a view they have become accustomed to these decades and while we adore the whole band, we know people who literally like to stand facing Carina/Lauren and others who like to be at a certain angle in front of Charlton with a good view of Jamie. Getting the seating chart matched with what one paid for is crucial. Was quite shocked the venue goofed on that but again, very grateful it was fixed!

The third night (Saturday) a woman tried to “buy people out of their seats.” Now we understand why some venues don’t let anyone that does not have a seat on the front row even go past the second! The lady kept asking two particular travel fans if she could give them a couple hundred dollars and the offer increased at one point. These hard core fans rightfully said, “No!” We don’t go through the discomfort of logistics to sell ourselves out for a seat in a section far from fellow fans.

There was also a drunk man on the front row who made it clear he didn’t know where he was. His lady friend was just …well…we don’t know if she was a fan or just there making a scene with her arms all over the place. Her male companion literally pushed the front row seats back a few inches causing even further tightness in the audience.

The proximity of the seats made it feel like we were packed like sardines. Not sure what happened. Also, some told us they couldn’t see the band because there was literally a wall in front of their seats despite being front row. Andye gave out some extra tickets for center seats hoping to remedy the surprisingly bad views of the stage that some said they had. The venue has modified the seating chart for Vegas 2025 so we imagine it will be much more comfortable.

Merch issue:

As noted in the video, we used a QR code to avoid the line and buy merch that we were able to pick up after the show. We saw a fee of over $4 dollars per item on one receipt afterwards. It was a service fee. So it looks as though about $4+ is being added to each item? Be mindful of that. Not sure if there’s a fee if you stand in the merch line but we used the QR code option and paid a total of $9+ extra for two shirts.

Post Show & 2025 Planning

We spent the rest of the time in the hotel blissfully recovering from the incredible experience. But Blue Monday hit us like a hammer…that morning we got up early and engaged with Ticketmaster as a group to get tickets. It was a hair raising time filled with adrenaline because the mobile app required double authentication while the web did not. Internet connectivity that morning was not great. Andye’s laptop connection literally shut down and out of anger and frustration she said she wasn’t going. Many of us were slowed down and with all of us trying to get our preferred seats it became frustrating and very unpleasant. The thought of not getting to repeat that other worldly experience was gut wrenching and made several of us very upset.

The saddest part was the prices looked as if they increased about $200 for platinum seats making it impossible for us to attend all four days because it “felt like” the ticketing system was taking advantage of us. Several called saying they were not paying $1200+ for a ticket that was under $1000 just a few days ago. While the shows are worth $5,000, it’s the principle. A seat that was $800 in November was suddenly $1250 for February 2025. Price gouging felt very real. No fault of the band. They can’t regulate TM. Shoutout to Robert Smith of The Cure – IYKYK.

We’re going to stop here re: tickets. We just wish there was a better way to support Tears for Fears free of certain ticketing systems and people unrelated to the band and their business that take advantage of fans and events. This doesn’t happen to just Tears for Fears fans, it happens to MANY live music lovers.

*If you need tickets to the Vegas 2025 event, we surprisingly have several second row seats and a few other center seats for the entire week at original price.

These were the only negatives re: 2024 Vegas. We’re grateful that we got to experience such an incredible week together in the presence of Tears for Fears! It was priceless and nothing can compare to the healing energy they provide. It’s just out of this world!

Tears for Fears on NBC’s The Voice

Tears for Fears were also featured on the finale of NBC’s The Voice. If you had the opportunity to watch it on cable you saw the whole show on the same night. Those with the Peacock streaming service had to wait until Wednesday to see the band. Thankfully fellow fans were on hand recording it and got it posted to the fan forums and more so the loyal die-hards didn’t have to wait. We don’t see the NBC official recording from The Voice YouTube account so here’s the one from Retro Hits.

There were so many other awesome things that occurred days after the Vegas shows including Curt getting to hold the falcon at the football game. It’s a beautiful photo. Deb in Boston noted that her aunt is the first falconer in the USA. That’s really cool.

Curt Smith at the game with a new feathered friend – Mr. Falcon

Spotify Wrapped

If you looked at the unboxing video above you saw the Spotify Wrapped gift from the band to fans who were top listeners this year. If you love showing that off, you likely are showing off the merch too in your everyday lives. We had an issue where some pasta sauce fell on the new TFF Astronaut jacket and thankfully the band obliged us and got the merch online by that afternoon. New jacket immediately secured. However, it is a bit different from the ones we bought in Vegas. Vegas’ jackets have the blue astronaut and the ones in the merch store that arrived pretty quick after ordering, have a white astronaut and black drawstring. They are also a bit heavier. The Vegas one is great for spring and cooler temps while the merch store one will keep you from freezing in the cold. Think of “Green Mad World Hoodie” from 2023. *The 2025 Vegas merch includes the white astronaut.

Thank you P. Golding for sharing a photo of the difference.

Other news in band land…

Oleta Adams has officially retired from touring. There’s even a rumour she isn’t living in Kansas City anymore? But she’ll always love The Kansas City Chiefs – Go Chiefs! Here’s a great video of our dear Queen Oleta that we’re enjoying. Be sure to continue to follow her online in all the spaces she shares music and news. She’ll always be Queen Oleta to us!

Raoul, Roland’s eldest son, is finishing some of his artwork and sharing about it. Upside Down Clinic is now on Spotify. You can stream their music there. The Korgis FB page is active as John Baker who is now featured in a fan group Titled Roland, Curt and John Baker – too darn cute! Love that! Lady Wilder posted a new piece of art and it is awesome! Follow her on IG for the latest in her world. We’re trying to catch up with Lady Diva Carina has new merch and you can find it on her website. Pretty cool things! Check it out! Lauren is still healing people with her work and assisting everyone emotionally as they get through these horrible wildfires in the L.A. area and beyond.

Lauren and Carina with Tears for Fears in Vegas 2024 ^^

Soul Twin Messiah

There are lots of bands in the TFF space. There’s Quarterboy, Diva Smith, Lauren and Carina have their own music and collaborations. Fans of the band have music. For goodness sake, we even have Julian Lennon in the fold. What an honour it was to see him at Hollywood Bowl. Superfan Sharron Foxx spent over a decade with the Pink Floyd cover band Wish You Were Here and took us backstage for a virtual tour. Then on the 4th of July Sharron slid something into Andye’s DM’s.

“Honestly I almost ignored it. I was irritated that day and feeling fussy. I opened the IG inbox and there was a video with a super high vibration. I’m ultra sensitive to various energies and this one had a pull like none other. We talk about this kind of thing often in the corners of the Tearsverse. I looked at the video, knew it had some kind of power and just said, “I’m not ready for this. Noooo. Not getting caught up in this. That’s another one of those groups dwelling in another dimension. The Tearsverse is overwhelming as is. I’m not sure we can handle another band. Months later I’m glad I ignored my intuition. Soul Twin Messiah is an excellent addition to our world.” – Andye

Here’s why we’re glad that intuition was ignored… One of the messages that we have been given from TFF over the years is to “THINK” and not follow blindly. That’s why it was so absolutely mind blowing to see the Cabaret style hatred in the response in response to Curt’s observations from several men on a particular row on the second night of the Vegas shows. The lyrics of Tears for Fears’ music asks and prompts listeners to pay attention to everything in the political space and beyond.

Encountering the band Soul Twin Messiah, with their very human experience focused catalog of music that has roots in the sacred Haight-Ashbury district gives us a call to action for the very thing that Tears for Fears has been telling us for 43 years. Moving forward we in the TFF Travel Fan group are going to explore, listen and plan a new route into actionable service to help honour the legacy of Tears for Fears. We’re going down into the rabbit warrens of San Francisco and the counterculture movement. Soul Twin Messiah (who are long time fans of Tears for Fears) have laid out a clear path with their brilliant work, their documentary, and S.O.U.L. YouTube videos. In them we found numerous solutions for a better world that were well written, documented on camera with interviews and advice from visionaries. From legends like Jacque Fresco to those running institutions featuring the greats from the 60s and modern day, it’s all there. We don’t have to live in chaos and disarray. While none of this is based on “religion,” we agree with Rabbi Brous (the head of IKAR – the open minded shul), who has repeatedly said in regards to the way this world is going, “There is a better way.”

Very grateful to all of the teams in California for staying the course and aiming for a cleaner, kinder and loving way of living. Super thankful to Oshallah and The Blue Rocker who practice what they promote and are not joking around. We see it and we “get it.” The time is now.

We can sit here and bop along contributing nothing to society or we can take meaningful action by listening and collaborating with each other to make the most of what we’ve got. Look at how many of us FLOCK to shows annually – literally spending days clinging to each other in love and harmony – imagine what we can build with great guidance from those who have been successful before us. We’re already talking about a TFF condo community. Let’s move forward and get on the path to promote endless joy and kindness. It’s the “Tears for Fears thing” to do!

“High time we made a stand and shook up the views of the common man …and the love train riding coast to coast…” Sowing the Seeds, TFF 1989

Join in when you’re ready.

Speaking of Actions…

You may have noticed that Curt is no longer on Twitter (X) and neither are we. In the early days of November we left him a note stating we’re okay with leaving that platform. It didn’t feel like a healthy place any longer among other things. You can find him and Tears for Fears official on Facebook, IG, Threads and Bluesky. We as a fan team will be decreasing our time on questionable platforms and instead posting here on our subscription site and Bluesky until further notice.

Healthy Fans are Happy Fans

Therapain Plus is available for those who have been in pain (e.g. knees, back, shoulders). We’re discussing this because many in conversation have noted some aches and issues (of all ages). This is what has been useful to Andye who suffers from Lymphedema making it impossible for her to walk. This product plus physical and music therapy have helped her regain mobility. You may have noticed she can once again make her way to her seat without the medical team and get around a bit more without her wheelchair. Again, part of our future is to promote good health habits and how to be amazing global citizens. You gotta feel good, folks! It’s your right. Talk to your doctor about TherapainPlus. We’re not making money from this. We’re genuinely looking out for fellow fans.

Thank you so much for reading our long update! Took a while to get this one out as things continued to come up and we didn’t want to publish before all the news was ready to be seen. Enjoy the latest Tears for Fears videos and we hope to see you at the next event!

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Tears for Fears Q3 Update – Happy Birthday Roland Orzabal!

Happy Birthday to Roland

Big Happy Birthday to Mr. Orzabal! We are grateful for all the things he has shared with us over the years.  We had a beautiful time watching him in his element during the 2022-2023 tours. He brings us so much joy. He also handed over several guitars to fans of recent including our Bobby B-blaze of the Tears for Fears Travel Fan team. Darren and Nicole also got one as did a dear industry friend of his. Perhaps even more. That’s a big deal! Again, we’re super grateful for his kindness and generosity. The incredibly amazing Lauren Evans joined us in singing happy birthday during one of our band chats. We of course were so mesmerised by her incredible voice we could barely get our words out to join in. Enjoy the video! Many happy returns dear Roland!

A Bouquet of Birthdays

Curt Smith’s wife, Our Dear Lady Frances’ Birthday 2024

We also want to shoutout Lady Frances Pennington (Lady FP), Curt’s dear wife who celebrated her birthday in Italia on the 18th of July. We appreciate her so much xoxo.

Bobby B-blaze (17 August) and his son, Roland – named after the main man himself (27 August), had/will have their birthdays this month as well. Bobby shares a birthday with Donnie Wahlberg of New Kids on the Block. Their fan team management also works with fan activities for Tears for Fears. At the end of the 2017 tour a few of us went up to Boston where several Tears for Fears Travel Fan team members and a member of the band have roots. That was a memorable and marvelous experience. Thank you Deb Gromack, a music therapist within the TFF Travel Fan Team, who lead the organization on that excursion.

New Music

Now, let’s put our birthday cake forks down and have a look at this recent announcement. Here are the facts: earlier this spring we had been having conversations with various people in the industry and not one venue noted there be anything happening Tears-wise in the summer. But something made us think that there would surely be an announcement in the fall regarding future plans (e.g. 2025). We put a pin in it and sure enough, Dave Mason from Radio Bath announced during his Friday 17 August Radio Bath listening hours that we should stay tuned in September for some news. Then Tears for Fears Official announced on Saturday that they had something new for us and that we’d find out on Monday the 19th.

However, late Saturday afternoon the information leaked due to a radio promotion for the long awaited and begged for mini-res – that’s what we’re calling it. The band or band management has chosen Vegas as the first rodeo for this type of thing. The last time we had anything even remotely resembling a residency was back in 2011 when Curt did a series of shows at the Whitefire Theatre. That’s all documented here in the archives. It was incredible because it was an intimate space and he gave out some really cool perks for us early bird ticket buyers. He also sent the information out pretty early so we did have time to prepare – keep that in mind. The band then sent out the confirmation on Monday that everything that had been leaked was indeed legit. They will be doing what we are recognising as a mini-residency in Vegas this year. The title, theme, etc, is Songs for a Nervous Planet. How fitting!

Tears for Fears Vegas 2024

First of all, this is a big deal to many of us because we asked for this back in 2019. Also, so many fans and their families have had healing moments with their music or from being around the band and physically following the tours from city to city. So here we are with our wish. Everything will take place in Vegas 2024 at a very nice establishment called Fontainebleau. We can put aside tshirts n’ shorts and instead get dress up for this one. Fans can go all out and actually wear the Tears for Fears hoodies for this show as it’s indoors during the cooler months. Dates are 30 October and 1 & 2 November. Doors open at 7pm and the show begins at 8pm. No opening act has been noted so that means we get a nice early show with the band. What are they playing? It’s a surprise! Again, check out the title. Songs for a Nervous Planet…ever notice how the band always releases an album just before or right around some huge global event? We have that documented too. Makes you think they know something… But the good thing is they have been here to comfort us all during some pretty scary times…and these times are absolutely frightening.

While we’re thrilled about this, there are MANY that are concerned. We had less than one day to get resources together for tickets, hotel rooms, flights, etc. The rooms at the venue are currently discounted so if you book now, you may be able to take advantage of that. There’s nothing we can do about flights. Most people book about 3-4 months out so you don’t have to pay those high last minute prices. Last minute these days is about 2 months out. We’re “just” in the final stretch before a ticket to Vegas (which is often pricey because…well, it’s a destination city) gets “silly expensive.” This is mentioned because this is not being heard or taken into consideration according to many. There are a lot of social posts that have been rather well-written to explain why this event is difficult to participate in due to the short notice. Given that so many other bands announced their Vegas residency and Vegas dates last year or 7 months out, we are concerned why Tears for Fears’ management didn’t do the same. Management doesn’t owe us any explanation of course but we’re still curious.

What we are addressing next has nothing to do with Roland, Curt nor any member on that stage…

The short turnaround resulted in anxiety for a fair number of loyal followers of all ages. It is the second time of recent we’ve had to hurry and gather the resources within 24 hours. It is a known issue. We’re curious if this is the type of notice we can expect in the future. Will it always be a 1 day notice for presale? Not even trying to discuss the general public sale – that does not apply when it comes to the hard core travelling crew of fans – some of which have never missed a tour since the 80s (i.e. Josie K) or those who up and followed the band to every show on two continents in 2022 (i.e. Tears for Fears Travel Fan Ambassador Stephen M.). It is very clear that several hundred at minimum want the presale. We have video of seats quickly vanishing within an hour of the artist presale code release.

We are not complaining as Tears for Fears are a priceless experience. We just want to get some kind of confirmation on what we need to be ready in the future. And do not tell us to just go to one show and pick a corner seat. The below is a snapshot of the typical hard core fan receipt for one ticket. It’s $800+. *We were encouraged to post the screenshot of a few fans’ tickets but for privacy purposes, we’re showing what we saw for sale online today.

Many of those who were concerned have gone ahead and bought tickets with just the hope they can get the rest of the plans together in time. We’ve got people looking to fly in from Japan, UK, etc. Tears for Fears fans want to support the band in anyway they can. However, without realistic advanced notice it is soul crushingly difficult and in some cases (we’re looking at you Nashville) it is not possible because the year is already booked solid for other things. These days, one doesn’t have much choice but to get their calendars together in advance due to fees associated with not planning ahead. We do not like to discuss money in this space but if you’d like to see the receipts from past shows and get an idea of what several have come to learn is needed for a Tears for Fears show fund, let us know. Below is what we’ve seen so far for the Vegas 2024 shows and the hotel.

Stage Level Ticket: approx $129 to $950 depending on the seat you choose and if you get the much needed ticket insurance because life happens and no one is immune to that.

Venue hotel: approx $1,750 If you arrive on the 29th and leave on Sunday morning. (Circus Circus across the street is running a deal that is a fraction of this cost, Book now before it’s sold out if you’d like to stay close to the venue. Thank you C.A. for the heads up on that. We know everyone would prefer to stay at the venue but this is where many have chosen for this mini-res.)

If you still need a ticket to the show or are not happy with your seat location, let us know. We’ll see what we can do to help you move to the area of your choice. There is no fee to get our help. We just want everyone to arrive in a good mood and be happy with their choices. You’re flying all the way out there might as well get the seat you want. David Wild said it best…

David Wild’s post on X Twitter

Take a look at the video of the venue and the hotel…

BleauLive Theatre is where the shows are to take place

This video is worth watching…

Circus Circus Room (hotel across the street)

Tears for Fears on Film –  Despicable Me 4

Here’s a follow up to Tears for Fears in Despicable Me 4 (Minions). We got the notice earlier this summer (June/July) and Curt shared some really nice photos as noted in the previous update. If you couldn’t make it to the theatre you can purchase or rent the movie on a variety of platforms including YouTube. The band reference is toward the end and includes some iconic animated scenes that you may associate with Head over Heels plus the image from the band’s iconic performance of Everybody Wants to Rule the World on the Kenny Everett show in the 80s. The movie is hilarious, safe for children and does not include any frightening or horror scenes that need to be skipped through. It’s a worthwhile investment.

More Music!

So in addition to what’s on tap for October and November, Roland also did a duet with Sixpence None Richer singer, Leigh Nash. The song is absolutely gorgeous. You can buy it on Apple Music and fellow Tears for Fears Travel Fan, Danny Cricks, posted a YouTube link that was shared in one of the Tears for Fears groups he manages. This video link is not working for some. You can watch it on FB as well in one of the many TFF fan generated group pages.

Alumni

Oleta Adams Farewell Tour has a stop in Atlanta. We are so excited but we were not prepared for this news. Still, we respect her decision to go ahead and “call it” so to speak. We hope she’ll continue to do one-offs and special appearances. We’re not giving up on some type of TFF collab in some form or fashion with the band and all involved current day. We’re holding out for some Oleta Adams residencies or something. Good gracious, we need her voice and presence in our lives. Serenity Now! Also this Atlanta show is now SOLD OUT as expected! There’s a waiting list…but good luck with that! We were there at one of her sold outs in ATL 2019 a few weeks after Tears for Fears performed near the same venue at Shaky Knees Fest. That is also documented here in the archives. We weren’t the same for weeks on end after those shows. They were overwhelmingly beautiful. Next time she came she had to have two shows. It’s an experience to say the least. Absolutely incredible. It gets packed in that venue when she’s there so be prepared if you haven’t seen her at that specific venue and have a ticket to attend.

Oleta Adams will be at City Winery the week after Tears for Fears in Vegas

John Baker of The Korgis has a lot going on. They have a group page where you can interact and get lots of information. Be sure to pay attention. Lots of cool news and blasts from the past come out of their social pages. John is a jewel among us and you’ll appreciate all he has going on. Stay in tune with his news.

*Friendly reminder that Captain Julian and Jon Birch have their latest album out. It’s worth a buy. Grab your digital copy on Bandcamp from The Upside Down Clinic.

Monday, Monday…

Did you get the email on Monday? As mentioned, one was sent on Saturday and another on Monday. Be sure you have subscribed to the email list for Tears for Fears and the band members’ individual websites (i.e. Jamie Wollam, Lauren Evans, Carina Round, Doug Petty). They are great about sharing all that’s going on in their world. Signing up for their email lists is the best way to get the information you need in a timely manner vs. waiting on your social media newsfeed algorithm to populate it to your account. People miss out when they don’t sign up so be sure to do so this week. When their information arrives in your inbox be sure to add them to your contacts so the information does not go to spam. This is extremely important. If you didn’t get the Tears for Fears email and you are for sure you signed up, let us know.

We love this photo of Doug Petty on his website. It’s a beautiful photo.

*Tears for Fears has an account on TikTok. We do not know who manages it. We do not know the future of that platform nor that of X (formerly Twitter – the poor bird, pour one out for that blue canary), so we are not investing a lot of time on either one. However, the band is there if you’d like to follow. Of course, the band still has their Facebook account and Instagram. A few of their team are also on Threads. So you have lots of spaces where you can keep in touch.

From the Archives

August has historically been a really cool month filled with incredible music memories in TFF fan land. Many of us saw them on our social media timelines. We spent quite a few days on tour in August 2012 including their time at the Orange County Fair and Hendersonville Nevada at Sunset Station. Captain Julian had several of us in his video “Road Trip” with his band at the time DelaQ. Good times! September has also been notably fun times for us all. Thanks to all involved over the years who helped make that happen from Alisa, Rise, Captain Julian Orzabal, all the attendees at Sunset Station, The original TFF Travel Fans: Jack and Dawn Curry, Becky Boom Boom, Lady Carolyn, Silver Kitty, Kai-Kai and all the crew. You are appreciated!

Band Fan Chats

We do meet up on Zoom from time to time. Lauren joined us for a conversation about her new album. She is also hosting a 7-Day Affirmation online event in September. Be sure to check out her new website, sign up for it and sign up for her mailing list as mentioned.

Check out this neat video that Lauren was in some years ago. Love all the good energy in this!

Get Well Soon!

Several fans got sick over the summer with a variety of very serious ailments. We wish them healing. They know who they are and we are holding space for them daily. In our meditative sessions we are sending healing energy to you for your injuries and praying for a speedy recovery from surgery. We’re here for you when you’re ready. Get your rest!

Note from the Moderator:

So what has you worried right now? The short notice? How you’re going to get yourself together and find a way to get to Vegas? Same here! We’ve already had quite a few conference calls about how to work through the challenging logistics of the quick turnaround. I’ve been on the phone since Saturday night fielding calls and listening to some understandably stressed out fellow fans. Some have it all sorted out. Others have given up and said they can’t do it without knowing six months out – they already made other plans for this fall and can’t cancel. If you’re having trouble let us know. We’ll see what we can do to help you work out the logistics of fan travel. That’s what we do. There is no fee. We just try to help you work with what you have and sort it all out. If we have any extra tickets we’ll let everyone know as always.

Despite all the fear of not being able to attend, we’re still happy that one of our biggest fan wishes has coincidentally been answered. Also, this letter Curt wrote years ago stays on our minds when it comes to show planning on their side. *We have a copy on the FB TFF Travel Fan page if you have trouble downloading this one.

Freedom is No Small Thing…

For those that have issue with musicians who have long stood up for their political beliefs, remember to listen to the lyrics of their songs. The words have meaning. If you don’t like their pick for candidates, stay calm…you’ll manage. As mentioned by Curt, please check on your voter registration. Be sure to participate in the election this year. Some of you will be travelling back from Vegas at that time. You’ll want to complete an absentee ballot if you know you will not be near your home polling station. It is crucial that you vote this year. There’s some wild political plans that clearly don’t benefit the greater good of society and we need to make our voices heard at the ballot box. Remember the lyrics of Shout. Let that be your mantra. Wishing a final end to these damn wars and conflicts. Let the politicians fight each other, leave the rest of us out of it.

“Let the children boogie…” David Bowie – a dear and heavily missed connection in the Tears for Fears fan world.

Big shoutout to Ms. Vee’s sweet child representing the Tears for Fears Toddler Brigade – remember when we were singing this at this sweet dear’s age? Singing it so much better than most of us did! Thank you!

Big thanks to all who take a moment to read the notes we send out quarterly. Huge thanks to all who participate in the fan chats on various platforms, the travel fans that quickly hop on our Zoom calls to sort things out and all the admins keeping the bootleg t-shirt spammers out of groups.

Follow the band @tearsforfearsmusic (IG), @tearsforfears (TW/X) and Facebook, @curtsmith (TW/X) and (IG)

IG and FB @carinaround @thereallevans @jameswollam @dougpettykeys – Charlton has accounts as well but not sure he’s using them. @papasfans for specific fan travel information

Tears for Fears Travel Fans Quarterly Update – Q2

Dedicated to musician Shaina J. who also travelled from coast to coast to see the band. We wish her great success in life and we’re super happy that she is one us!

This was certainly the Anniversary Quarter. We have more anniversaries between late January and first of April it seems. Historically Q1 (January through the end of March) is a big deal for the band. So many great group projects and productions occurred at that time…and birthdays! Just take a look! *also, help us find the photographer for the headliner photo if you can. We’re trying to get in touch. Thank you!

  • Julian Orzabal birthday 21 January
  • Charlton Pettus’ Birthday 13 February
  • Ian Stanley birthday 28 February
  • Lauren Evan’s Birthday 3 February
  • Michael Wainwright 6 March
  • Chris Merrick Hughes 3 March
  • The Hurting Anniversary 7 March
  • SFTBC Anniversary 25 February – EWTRTW single released on the 17 March (wordle honoured)
  • The Tipping Point Anniversary 25 February

We also celebrate TFF’s first show anniversary at Moles in Bath UK which took place on the 1st of April in 1982. We’re horrified that the efforts to keep Moles open were not respected and they will indeed close unless something major changes. To say we’re angry is an understatement but it’s out of our hands.

  • Carina Round’s Birthday 20 April – Thank you to Lady Emily and Curt Smith for confirming. We’ll aim to have a proper cake day celebration for her online in future.

Shout out to these special fans who also have birthdays during that time. It was a joy celebrating them online!

  • Todd Skees 26 Feb – Todd holds many of the early documents from the Tears for Fears World Service. He was recently seen with us at the 2022 Atlanta show. Such a joy to have him around.
  • Michael Magno 8 March – his middle name is Roland and he is one of Atlanta’s greatest musicians. See his latest on Dunwoody TV
  • Radio Crème Brulee’s anniversary is on the 16th February – we’re grateful to them for keeping the band in rotation

As we have mentioned multiple times, Curt befriended Hazan Hillel Tigay of Palm Station. He is one of the cantors at the incredible IKAR_LA, an incredibly inclusive shul/house of prayer where those of multiple faiths have dialogue and discuss how to better our world (tikkun olam).  Palms Station’s latest album includes a song called Alive and Curt sings the lead on it. Andye will be showing the videos from his visits during the next fan chat. This song was featured in a profound episode of The Good Doctor on ABC season 7, episode 5. We had a watch party and fans of the TV series got quite a shock. Have your tissues on hand!

Curt announced earlier this year that he and his dear daughter Lady Diva Smith would be a part of the Michel Polnareff tribute album which was released on the 5th of April. They did an incredible cover Polnareff’s “La Poupee Qui Fait Non.” How does one top of the original? Give it to a member of Tears for Fears. It’s a sumptuous one… give it a listen on Apple Music, Amazon Music and it’s also on Spotify! We’ll be discussing Polnareff’s legacy on the upcoming fan family chat but in the meantime, visit our Instagram account to hear the original and then Curt and Diva’s version. Both are absolutely sublime and again, the family rockers created an impeccable piece of art with it!

Then Curt joined the US Army – Just kidding! He spent a day with them to learn more about what it is like to walk a mile or more in their shoes. There’s a great video he shared that discusses his experience. Shoutout to Traci S. and other fans who have served in the armed forces with the sole desire to protect the nation’s people. No one likes war. Healthy humanity’s goal is peace and it is a global issue when innocent people are threatened or harmed by evil. Let’s envision and make individual efforts to create a world where the only thing an army needs to do is help us with peace time efforts.

Jamie Wollam Drummer Genius

Jamie has been featured multiple times in publications for his incredible skill at playing the drums. He is an excellent percussionist and also has his own private off the beaten path studio where he perfects his craft like the genius he is. Last quarter we looked at videos from his personal space and learned how he works and creates the magic that he is known for. This month, like literally this week, we got to see even more as he collabs, works with and is further supported by A&F DrumCo and several others. Have a look at this incredible post featuring a fan top favourite, The Working Hour. Be sure to check out the latest on his website.

The Kids! In case you missed it, they’re all young adults now!

Diva’s latest posts were delightful and displayed some of her music. It’s brilliant. You can have a listen on her Instagram feed.

Curt’s second daughter, wonderful Lady Wilder, is now finishing up her senior year at college. Her final University project is on display at the Gund Gallery and we all were privileged to view it virtually. See if you notice familiar faces. Have a closer look. Congratulations to her! The family is clearly proud and we are too! It’s a joy to celebrate her success!

Roland’s eldest son, Raoul is often sharing his latest work with followers. Take a look at the latest and be sure to let him know if you’re interested in buying one for your home. They are a wonderful addition! Several of us have at least two!

We look forward to Roland’s second son Pascal’s latest music when he is ready to share. Watch this space and his!

Marvelous Mother Margaret’s Beautiful Work

Roland’s marvelous mother, beautiful Lady Margaret, was also quite busy with a tapestry. She finished it recently after nearly a decade of detailed and delicate work. It was sold to fan Amanda Jayne BT and the proceeds are going to women’s charity. It came with a beautiful handwritten card with thanks. Such a lovely piece of art to keep for a lifetime. It is museum worthy! Stunning work Mother Margaret!! Exquisite!

Tears for Fears Alumni Update

Oleta Adam’s is out performing and you still have a chance to see her live. Be sure to keep up with her schedule on her official website and social pages. We’ll also be sharing show dates as always.

John Baker of Graduate and The Korgis has also been quite busy. They have had some wonderful shows and many fans have been showing up together to enjoy. Be sure to like and subscribe to their social pages and get in on the good stuff! Check out his May interview on Radio Bath with Dave Mason!

The Korgis are getting lots of media attention and were recently on BBC Breakfast. There’s even a shoutout to Roland Orzabal and we learn a few tidbits about how their work came to life. We really appreciate this band. Stay onboard their fan train. It’s connected to Tears for Fears and we’re here with them both for life!

Julian Orzabal and Jon Birch have released two new pieces of work with their music group, The Upside Down Clinic. Checkout their latest video. Their music is really great to get yourself going in the morning. You can support them on bandcamp and also get merch from their online shoppe.

Love this photo of Jon and Julian

Superfans Soaring into the Stars

Our lady Tamara was recently in the UK spending time with fellow fans, musicians, friends and the blessed team at Radio Bath. Be sure to check out her wonderful interview with Dave Mason. She gave us some incredible shoutouts and we appreciate it. Tamara goes above and beyond in every capacity and we’re so excited that she has such a wonderful relationship with Bathonians and the UK fan team. She is a wonderful representative of true Tears for Fears fandom. Her interactions begin about 41mins into the session. There’s always a lot of fun when Radio Bath is involved. Join the Radio Listening Party every Friday with Dave Mason and the Tears for Fears Travel Fans. It’s our way of enjoying the warmth of friendship despite being an ocean apart. Thank you Tamara and Dave Mason!

While there, we got to learn of Dion Smith’s newest work and Tamara’s involvement! Dion is working on new music and has an EP coming out this May. Congrats to him and all his hard work. Check out Lady Tamara helping out in the studio! Super neat!

Also shoutout to Dion’s wife, Paula Smith, for all her hard work in photography. She has professionally photographed so many amazing artists that have a relation to the world of Tears for Fears. Notably she photographed Billy Idol during one his stops where one of Lauren Evan’s many talented friends, Kitten Kuroi, was part of his BVs team. Tamara and team were there for that too. Billy Idol, Kitten and team will be in Atlanta this week at the Shaky Knees Festival where we saw Tears for Fears back in 2019.

Sharron Foxx is another super fan that is also super busy. She manages a fan group dedicated to Lauren Evans and you can also hear her work with the Pink Floyd Tribute Band – Wish You Were Here. She recently gave Andye the moderator a virtual pass backstage at their Ohio show in that incredible theatre. It was awesome! Big shoutout to Sharron for joining in on the Tears for Fears fun and representing the music world’s appreciation of the band.

Sharron, or Shaye as friends call her, takes part in lot of our admin calls which are now on Zoom. We’ve been working on a new project. If you’re interested in giving your testimonial on how the band has impacted you and how much you love their music, feel free to be a part of the project. Send your testimonial to papasfans@gmail.com with your name and “TFF Testimonial” in the subject line. It’s the Tears for Fears Travel Fan email account and we’ll look for those to add to the celebration and summer band birthday fun. Also, feel free to start sending in your birthday wishes to Curt and Roland as they both turn 63 years young this year. Looking forward to seeing and hearing from everyone.

Click play ^^ to watch the highlights from the latest TFF fan family chats in Q1! Good times!

Also happening in fan land…fans are touting their Tears for Fears tattoos. Here’s Olivia Jane’s (L) and Shaina’s (R). We know many of you are planning to get one this summer. You can also get a henna tattoo. Superfan Karla got a great one recently and shared with the Tears for Fears fan forum on Facebook. Whatever you decide to do, take your time. Think about it and try some temporary ones first before making your final decision. It’s Tears for Fears so you want it to look terrific like these!

That’s all we’ve got for the moment. Enjoy this fun clip of NFL Player DeMarcus Ware saluting the band as the Koala on The Masked Singer! Speak to you soon!

Thank you for reading and watching! Be sure to follow @tearsforfears (TW X) @tearsforfearsmusic (IG) @curtsmithofficial (fb) @curtsmith (TW X) @curtsmith (IG) for official information, happenings and updates. Lauren, Carina and Jamie all have accounts as well.

Follow @papasfans for fan travel resources, meetups and fun! We’re also on Instagram @tfftravelfans

Cheers!

Tears for Fears Tour Takes Fans into the Cosmos

Here’s a quarterly update from the moderator…

Dedicated to Deb Gromack – Music Therapist

The first thing I wanted to do after the overwhelmingly exhilarating Hollywood Bowl show was get to my hotel room and finish detailing the magic of the latest shows we’d seen on the Tipping Point Tour Part II. I needed somewhere to store all that amazement! I had to talk about it and get it on paper. My goal for the next few days immediately following the tour was to be in full discussion of how awesome everything has been this time around. However, instead of in my hotel room, I found myself in Hollywood Hills with some amazing folks. Moments that followed the show were on par with everything cosmic that happened during this sparkling celestial tour. That little impromptu after party was filled with sublime surprises that made so many of us pinch ourselves wondering if we were even alive. I’ve always been under the impression that amounts of joy like that are only permitted in the heavens. So needless to say, it has been an overwhelming struggle to write because I was stuck on cloud 9!

I literally sat around in awe for weeks after the tour, unable to move thinking back to every moment and wondering if it was all a dream. Now, here we are nearly two months after the Bowl show and I’m still on cloud 9 wondering if it’s even possible to come down from any of this. Tears for Fears sent our spirits soaring into the cosmos, far into the cosmos, well into the great beyond! Here’s a montage of photos and videos from my phone and some from Christine’s, Bobby’s and Shelly’s. Rick has 90% of each show on his phone and will add those to the archives. Also I briefly referenced the Forum in this, I’ll make sure that it gets changed to “The Hollywood Bowl.” Enjoy the reel…it’s about 12 mins of moments…including a visit from an earth angel!

After each show, I try to connect with fans and hear their thoughts. I find that they’re either verklempt in a state of wonderment where they can barely talk because they are so overjoyed by the concert experience or they are detailing nonstop every single element from the show to the point they can barely breathe. There’s always someone with damp hair after dancing so much, one layer of clothing removed and a band shirt over their shoulder or the longtime fan wearing a piece of new merch as they recount everything that just happened…ready to add the experience to their long list of amazing TFF fan moments. Often people are hugging, smooching or walking hand in hand as was the case after the Palm Springs show. I noticed those on the right of me were exchanging phone numbers and going in for the long hugs. There were compliments and praise for people who obviously knew every song and committed to singing each one from start to finish. It was fantastic to see such love. A lady who had flown in leaned over across our front row seats and said to me in a joyful slur of emotion, “Your spirit…it’s amazing! You get it! You understand this band. You didn’t let anything stop you from being here tonight…” she said this and noted my injury. I held her hand for a few seconds and we smiled at each other with that knowing look of ”we just experienced something incredible.” Tears for Fears shows bring out the best in all of us…and can make total strangers the best of buddies by the end of the night.

Let’s back up though. The shows that followed those in Missouri included a lot of fans in the Northeast, Midwest and Pacific Northwest specifically that hadn’t seen Tears for Fears since 1985. Overwhelmed and flabbergasted by how incredible the show was and the fact that Roland and Curt sound as awesome live now as then, a huge number said they decided to just follow the rest of the tour. Several found tickets at the last minute to the remaining shows and went to those too! Next thing we knew, the Hollywood Bowl show was posting “sold out.” Now that’s the definition of a Tears for Fears Travel Fan!

Going to more than one Tears for Fears concert has become a healthy habit for a lot of people. I got notes from fans who even after seeing them more than 3-4 times on this specific tour, got more tickets and went west to catch even more shows. This is the Tears for Fears effect. It is nearly impossible to go to just one show and be okay. You leave those shows feeling so different and in such a good head space that it stays with you for several days if not a few months. People did not want to come down from the concert highs. The Tipping Point Tour had us so far into the cosmos, we experienced the point of no return!

Vancouver and Washington State

The commentary and love were flowing from fans in this region. Many of them went to VIP Soundcheck and enjoyed “No Small Thing,” “Rivers of Mercy” and “The Tipping Point.” A few fans also noted the ticket prices dropped significantly before the show for some of the areas in the back of the venue. Most, of course, had purchased tickets closer to the stage and perhaps the venue wanted to make it as affordable as possible or get their own profit in one way or another by lowering the price? Well, it worked. People called their friends about the lower prices and snatched up the tickets. This made for quite a lovely and loud crowd full of people who knew each other and were dancing around on the lawns and all around the venue.

One of the best moments for us and a sparkling moment for the band included the young man who was singing “Everybody Wants to Rule the World” in his own special way. He did this as he unknowingly walked past the band belting the song loudly. He even made a spiritual reference toward them not knowing that the very earth angels that created that masterpiece were to whom he was speaking. It was a heavenly sign in our opinion and we’re here for it! Love it when the cosmos aligns like that!

Big Mabrook, Mazel Tov and Congrats to the band! That very song, Everybody Wants to Rule the World, just surpassed over 1 Billion streams on Spotify. They got a plaque for it as well. We saw it earlier this week in the rehearsal studio and hope the band will post a photo of it. Thank you Drummer Genius Jamie Wollam and Superfan Admin Danny Cricks for announcing this!

Sacramento

Not sure what was going on with the venue but faithful fans overlooked its remoteness and rocked out regardless! We did hear many on the last part of the tour rather surprised by the inclusion of the cover of Radiohead’s “Creep” vs. the band’s very own “End of Night.” We learned that Roland really likes the song and wanted to sing it and therefore it was included during many shows on the tour. Overall, the sentiment was fans were just happy to be there, excited to see the band and experience soundcheck! Huge shoutout to Lisa who flew in from Atlanta for that show as well as Nicole who travelled from North Carolina.

Palm Springs

Several of us arrived super early for the Palm Springs show. The logistics and travel some went through to get there was unreal. Trains, planes and automobiles…all three methods were used in the same day by many to get to the venue. One person took a train for the first 3 hours, got to the airport and that took a few hours…then the rental car to drive them to the venue. Tears for Fears are just that important. We break the bank to make sure we show up and bask in their energy. Upon arrival there was The Tipping Point structure with chairs stacked and connected just like the album cover artwork. The only thing missing were the cats. It was placed near the main parking lot. I think more would have taken a photo with it had they known it was going to be there. It was a missed opportunity for a great group shot. VIP parking was on the other side of the building which was great for those who needed a less than crowded way to get in and out. However, it seems many missed the structure and, again, that’s rather sad because it was so perfect and would have been highly appreciated by dedicated longtime fans. There was a married couple who literally had their ceremony just before the show and made sure to get a photo by the TTP structure. The bride and groom came to the show in their wedding attire and attended soundcheck. It was really cool.

Serene Soundcheck

Soundcheck was on time. On the List team lead, Brit, was incredible as ever, organized and ready to help us all. Those of us who had mobility issues were treated very well and not neglected in any way. We were able to get in and get seated simultaneous to everyone else. The lights were very low in Palm Springs so it felt like a mini-concert. Roland had his hair pulled back in a bun and was very talkative, telling us about his 4 new guitars. Our ears perked up! Four new guitars!!? Whatcha got cooking, sir? They sang three songs and they were performed so richly in that immaculate ambiance that it just felt like a holy moment. It was just so different from other soundchecks we’d attended. It could be because it was indoors and again, the lights were out and you only saw the band on stage with the spotlights focused on them. It was just surreal really. I look forward to seeing the video from the Nashville/Franklin show so anyone who may not have been able to participate this time around can see the magic of soundcheck. It’s an incredible experience to be in their presence like that. The addition of this opportunity along with the show is really phenomenal. If they offer it in future, and we sure hope they do, just do it. Treat it like a mandatory procedure that you have to have. It’s a whole other world in that moment. It’s different from the concert, it’s like a pre-show conversation and spiritual experience with the band of your dreams.

We did have a sort of mini-meetup. Fans from long time back, including Armen and his wife (Armen is one of the coveted few who got the RATKOS cigar box set back in the day) sat around after soundcheck and had some long laughs and fun conversations about all the wild moments of our fan life. We recounted old interviews the band had done. We discussed those in which we had a hand in as many of us were from media teams. It gave us goosebumps to remember all those magic moments and to think we were all “here” again together supporting the band.

This venue had really comfortable seats. I was so grateful for that. A lot of us have had surgeries on our knees, hips, legs, etc. We have a very diverse number of abilities in the fan club these days – not just from legacy fans but their kids and grandchildren as well. So having a comfortable family experience with cushioned chairs is a big deal. This arena had that and it was very welcomed.

Merch Update

By this point on the tour, it seemed like they were just starting to run out of some of the larger sizes of merch. The 4XLs were not available but there were still plenty of other sizes from which to choose. We were able to meet our needs of extra hoodies and more. I have no idea why I feel like I need to have the same merch at every show but I did go ahead and buy some more stuff just because.

As customary we had front row for this show. We were on the far right (Curt and Charlton’s side). I learned something though…I got the front row seats thinking I wouldn’t have any line-of-sight issues given that I knew I’d have to sit down for most of the performance. However, if you have mobility issues, are not attending for roll call purposes and can’t stand up, it’s best to try and get seats in the center rows (3-5) or otherwise you’ll likely struggle to see over the heads of those who stand up at the rail. Despite my injuries and current condition, I was determined to try and stand up for at least 4-5 songs and managed it with the help of our medical assistant. I wanted to push my wheelchair up next to a speaker and sit next to the security person that is always placed between the stage and the rail. That’ll be the day. I just want to chair dance all night but I know there are rules lol. If that ever changes, IT IS ON! I will dance my arse off wheels, and all.

Cold War Kids did an excellent job as they had the entire tour. They had a lot of great energy and were able to maintain it despite having lost one of their tour team members during their time on the road with Tears for Fears. Their music is really good, and these guys are well versed in the greats of the industry. In Nashville they were wearing some really cool shirts, one sporting a Jazz festival and another in a Grace Jones t-shirt. I know “we’ve come a long way” but wearing those shirts for a show was rather loud and those who appreciate global music noticed it and appreciated them for wearing it. This is definitely a band I want to keep included in our updates and follow just like we’re doing with Arrested Development and Garbage plus other bands that have toured and supported Tears for Fears. These young men are quite special to us and we want them and their fans to feel welcome in our shared space.

The Palm Springs show was extravagant and felt very rich and full, It was just packed with all the musical flavours…robust it was! Everyone was full of energy and so smooth. Several of us have noted that one of our favourite parts of the show is Charlton’s guitar solos. That man is a quiet genius. So modest and humble he is that you just want to sit with him and hear anything he has to say. Watching him light up on stage and smile is one of the highlights of the concerts and tonight was no different. He was just right on point with his musical prowess. I don’t know how they do this or what prayers and chanting they do prior but they just seem to be so steeped in good energy and play so skillfully to the next level show after show. One of the crew members got in touch ahead of time before the tour started and noted, “I don’t know how this is possible, but they sound even better than last year!” Now 2022, had us throwing away crutches and healing from illnesses after their shows because their music was so powerful and permeating. How on earth is it even better? Well, at the Nashville/Franklin show I definitely saw it. It was like watching colourful silk fabric in vibrant shades flowing like a river in a fantasy galaxy. This Palm Springs show felt like a groovy speak easy with an award-winning band. Everyone as far as I could see (and I did turn around a few times to see the sea of fans) was really into the music, the older songs and the new. For me, the best part was hearing people sing along to the new music. Everyone was very familiar with The Tipping Point. I know the band appreciate it but so do those of us who’ve been following this band in person for a long time. We quietly have this extra protective care about their wellbeing and how they are received. So when we saw people singing Break the Man, we were in tears and fist bumping each other after the song because millions of others see TTP as another winner in the band’s vast discography.

Just before the encore, the audience loudly cheered for them to come back. When they got to the stage again you could see the appreciation on Curt’s face as well as others. They could have just sat there and talked about the weather and we’d have still been screaming. There’s just something about this band…I can’t stress that enough. Their energy and their warmth are unmatched. But they did sing us a song…lol. We got to hear Creep and everyone sang it to a tee. We also got Change and of course Shout. It was an added bonus and thrill to see Roland’s face light up when he came to our side and clearly recognized familiar faces. We’re super appreciative of how this team manages to remember people given the millions of fans that they have. It pays to show up folks. Go to as many shows as you can. Be fan family. We’re all in this together. It’s a wonderful time to gather and heal with others. Community is key in life and after being around this band and the fans, I understand it now more than ever. Being a part of a community was something I didn’t think was possible given the ongoing politics in the nation, so I rejected it in my own way at different points in my life. However, after being around Tears for Fears and their fans, I see it on a spiritual level. There is nothing like family – it doesn’t have to be a blood relative, chosen families count and that’s what we’ve got with this band and their fan land.

 The closing of the show was like a song itself. The band graciously took a few minutes to wave goodbye, Carina and Jamie gave out drumsticks. Bobby Bblaze was a recipient of one. Shoutout to our newest fan family member, Rick H. who helps me with my medical situation. He took a ton of beautiful pictures and is in the process of editing them. He was a real hero during this tour and we’re so grateful to he and his family.

The only weird thing that happened was the lady who decided to tinkle on one of the light fixtures in the parking lot. I didn’t notice it until someone pointed it out. There’s always one person who does something strange. The ride back to L.A. was about 2 hours and along the way we learned fans that we didn’t think would be able to make it had gotten their tickets and would be coming to the Hollywood Bowl show. We also got to hear from Silver Kitty and that for me was another highlight of the night.

Hollywood Bowl

The day of the show we got to pick up fan family member, Shelly, from North Carolina. She flew in and stayed nearby in Hollywood Hills. We checked in as soon as we got to the venue. Shoutout to the Tears for Fears VIP team, Brit and her folks were ready to go, organized and making sure everyone had their VIP packages. The entrance to the Hollywood Bowl was beautiful! It was super clean with amazing trees that have benches underneath them. The breeze was blowing and it just felt like the most amazing day. I have not felt so comfortable at an outdoor venue. Perhaps it’s the California air and the lack of east coast humidity. I have no idea…maybe local California prayer teams shout praises at dawn making for a blessed day. It’s definitely something out there that I just can’t explain. It felt like we were surrounded by heavenly beings. There was “a presence” that I have felt only at Tears for Fears shows but this time it was even more peaceful than usual.

Within twenty minutes of arrival and enjoying the ambiance and texting fellow fans that I could see them and looked forward to a quick chat, a young man came up to me and said, “I’m here to take you to Soundcheck. I’ll be responsible for you today.” I was wheeled over to a golf cart which I learned was being used for many of the attendees with ADA needs. And within seconds was relocated to a very quiet spot near the stage door. Bobby, Shelly, Rick and I sat there talking quietly and wondering where we were exactly. It was hard to tell. I text the other fans and asked if they had gone in yet and said that I hoped to see them shortly. Danny let me know they were all waiting to go in. To pass the time, we began talking about our appreciation for each singer and how awesome it was to have Lauren Evans in the fold. “I swear I hear her voice right now. It must be in my subconscious,” I said. “Is she coming at all?” Bobby and Shelly asked. But before I could even answer that I wasn’t sure if she’d be in the audience or on stage that evening, I heard her voice again. We could hear the band practicing loud and clear from the area in which we’d been placed and it was such a joy that I thought…”I’m hearing Carina but I’m hearing Lauren too. My ears, heart and soul are all a flux.” We listened carefully and each of us went back and forth with the whole, “now I hear Lauren, now I hear Carina.” I chalked it up to us just loving them so much we were likely hearing them in our psyche. Then we got the signal that it was time to go in. I tried to settle the butterflies in my stomach and remain calm.

Security guided us into the Hollywood Bowl Circle Pool. I was helped out of my wheelchair and there before us stood not just Carina but Lauren and three more incredible contributors including, JJ and Charles Jones. Amazing musicians that were on the album were now on stage.  All of us in attendance (especially the longtime fans) were like kids in a candy store with our chins dropped to the ground in awe. Not only were we in the VIP soundcheck again but we were in there with all the band’s energy and joy. It was like a portal opened and we were let in to see the magnificence of it all. It truly felt like a whole other world in that space. The chairs were right up against the stage. You could see every detail, piece of equipment and all the fine things that make up a musician’s moments on stage. Several were in sunglasses as the sun was also enjoying the moment and brightly burning alongside a breeze. We got to hear three songs and lots of conversation. There were waves, nods from everyone and so much of a family atmosphere it was literally overwhelming. But you know, there was also a peace about it. It was a peace that I have only found around this band. My soul was quieted, no anxiety, no pains from injuries, no interruptive palpitations from this damaged heart, no weird thyroid jitters and other things that come from being a human on the mend. I literally felt whole and well. THAT is the reason I believe so many people go to these shows and events. I have often read descriptions about people’s out of body experiences and NDE’s. They talk about the peace they feel. That’s what it was like at that moment in the Hollywood Bowl. It was just an incredible peace and joy that is otherworldly. It is truly a blessed moment.

When the soundcheck completed, one of the On the List members had me turn around. There was Dean and the team that had made these majestic moments happen. They were waving and saying hello. I was offered the opportunity to go over and say hi but I knew the band was busy and I didn’t want to overstay my welcome. So I got back in my wheelchair as fast as I could so we could get out of their way. I do want to take a moment to say these guys are so great. They are so solid and so good at what they do. On the List has totally elevated the Tears for Fears experience. They have made it possible for so many of us to get into that additional realm of joy by organizing these experiences. There will never be enough thank yous in any language to the band and their team for what they have done.

One of the things I was told was that once I was “back there” I wouldn’t have to leave. I thought that meant I’d go to my seat early and stay there the whole time through the end of the show. Nope, it was even better than that. I was wheeled out and placed in a spot adjacent to the backstage door. The security team and those in charge of that area noted we could go get food or whatever we wanted. Awaiting next steps and dinner time, we sat quietly and behaved ourselves while rejoicing over the fact that we’d be seeing “the show of shows” that night. We were still trying to readjust our chins to our faces after seeing that stage full of all that greatness during Soundcheck when the most magnificent things began to happen…

Next thing I know, there’s family members of band members walking by. We nodded politely and stood back at a distance so we wouldn’t be in the way. They, in turn, came closer and waved. Didn’t expect that at all. My eyes lit up underneath my shades and my smile was from here to Abuja. I was like, “how cool is that?!” I was wearing a Japanese street fashion coordinate underneath my black kawaii ruffle jacket and the ruffles caught the eye of one of the kids. They stopped and stared at it and we just smiled and stared at each other. It was such a lovely and cool moment to make that connection. Then more members started walking by and we waved like happy children seeing royalty on parade. It was then that I realised I was backstage. I looked around and noticed this was one of the areas I had read about when I became a L.A. Philharmonic patron when Tears for Fears first went on tour and we heard they’d be at the Bowl in one of the interviews that Roland gave. Did they know in advance that they’d eventually be playing the Hollywood Bowl? That was another topic of discussion during our time in what we called “the sacred space.” We were back there already planning for the future. We waste no time. We were like, “We’ve got a few minutes, let’s chat about 2024 and 2025 – have you heard anything, were there any hints? Do we have the funds in place to do a few shows?” That’s the trick to all this. Strategic planning in advance. While we sat there thinking about everything and in awe of seeing the band members and their families off to the side we decided we wouldn’t go over and say anything – let them enjoy a moment of nosh to themselves – it’s only right. The soul knows when to say hey and when to let the band enjoy a moment of peace.

I should mention that I had no idea I was actually living out a dream. In my dream diary (there are video clips of it in the Tears for Fears Travel Fan Documentary of 2022) there’s a passage from 2021 where I was standing in a backstage area where there were lots of the band’s friends and celebrities. One of their daughters was there and she was leaning on me while talking to someone and I was nodding and listening. I was so confused by that dream. I kept thinking, why are we in this odd spot with all these celebrities? Am I working or volunteering with them or what? It was only a day or so after the Hollywood Bowl show that I realised I had dreamt of this scene before it actually happened. Many who know me have read that diary and it freaks us out every time something actually comes true. If anyone wants to read it let me know. It’s kind of trippy but interesting nonetheless.

Now, here we were, in reality experiencing it all. As we stayed in place peacefully and silently rejoicing it was made clear that we had free reign to walk around and get food but it seemed odd that we were to eat in the same spot as the band, so we waited a little longer until the main concert venue vendors opened. We saw Jamie and Charlton as well. Shelly and I saw Roland walking to get something and at that moment I began “glitching reality.” What does that mean? Often at shows, I have a hard time believing it’s real. It’s hard to believe that I’m not still sitting in my room afterschool with my dolls, homework, books and Tears for Fears’ music on repeat keeping me company. I spent hours daydreaming of being at a concert or being near them and just basking in peace. So every now and again during a show, I close my eyes and sing along then open them to see that very scene that I imagined so many years ago has actually come true. But it causes a mental glitch. I often have to shake my head or take a sip of water because the fact that all those years of daydreaming of being in their presence has now come true is almost too much to bear. Is this really happening? If I close my eyes will I be back in that sad room or will I be at a concert? This is part of my show experience. I glitch reality a lot. So…when the next wildest thing happened, I was in shock. I had been sitting there and I guess I was looking at my phone or folding a piece of merch, I can’t remember but I look up and there’s Curt Smith the Great standing in front of me. He had come over to say hello. I froze.

“Oh my…Ohhhh. Oh wow!” I said. I was barely coherent as I tried to get out of my wheelchair and attempt to stand up to salute him properly. I believe I handed whatever was sitting in my lap to Rick. I was determined to salute this man like the king he is but he kindly and graciously said not to get up. The “glitch reality” began. Is this real? Is this him? Is he really standing right there or am I trying to manifest this into reality? It’s so hard to write about this. You all know me…I was so overwhelmed with gratitude…One would have thought I’d never met him before. I’ve seen him in person and attended his events on so many occasion these past 13 years and each time is even more exhilarating than the previous beautiful encounter. It’s just like seeing an angel in real life. He leaned down and we gave each other a hug.

I’ve read stories about people who have encounters with angels and it felt like that. It felt like…like I was being taken away to the next dimension. It’s no surprise that I felt part of me leave this planet at that moment. Something from my below my shoulders was lifting out and away. I guess a portion of my soul left me. I felt an energy toward my head that leaned forward and lifted away. I guess it went with him as our hug completed. We chatted with him for a few minutes about the venue, the amazing soundcheck and the beauty of the area. Some things I won’t mention for security reasons because it was clear he trusted us enough to tell us that and it probably shouldn’t be broadcast (e.g. home locations, etc). We have a rule, even if you know where they are for the day or where they live, where they like to eat, or whatever it is…we don’t broadcast it. Let ‘em live in peace.

Bobby noted we should take a photo and so I had everyone stand together and then Curt convinced me to join in a picture with him (he knows I don’t take photos lol!) and I’m so glad he did. It’s now one of my favourite photos that I’ve taken with him since joining the fan team on the road 13 or so years ago. After that amazing encounter we tried to float back down to earth but we realised we were never on earth to begin with. This was a whole other realm and we’d be in it for the rest of the month. Our place on Cloud 9 was solidified.

The Concert

Cold War Kids front and center is an experience. These guys are not only super cool and very cute, they also have a lot of soul. Watching them perform was like experiencing the meshing of good energies. They truly support and love each other. They have this habit of connecting with one another during songs. They’ll lean on each other or in one case press their heads together and sing. It’s so touching and warm to watch. Their sound is also extremely soulful and reminds me of a genre of music that started up in 2010 – in the Kenna era with bands like Passion Pit and Foster the People. It has that effervescent energy that you find among people who do not subscribe to political drudgery and participate in social ills. These guys have a purity about them that seems like they just “get humanity.” They were a perfect partner for this tour and again, I’m happy and excited to connect with their fans…and I did. The young lady next to me flat out said, “I’m here for Cold War Kids.” She was from Puerto Rico and she danced her arse off the entire time and I too got into it, chair dancing and singing along to the songs that I, now, know better after attending more than one show on this tour.

A moment of silence for their crew member who perished during the tour. We don’t have any information on it other than he had sustained some serious injuries unrelated to the tour. One of the Tears for Fears team stepped in for him and worked the audio equipment for the remainder of their time on the road. That was really nice. Tears for Fears’ team made sure they didn’t have to scramble to find someone else. We wish them much healing because losing someone is just unspeakably painful. Huge thanks to their team for all they gave on that tour…piano, shaker and all!

After Cold War Kids set, we tried to gather up for group photos but security wasn’t having any of it. Even those of us who were in the Circle Pool were not allowed to go past front row without a wristband. Lady Patty and I were trying to have a conversation and they stopped that. Both Patty and I looked like two sad kids when we couldn’t chat and take pictures. We did manage to get Kai up to the second row for a fun chat.

We love Kai! Met her through Silver Kitty years ago and it was the best friendship match! So grateful!

It’s always great to see her and have her in the fold! Still very grateful to SK for that introduction so long ago. But I didn’t get to speak to Silver Kitty and very few of us got to chat so I was very grateful for the few Tears for Fears fan family conversations I did get to have. Sadly, I didn’t get to speak to Danny, his sister longtime fan sweet Pennie who made us some TFF pillows, nor see his husband Mike. I didn’t get to hug Alisa. But we did text afterwards and everyone had a great time. We got online the next morning after the show and did our usual “omgeeees.” Due to several fans’ various pressing circumstances, the post-tour party plans in L.A. were cut short a bit. We’ll try again with everyone in the future. I think half of us didn’t even know we’d get to even attend shows on the TTP2 tour so the fact we made it at all is enough to be thankful for as a whole.

The Tears for Fears concert began about 30 mins after Cold War Kids and we, packed like sardines, made friends with people we didn’t know there with us on the second row. I got a few more emails to add to our subscription list and as soon as I heard “Stay” I let the newbies on the row know, “They’re about to enter the stage.” We all looked straight ahead and then the heavenly glow emerged followed by the band walking out on stage to all of us screaming and cheering!

It was all the things – a totally cosmic experience and, for once, I allowed myself to accept this was really happening! Here’s the show from a different angle. You can see us all up front, hands in the air and full of excitement. Also, the fashion that night was sublime. Carina, Lauren, the band members, they all looked immaculate. We still haven’t found a way to get one of those lovely brand shirts of Curt’s. We’re working on it. Gotta get our shirt sizes together.

One of the most majestic moments in the show was during “Rivers of Mercy” – a fan favourite on the new album. The crowd was encouraged to turn their lights on and boy did they. From the front row to the last, all lights were on in support of that majestic song. Everyone participated and paid attention. It was absolutely beautiful. Curt even mentioned his reaction in an interview some weeks later.

After the concert, every celeb that has ever shown up in a TFF reference, from Psych’s Shawn (James Roday) to Julian Lennon, were back in the area where we’d been earlier in the day. We waited on the crowd to thin out before leaving and that’s how we saw all these stars. They were all full of “hi and hellos!” We were literally like “omgoodness that’s (insert celeb)!!!” Of all the legends, here comes Lady FP shining like an Angel. She gently made her way through the crowd and we couldn’t help but call her name. She was sweet to turn around and greet us. It is such a coincidence that every lady on my row was wearing one of Tory Burch’s newest scents. It wafted through the first two rows like a sublime rose in a garden in the middle of the cosmic woods under an electric sky. *TB fans, see what I did there? lol.

The Universe blessed me with an opportunity to take some more photos with Lauren, Charles, JJ and team. Was happy to learn Lauren’s family was there. Curt let us know she was a big help getting everyone together for the show. At this point, I want some Carina and Lauren on a t-shirt. But let me not start up my ever growing wish list for dolls and brollies featuring the band. They obliged us with the beach towel this year that a few of us had been begging for and I bought two. One as a security blanket and another for the shrine.

Later on that night, an ADA team gently came and picked us up and took us to the car. I expected to feel like I’d been put back on earth by the gentle hand of The Almighty but no…the dream wasn’t over. We went out for some early “trick or treating” – more like holiday caroling (that’s what we’re calling it) afterwards at some familiar places in Hollywood Hills. Our final stop was a majestic looking cliff that oversaw the city. It was the perfect ending to a therapeutic miraculous healing tour. I spent the rest of my time in L.A. getting treatment for my Lymphedema.

There was another week in Oceanside where I spent time in therapy. That was followed by a few more days through the desert and America’s plains including iconic stops in Roland Town, near Mayfield drive in the neighbourhood of Fort Smith – look it up, it’s a real place. Then I found myself back in the hands of my east coast nurse who said, “Wow, you’re just glowing! You also shrunk!” 40% of the inflammation from this illness was gone. I was literally down 5 inches in overall body circumference. My friends were like, “That music therapy really works for you. Looks like you’re going to have to move to Cali for good!” Something about being in the proximity of Tears for Fears and the ocean…that’s the only thing that has brought forth a quick healing. Nothing else except intense doctor visits has worked. For the millionth time, there’s something about that band. Nowadays, I’m not as dizzy when I stand up and all the weird fevers have vanished. My entire torso is in remission, so I’m convinced Curt and Lauren’s hugs had healing powers. I’ve tracked my progress after every treatment and therapy session. Nothing had changed as drastically as the moments after those hugs. I don’t know what kind of angels they are but there’s something healing about them. Again, I’m convinced. Health is wealth, people. I’m not the only one who experienced it. A few others with chronic illnesses noted they just felt better out there in their presence. I didn’t scoff at music therapy but I never took it seriously. A series of Tears for Fears songs are going to rid me of a debilitating illness that prevents a person from walking? Well, after these past two tours, and being able to reduce my time in a wheelchair, I believe in it! Music therapy is real and it works! Shoutout to Carolyn and so many others including the young lady who stirred out of a coma after her brother played The Tipping Point on a cd player placed next to her ear in her hospital bed. Again, something about that band!

Rescheduled shows followed the stateside tour and we’ll talk about those in just a moment…It’s important to note that while the band was busy on tour, their family members, band family and alumni were also working on some special music extravaganzas.

Simultaneously

Julián Orzabal’s new album, Frequency of Memory was released just after the PNW shows. You can buy it here. Oftentimes, we’ve noted that his sound is great for road trips. This album is a cut above in style from his previous albums. It’s got a dance vibe that makes you want to open the sun roof and start “dancing with your memories” all puns intended. Check out that track on the album with a similar name. It’s definitely a favourite. This album is worthy of looping. Add it to your shuffle and be sure to leave a review! He’s also partnered on a musical endeavour with The Upside Down Clinic. Listen to their latest…

Also with new music is his amazing nephew and Roland’s son, Pascal (Quarterboy). His album is another that is hard to turn off because it’s so good. It gets into your system and you find yourself unwilling to turn it off. I dare to admit I kept it on all night a few times. I just couldn’t and wouldn’t turn it off. Really enjoying this. That family and band supply it all!

The artists in the family are hard at work. If you haven’t been following the incredible work of Roland’s son, Raoul, be sure to see the latest from Raoul Orzabal’s art collection that he shares on Instagram and Facebook weekly. He has prints for sale and several of us own a few. They are absolutely phenomenal!

Lady Wilder Angel

Lady Wilder’s senior year preparations were immediately following the tour. While we were all in a panic about the local weather and possible land slides affecting band members in Cali, dear Curt was far away in another state helping his sweet angel get ready for her last year of Uni. Good gracious, where did the time go? We’re keeping all their children, siblings and family in our prayers and well wishes as they launch into their next steps in life.

Lady Diva Smith

Lady Diva has been delighting us with her heavenly voice for over 2 years. She released a really well-done piece of work called “Bet” and it was available on Spotify for a while. We can’t find it anymore on that platform so we’re going to check Apple Music. Don’t really want to bother her parents about where to find it but if anyone has a link where it can be streamed on a loop and she’ll profit from it, let us know. She’s been invited to lots of events it seems and delivering amazing performances! She’s really good!

Tears for Fears Alumni

Oleta Adams

Our dear Royal Lady Oleta Adams was planning a show for November during this time. Sadly she came down with Covid and so it’s postponed until December. Be sure to get tickets for that if there are any available. We’re happy she’s on the mend!

James Colah

Our dear Mr. Colah, who toured with the TFF supporting band The Adventures during Tears for Fears ’85 tour has been super busy. He noted the following to fans, family and friends on his latest post:

Dear Friends I’m really excited to announce that ‘Mother River’ featuring, ‘Sujatha’ is now available on YouTube. Please click on the link in the comments section!
“Mother River” is the first original song released as part of Sujatha’s “The Electronic Music Project”, in collaboration with award-winning producer, composer and arranger James Colah.

All lyrics/vocal melodies composed and performed by Sujatha.
All music composed, performed, produced, mixed and mastered by James Colah at James Colah Productions Studio, UK.’

The piece is a fusion of electronic and ethnic music, combining ethnic-Indian vibe, English and Sanskrit lyrics with electronic music arrangement. Saraswati Maa is goddess of music, creative arts and wisdom and by listening to or singing along Sanskrit shlokas, we bring positive vibration to the planet and help to open heart of humanity. The mission of this project is to bring more true joy and love to the world and celebrate life in new, conscious way. Much love to all!

A Moment of Silence

Also during this time, we as a fan family recognize the power of pets and pups in our lives. Puppy Ivy Smith & Tamara’s Lord Seymour of Nash passed away in the final days of the tour. We learned of Lord Seymour’s passing the day before the Palm Springs show and of Ivy’s passing not long after the Hollywood Bowl concert. It was gut wrenching. We hope that all souls of the former living are in a peaceful place recognizing each other (and in their case, having a big bowl of Puppy Chow with Bella Ivy and Bobo). For those who don’t believe in it or have never had a supernatural experience, we thank you for your kindness and support for those who have. The Universe doesn’t begin and end with earth and we hope that all will have a peaceful experience navigating these journeys.

Speaking of peaceful journeys and the cosmos…the great beyond. I feel The Tipping Point helped us take another look at the next dimension and the line between our earthly existence and that of which happens when we step out of it due to illness or the myriad of ways one leaves this body behind. Even before the album we’ve had conversations with individuals who have felt a sort of universal cosmic pull in the midst of a show. One young man was quoted in a newspaper as saying, “I don’t know if I saw G-d or Tears for Fears just now.” This was right after the Shaky Knees Concert in 2019. That whole show and the days that followed were absolutely filled with spiritual happenstance.

The band has a lot of fans who are spiritual fam. One awesome fan family member is Rabbi Ryan who sent in another awesome video. Any time he is out and hears a Tears for Fears song he kindly sends us a video. He has no idea how excited we get to see those texts come in with he and his family dancing along to Tears for Fears music being played by an appreciative band!

We appreciate Rabbi Ryan so much! He and his family are incredible humanitarians and contributors!

So…before long it was time to go “Back to London!”

The Pryzm show that was postponed last year due to the passing of Her Majesty the Queen did indeed take place as promised. Following that show was the BBC Radio 2 in the Park with Tears for Fears headlining. Both shows were just absolutely incredible and so many fans from the Tears for Fears Travel Fan team and the Tears for Fears Fan Forum on Facebook came out to support and show their love for the band. Big shoutout to Sean Kennedy, Darren Hull and our beloved Fan Ambassador of 2022, Stephen Marshall who were on hand taking pictures, recording snippets and ensuring everyone who couldn’t be there in person was still able to be a part of the experience. Huge THANK YOU TO CURT SMITH who took time out after the show to shake hands, pose for photos with fans and sign autographs. They had a crazy schedule that week with interviews and more but he still came out and represented the goodness of the band with this incredible gesture! Thank you, Curt!!! Huge thanks to the band for always going the extra mile and for keeping the UK close to heart.

As usual, many experienced the superfanitis following the London shows. It’s just part of the experience. Once you get in their feel good realm, it’s hard to go back to the reality that is earth. We hear you Lidian! We really do!

“Sorry if I am still dreaming about this… does anyone know why are they so magic? I had no idea the post-gig would give grieving vibes 😭” -Lidian Bonfa

Kudos and high fives to those who flew in from Boston, San Diego, Idaho and North Dakota to be in London for those shows. That was a huge gesture of love and devotion to the band. Also read here about Patricia G.’s experience of flying out to meet up with fans and enjoy the show!

On the Radio

Nihal Arthanayake’s interview that followed was one of the best follow-ups we’ve heard yet. He is a phenomenal journalist and on air host that does his homework. As mentioned before, he doesn’t go down the list of the same old questions that far too many radio hosts have asked. He did another deep dive. Try to get a listen if you haven’t already. We probably should have recorded that because it’s now archived and we, the public, do not have access to it. In the interview Roland spoke about more music coming from their vast unpublished works. No timeline given, just a note that, yes, they plan to give us even more audible gems.

There were additional interviews that followed including a BBC Radio 2 interview and a Tim Burgess post talked of another listening hour… then Mr. Burgess of The Charlatans UK made good on his word. Listen to the podcast…

Radio Bath had a replay of Dave Mason’s 2022 Tears for Fears – Curt and Roland Brotherly Love Interview on the 22nd of September. Dave Mason also had a birthday on the 16th of November! Many happy returns to him!

*Moving forward, we’ll save those audio files as the radio stations don’t always keep the day’s broadcast for more than a few months or so. We want to make sure everything is preserved so we’ll go back to capturing that audio and store it in the archives.

More Band Family News

Jamie Wollam

So, just after all these amazing music moments, long time fan family member, Yara N. ran into Drummer Genius Jamie at an event where ABC’s Andy Carr was featured. From what we understand, Jamie may have been a guest drummer at the show. Seeing these three in the same space was pretty darn cool. Many of us are ABC fans and the band supported Tears for Fears during the 2019 UK shows. Big thanks to Yara for staying on the scene and supporting the band and their friends in music.

Carina’s show in January

Carina Round will be playing a sold out show on the 18th and 19th of January at The Echo in Los Angeles. The show sold out pretty quick. She’s going to do her album “The Disconnection” in its entirety both nights. That’s a treat! Again, it’s sold out but it looks like there are some verified resale tickets on the Live Nation site. There will be VIP opportunities as well.

Lauren’s collaborations and possible Q&A

If you’re following Lauren on Instagram, you’ll see she’s apart of some really incredible music collaborations and has a plethora of incredible music friends including one of her besties, Kitten Kuroi, who just toured with Billy Idol. Lauren is definitely one to watch and enjoy online as well as in person. She’s got exciting things in her IG stories. She also has a very dedicated fan base embedded in the Tears for Fears fan family. Sharron Foxx hosts a fan group dedicated to all things Lauren. You can join here. Lookout for a possible Q&A in the future.

A Deeper Look Into Fan Land

One of the reasons we have such a good time on the tours and are able to connect is due to the endless work of the behind the scenes teams. Let us take a moment to appreciate the group and page administrators.

Danny Cricks has been a Tears for Fears fan since day one and currently manages the Tears for Fears group on Facebook. Throughout the tours he announces reminders and provides countdowns so that busy fans can stop and take a moment check on their VIP passes and remember to get ready for shows. Thanks to Danny we get our anniversary of shows and albums celebrated each year He is the concert husband of Kim H who has worked on numerous events and fan activities over the years – all the way back to the Soul on Board days. You’ll find that Danny is a humble man, very modest and friendly. And you better believe that he is out here supporting the band by going to multiple shows. He is that kind of fan! Love you Danny!

Darren Hull is the newest administrator for the Tears for Fears Fan Forum. He took over this group some years ago and renamed it to reflect the goal of this service. In this group you’ll find a crossover from other groups. Discussions on shows, upcoming events, wish lists and a weekly show and share featuring the growing collection of merchandise and souvenirs from past and present shows. Darren provides live videos from concerts, band Q&As as well t-shirts for fans to wear and identify each other at concerts and events. The fan forum also includes a few members of the band.

Sharon Foxx recently joined in the world of administrators creating groups that focus on the band members. Sharron has a lovely group that highlights Lauren Evans and all her work with the band as well as her ongoing success as a musician. We’ll likely have a group Zoom call at some point. No promise of band members and family joining that call. We’re just doing a check in and we’re happy to have a safe place to host it. Thank you Sharron!

Shoutout to Angel Jones who recently created a group for Tears for Fears and also has one dedicated to Curt Smith and The Korgis. She also reported and helped remove some unsavoury lies and rumours in an unofficial band account’s video on YouTube. These ladies alongside Carolyn H., Sheila S., Heather and Dave H. all host admin Facebook groups where you can find a variety of focus – from making friends, to expressing gratitude and even collecting and swapping iconic merch. These admins keep the conversations going and help support the ever-growing number of Tears for Fears fans. I dare say, without these opportunities to interact, we’d probably not have as many “in the know.”

Also very grateful for Sujit who is currently in Japan. He flew in for the shows in Western Canada. We love what he has done to preserve his VIP goodies. He writes:

“Over a month since I saw the @tearsforfearsmusic concert in Vancouver and I can’t stop shaking my head in how great it was. The drummer @jameswollam captured them coming back for the encore and I did a screen grab (hope it is okay). The crowd was going crazy and you can see one in the front row who was especially in nirvana! I am definitely one of this group @tfftravelfans!”

Big Hello to Yaseen from Kuwait/London!! He always offers a kind word!

With that, you are encouraged to connect with the Tears for Fears Travel Fans and various groups that support attending shows and events with the band as they light up DarkerWavesFest this weekend in Huntington Beach, CA. It’s tomorrow, Saturday, 18 November and it’s also sold out but some hotels were offering general admission tickets. If we can’t get in, we’ll sing from the hotel balcony!

Thanks for reading!

Be sure to follow the band’s official account @tearsforfears @curtsmith (Facebook & X/Twitter), @tearsforfearsmusic @curtsmithofficial (Instagram) and you can also find them on Threads. See you at the shows!

Much appreciation to Patty, Nicole, Anthony, Daniella and the magnificent Christine! We see you!

Sincere apologies to those who were eagerly awaiting all the footage and notes from Curt’s wonderful appearance at IKAR shul on 25 September, 2023. We have the video completed and a write up about that incredible service. However, due to the events that occurred recently and ongoing escalated catastrophes in the region, we’ll share it when we feel it is safe. IKAR is a safe place, a home of diverse humanitarians led by a leadership that works toward and wants the absolute best for everyone vs just one group of affected people. Sadly, far too many are caught up in the divisive rhetoric and aren’t hearing voices of reason who are working to heal and unify a region in turmoil. So, we’ll find the right time and place to share the joys of that beautiful day when it’s safe again. We have so much respect for those interfaith speakers that were there that day, 25, September, 2023. They showed how beautiful it is to be together and filled with gratitude and reverence for that mystical space we call the spirit world. Looking forward to being with them there in person. Gargantuan thanks to Chazan Hillel Tigay and Curt Smith for leading the music for such a beautiful time of year. What an amazing day!

Patricia Golding’s Perfect Night at Pryzm

Long Post. * London trip and ***Tears For Fears concert. If you wish to skip either, look for the symbols.

* This trip was quick in the making, albeit a year in the works. A small club concert for the band Tears For Fears sold out over a year ago, but was postponed due to the passing of the Queen. When rescheduled I had fancied trying to get a ticket from someone no longer able to attend. Cue Barbara, a member of a FB group I check in on. She kindly offered me her ticket and I jumped on booking a flight. This was just about 10 days to show day. I bought with points as flights were going for close to $1500 round trip. I booked a cheap room around the corner and Kim assisted in logistics of bus and train travel to and from Heathrow (since I would be in Zone 6). My flight on the 12th actually was waiting at the gate when I got there. Will my travel curse be crushed? While on my phone at the gate, the second of the two gigs in Kingston, at the Pryzm Club, offered up more tickets so I jumped on it and now had both 45 minute sets booked. Luck on my side? The flight was uneventful, I arrived early morning to sunshine and great travel weather on the SL7 bus to Kingston Upon Thames. It was so nice to see the club as I rolled my case to the hotel. It was only 9:30 there so I wandered around. As soon as I could check in I got on the way to the West End of London to visit my old haunts. Being that it was about 23 hours in from the departure of my flight and 12 hrs from waking on Tuesday morning, I had been up a considerable amount of time already. Only about two hours nap on the plane as they had audio of TFF’s newest album, The Tipping Point, on audio. I fell asleep on the train into Waterloo and a nice Japanese passenger woke my at arrival into London. I hoofed it to the National Portrait Gallery for the Paul McCartney photo exhibit there. There were some very insightful photos of Jane Asher, and a few of his bandmates, The Beatles. But mostly my phone was blowing up with the Wifi there, and I got to touch base with my husband at home and let him know travel went well. After that I just wandered the streets of Covent Garden, Carnaby Street, Saville Row and enjoyed a city I have spent an awful lot of time in during my life enjoying music and art. I had some dinner in the city and then knew it was time to get back to the hotel and rest. I had been up clearly more than 48 hrs.

*** Show day. I slept in as I knew it would be a late night. Walking in London yesterday had my legs sore so I set out for some potassium in the form of bananas for breakfast and to mail a postcard to a friend. The light walk was good and no one, as of noon was lining up at the club. Darren, the admin of the Facebook TFF Fan Forum met up with me about 12:30 and we headed the Kings Tun pub across the street from the venue. Over the next hour people started to arrive, have a drink, lunch and just visit. Somewhere in the 1 o’clock hour a line began to form outside Pryzm. I felt the need to join the line, along with another fan. We spent that time to doors at 6:45pm visiting with people from around the globe, sharing music stories and particularly of Tears For Fears. It was a truly pleasant time. I was fortunate later on, before doors, to meet drummer Jamie Wollam, in the pub. He could not be more friendly and so nice to be able to meet. He is such a talent. At doors it was an obstacle course of up two flights of stairs, and then into the venue and down stairs onto the main floor. I went for Roland Orzabal’s side as I was on Curt Smith’s side in North Carolina in July. I found a spot front row between Roland and backing vocalist Carina Round. It would be my first time hearing her, as my other two recent shows we had Lauren Evans on vocals. I truly enjoyed this concert with Carina. I got a kick out of the plethora of 80s tunes being played pre show in the venue. A short Tipping Point song ladened set with some big hits added in totaling 45 minutes was planned. That would be 45 of the best minutes in my concerts history to be added to some incredible concerts I have experienced in my life. The band comes out and plays No Small Thing and Tipping Point. Roland had some witty banter about the last time they played two shows in one evening, and that turned out to be decades earlier, at the beginnings of their careers. Time goes so fast when you are having fun. And when that fun means being so close to a band I have followed for 40+ years that I am sharing oxygen with them it was truly a once in a lifetime experience. These guys still play massive arenas. This opportunity was something I was very proud of myself for jumping on when I got the chance.

Set two meant going outside for the second queue of the day, being further back meant searching out another view, this time on Roland’s side but on a raised portion, beside the stage for an almost profile view of the band. Unfortunately the stage was so small and deep that seeing Doug Petty on keys and Jamie Wollam on drums was a challenge. I did get a few photos of Charleton Pettis on lead guitar to Curt’s side. Amazing to hear the same set repeated and prepare myself for special musical points in songs and some notes being hit by Curt and Roland. They have only become better at what they do over the years. The Tipping Point was definitely helpful to me in getting of the loss of family members. And now seeing this band three times in 2 years has been great fun.

I would like to thank all the people that I met that Thursday. I will not name names for fear of leaving someone out or identifying you when work thought you were out with a cold. But I had the best time and hope to see you again.

* Friday morning, roll out of bed, scrounge for some food (bananas again) and roll on to the SL7 bus stop back to LHR for my midday flight home. Talk with an American woman living in Kingston and Beirut, who sells the wine her husband makes. It certainly passed the time as I was sadly leaving my favorite city in the world, and I have been to quite a few. My flight home again was as planned so my travel curse is officially lifted. My husband picked me up at O’Hare airport. And life as I knew it was back to normal. But I have this in my bucket list of concerts forever. And I am so happy that a year in the making came through with this accomplishment.

Photo credits :Patricia Golding. No authorization to share without her permission.

Tears for Fears Travel Fan Quarterly Update – Q2 Includes Curt’s Birthday

As promised, we made a mini-documentary of our 2022 Tears for Fears Tour Travels. Now you can see what it is like to literally follow the band around the world. In this set of Rockumemories, we’re in the United States and the U.K. – enjoy!

There is so much that goes into tour planning that one could write a book about it, and we’ve decided that once we’ve finished the larger projects, we’ll likely do that. We scrambled to try to make this one work out for everyone but looks like we can’t go to every single show this time. Depression has set in. It’s not cute. But we’ve got about 10 extra tickets for those who are doing all they can to attend. If you would like one so you can sit with people you know on the first and second row of a few shows– fellow longtime fans – let us know. But first, how about some cake?

Curt’s Birthday is Saturday!

We are so grateful to the Universe for this man that “grateful” is an understatement. He takes absolutely no jive and does not give a **** what anyone else thinks for all the right reasons. In addition to his contributions to the song Break the Man, this man has spoken out for human rights, civil rights, ALL THE RIGHTS! He also did this during times when it was not popular to do so. Curt has taken on controversial conversations and people with finesse and grace. He does not shy away from tough topics and heaven and earth knows he has had to face some irritating situations and people in his life. Still, he shows up and gives 100% plus some in every way. This is not a paragraph to kiss his arse, we are stating facts and we have receipts. The man is good. He has an incredible memory and notes things, people, places and tweets you think he may not have even seen. One could dare say he is heavenly. Change our minds. You cannot. He is overwhelmingly awesome and there is a group of people who pray for him and his family daily. The Smiths are incredibly special people, and we are blessed to have gotten to know not just their individual work but also “them” in that they share some special music and more with everyone. They are top quality. ::straightens our TB neckerchiefs:: #iykyk We like their fashion too.

Curt has gone above and beyond for so many of us. One time a fan did not have tickets to one of his events and she had been standing outside in line with us all day trying to figure out how to get a ticket. Curt found out and made sure she was able to get into the event. The list goes on…and a lot of us have seen his kindness. It is not just toward certain fans either. A manager at a dinner theatre learned of our appreciation for the band and he immediately told us about how kind Curt was to him at a show in 1985. The manager was a kid at the time and Curt caught him hiding out backstage. Curt gave him a Reese’s peanut butter cup and sent the child on his way without getting him into trouble. He could not remember Curt’s name but when he described him we knew which of the two he was talking about. We are so happy that Roland and Curt met, and we love the details of their relationship and life story. It is inspiring and they deserve every ounce of success in their incredibly challenging industry.  

We pray Mr. Smith has an incredible birthday. He deserves all the good things. We will be having a piece of one of his favourite treats, a Coffee Crunch Cake, in his honour this Saturday night. Be sure to send him a message on Twitter or tag him in a loving post on Facebook and Instagram. Let us continue to wish him well…and make sure he stays seated two minutes after the tour bus has completely stopped.

**As mentioned on Twitter, we will include both Roland and Curt in our nightly prayer and meditation services. For those participating in Maariv, we’re saying their names during Mishaberach: Roland bn Margaret, Curt bn Norma plus the first names of each band member and road crew. May the Universe look after the entire team and get everyone safely to and from each city. May all go well for fans, fan family, Bill and the road crew. Amein v’Amein

The Out of the Blue Tour Announcement

It was a surprise. Yes, we were aware the band wanted to do a tour in the states again, but we did not expect it in 2023. Many have written in to say, “I was not prepared. Last year we knew in advance. Remember the tweet?” Yes, we remember. We save everything.

But here we are, and we are going to do the best we can. However, our best this time around might mean only 1-2 shows each vs. the usual 5-6 per person or all the shows like our dear Stephen Marshall, Fan Ambassador. Serenity Now. What we wouldn’t do to just hitch a wagon to that tour bus and tag along. If they ever let us, it’s on!

There are several who are going to sleep in their cars and attempt to make it to every soundcheck in the northeast. We even have one fan who has a family engagement on one of the show days but will try to at least get to soundcheck even if they must miss the show. That is loyalty! As fellow fans, we know it costs thousands of dollars to fund a full trip around the states to try and attend these shows. If you cannot do it this time around, do not feel bad.

For those who wrote in stating serious symptoms of depression about missing out this time around, we wish you comfort and calm. Do not deny yourself professional help if it is needed. Might be silly to some, but we understand. The incredible energy of Tears for Fears events is so unreal it is difficult to even “think” about missing one. So, know you are not alone. Go ahead and get ready for the things they mentioned might happen in the future (e.g. musical, piano compilation, etc.).

Retired Legacy Fan Families

Two longtime fan families (Family C and K) are now retired from full time travel fan life as they prepare to focus on their health and personal plans. Both have said they will be happy to join us again if and when the band adopts residencies. That will allow us all to be in one place and reduce the amount of air travel. Flying from city to city does wear on the body and wallet so we completely understand. Meantime, we are happy some are going to attend 1 or 2 shows close to their primary residences and we know they will have an amazing time.

The VIP Soundcheck Package – It’s worth every dime!

For those who are doing all they can to make sure they go to The Tipping Point Part II, please read your ticket information. There are several types of tickets. Some have told us they have not purchased their tickets yet. When you do, we suggest you buy your tickets directly through the links on the band page because it leads you directly to the VIP Soundcheck options. When you select VIP soundcheck (usually around $450 before taxes and fees), you will see everything that comes with that package. Premium and Hot ticket packages are also available, but they do not include soundcheck. Premium seats are sold by the venue and offer a splendid view but they do not include gifts from the band. Hot tickets have gift bags filled with incredible Tears for Fears keepsakes. If you purchased a ticket and have now decided you want to do VIP soundcheck, you have options. You can go to the band’s official website, select VIP, and buy it that way in addition to the ticket you already have, or you can contact the VIP team and let them know you need to buy the package after the fact. Right now there is not an “add on” button.

VIP Soundcheck tickets are packages that include an actual concert ticket that allows you entry into soundcheck. The VIP team will contact you a few days before the scheduled show(s) you chose and will give you directions on what to do and where to go. We have already spoken to them, and it will be the same as last year. You arrive early at the VIP check-in table. From there they will lead you to the Soundcheck when it is time. Last year it was ridiculously hot outside as we waited to go into the venues. There is not a large, shaded area to wait at a lot of these venues. Sometimes it rained hard. A few times we hired a car to wait with us so we could sit in the air conditioning until we could be allowed back in the venue. It was THAT hot. It was an added expense but it’s better than having a heat stroke and missing the show. If you are taking a ride share (e.g. Uber, Lyft) to a concert, you have nowhere to go so you have to be creative. Wear a hat or anything you can to keep the sun off your face. You may want to bring an umbrella and in some cases you may want to ensure you can get back to your car after soundcheck because it is in advance of the show, and you will sweat a gallon or two waiting for the reentry. Is it worth it? Yes, the Soundcheck and the show are worth every penny.

*Remember to bring valid ID when you arrive at the VIP Soundcheck check-in table. Just saying your name is not enough to get your package. They cross reference with your ID.

NFTs for 2023? It’s a Virtual Commemorative Ticket…

Andye received a notice. So it looks like yes, you do get them but do not forget to download them once you get the notice that it is available. Do not let them sit in Ticketmaster files. We do not know if those files will expire so it is best that you download and save your ticket to your desktop and a backup drive. They look like the below. You will get one per VIP Ticket but it’s hard to tell if it’s included with all ticket purchases.

Please Say Lauren Will Be on This Tour!

She is! It has been confirmed that Lauren Evans will be on the tour. We do not have permission to say which shows. But she will be there, and we are SUPER THRILLED!!!!

Interviews and Promotions

There are promotions in local newspapers so if you like to keep those check your local newspapers’ online options and see if you can get a paper copy of the tour announcement. Long time fan, Deb of TFF Boston, sent one earlier this season and it is posted on Twitter.

Jamie continues to be applauded for his genius.

Be sure to check out the latest article in Recovery Today.

Record Store Day

Record store day was the 22nd of April this year. We were blessed to get a vinyl of Saturnine Martial and Lunatic. So excited to own this incredible piece of work featuring the band’s B-sides from their earlier work prior to ELAHE and TTP. In many cases, record stores only allowed each customer to buy one or two albums per person. So, being who we are, we got neighbours, relatives, and others to get up at dawn to stand in line with us…in the rain. We got our albums. Shoutout to the person who was able to help get records for everyone (legally of course, these aren’t bootlegs)! You know who you are!

The Band’s Family

Let us begin with the eldest son, young Mr. Orzabal and his amazing art…

He continues to impress with amazing pieces that are just phenomenal to stare at for hours. The artwork is so intricate that it is hard to look away. You just want to dive into the photo and walk around its nooks and crannies. The best part is he does sell art. You can buy prints of his work from his website and get them framed for your home.

Quarterboy (Pascal Orzabal)

Now Pascal Orzabal has five incredible singles out and they stay on loop in our world. His voice is just everything! You can support his music by purchasing a track from Bandcamp, Songs begin at .99cents US but you can pay whatever you want. Drop some dough on those beats guys. He is making a name for himself independent of his father. You gotta respect that. He recently posted that in addition to the five songs, he will be releasing even more music soon.

Graduation for the Girls

Curt recently posted that he was at one of his daughters’ graduations. We know both girls are in University but given that Darling Angel Diva is a hair older than Sweet Lady Wilder, we are guessing it was Diva who graduated. Either way, we are excited that his children are doing so well with their talents. We hope we get another t-shirt for a show from Wilder and more music from Diva! They are both so gracious to share their lives with everyone online!

Fan Family

DJ Rudh Transmission Anniversary Party

So, this past April, long time fan, Lady Tamara was able to go to DJ Rudh’s party and meet the man himself. Transmission is an incredible broadcast that features some of the best music ever released on this planet. The team behind it are big fans of Tears for Fears. During the event, the entire crowd got into it and sang their hearts out. Thank you Lady Tam for capturing the moment!

The Podcast

There is a podcast called History from the Big Chair – a play on the title of the 1985 SFTBC album title. The podcast is hosted by two fans – one who is a second-generation fan in that his parents are fans and he has been listening to the music since conception. He talks about that in some of the episodes. The other host seems to be his girlfriend and she stumbled upon Tears for Fears just before 2020. Their podcast is filled from start to finish with their opinions on various songs, albums, and videos. While there are a few awesome facts shared in most of the episodes, it’s mostly their opinion as self-described “youngsters” who like the band. The Instagram account associated with it is a bit different. It has a lot of great fact posts and highlights every week. The duo is working to make the podcast a very professional broadcast and we look forward to hearing what they do in the future. Always nice to have Generation Z onboard with classic music that is timeless. We wish them the best!

Puppy that Plays the Tipping Point

Krista in Florida is having fun with her new digital dog. It is the cutest puppy that plays Tears for Fears everywhere it goes. It follows her around the house playing all the Tears for Fears songs. We love it and we want one! What an excellent pet!

Tears for Fears Dolls and Action Figures

The Dolls are back! Lady Richards has the doll versions of Roland and Curt ready to roll for TTP2! You can follow their adventures in the fan forum, and we will aim to share them on various platforms so everyone can enjoy the fun. They are super cute and even some of the band members thought they were nice.

Beware of Fake Accounts

There are several bands that have been affected by the fake accounts. The accounts ask for money, they will send you a video of the band and make it seem like they are trying to speak to you but lost connection when it was actually an upload of the band during live interviews. Curt nor Roland are going to solicit anyone to buy gift cards for them or ask for cash. The sad part is these scam artists know how bad fans want to speak to the band and these fans keep conversations with these accounts thinking maybe they have been singled out for a conversation. Please know that is not how this all works. The band does not have a live a chat nor do they single out fans for money. Be aware. Curt has already announced that he will let everyone know if changes his communication method.

Look for the shirts!

Tears for Fears Fan Forum fans are headed out to the shows. This includes the Travel Fans, and many will be in dark blue shirts with the beautiful sun design. You cannot miss them! Be sure to connect in advance on the Travel Fan page or the Forum to hangout. We created meetup invites for every show last year. This year we will post one large invite, and you can note which city you are going to be in if you would like. It is not required to sign up for a show and meetup. If you would like to have a warm family night with your relatives, go ahead. If you would like to go to dinner in advance and have a cocktail you can note that in the invite and all in attendance can meet up with you there. We are giving away a $200 Amazon gift card to the person that posts the best group photo featuring themselves and the Tears for Fears fans together at a show in the invite’s comments section. You can take it in front of the venue, or you can take it at dinner before the show. The photo must feature Tears for Fears merch or identifiers. Winners will be announced AFTER the Huntington Beach show on the 18th of November. Just in time for gift giving season!

ROCKUMEMORIES

Again, our mini documentary of travelling alongside the band for the Tipping Point tour is now ready for view. We will be posting a few more videos and fun moments from fan life before sharing with a wider audience. For now, you get first glance. We hope you will feel inspired to put the joy of Tears for Fears’ music in your life. Follow that band!

SEE YOU AT THE SHOWS! Thanks for reading!

Throughout the tour be sure to follow @tearsforfears and @curtsmith on Twitter and Facebook, @tearsforfearsmusic on IG.

For travel fan tips, @papasfans

Going Into Q1 with Gratitude for Tears for Fears

Dedicated to The Curry Family and David Bowie’s team of musicians and friends

This week is a memorial honouring David Bowie. Hardcore fans of Tears for Fears understand why that is important to us. Many of those fans are ones who keep Ashes to Ashes, a song the band covered some years ago originally written by David Bowie, on repeat. It’s one of the best parts of Saturnine Martial & Lunatic. Over time, we’ve come to find Bowie fans at concerts, interacting with us online and virtually swaying alongside us during the recent memorial shows. One of those great musicians interacting is icon Kitten Kuroi, who is coincidentally a friend of the award-winning Lady Lauren Evans, Tears for Fears’ most recent band family singer. Kuroi was featured in the 2022 Bowie celebration curated by the honourable Mike Garson. Bowie teams make up one of the many beautiful mosaic roots of our fandom. They are strong foundations that have influenced us, bringing unity to our team in our quest to collectively and respectfully promote and celebrate the work of amazing musicians. Huge thanks to each of them for the ongoing interactions and online friendships.

We’re also grateful for Jack and Dawn Curry who went above and beyond to ensure that fans actually made it to shows in 2022.They helped ensure each one had spectacular seats. When we looked at our meticulous archives and documents, we saw that collectively, the travel fan team mod and in-kind supporters Jack and Momma D, purchased well over 32 VIP ticket packages for fans. They assisted with travel expenses, accommodations, dinners and hosted several warm gatherings throughout the tour. The comfort and ease of the 2022 tour season was due to these aforementioned contributors and their efforts will not be forgotten.

The list of really cool moments in 2022 is long and some of the favourites that we’ve seen include not just concert moments but extra special experiences that happened between shows. Given that we already have documented highlights through last October, let’s focus on the fun from Q4.

Curt Was Healed!

If Curt’s ribs breaking wasn’t the scariest thing that happened all year, we don’t know what was. Curt gave details of his injury during an interview on the BBC one morning. Learning that his injuries originated on the tour bus where he was literally sent flying after a false stop, was devastating to hear. The fact that he even tried to sally forth and keep going despite being in pain was a sacrifice we’re glad he discontinued. The wait and worry was fairly intense o\n the fan forum and in numerous Tears for Fears dedicated groups on Facebook (which now equal over 45 individual ones…). We’re so happy that this is behind us and that he was able to go to the UK and Europe to participate in additional interviews and appearances including the Deutsch Press awards as discussed in the previous update.

Holiday Song

Nearly every year Curt has released a holiday song. This year we got something quite special during Hanukkah. As mentioned in a previous post, Mad World has been used by at least two synagogues in the states during Shabbat service. Most recently, it was featured at IKAR LA, where well-known artist, Hillel Tigay, is the Chazan/Cantor and music director. The video of their Havdalah service featured the song and Curt loved it. He was invited to join them and did so on the 16th of December for Kabbalat Shabbat. For many observant Jews in the fan team, this was extra special and several noted that the occasion officially solidifies Tears for Fears’ music as a perfect accompaniment to prayers. Andye is contemplating writing a book about how much the band’s music has been important in spiritual journeys and healing for so many fans. But let’s let her get through the mini-documentary first.

The Mini-Doc

So, we took every photo given to us, those we collected and captured on tour plus videos and sandwiched them all together in chronological order. We have nearly an hour of photo slides so far if not more. It’s a lot. Next steps include a lot of fonting and finding licensed music to add to it. We had hoped to have it sent out by the 28th of December, but the task is huge and there are just a few people that actually have the time to maneuver through the technicalities of the project. We do not have an ETA on the completion, but it’s been a lot of fun going through all the memories from every show during the 2022 tour season. We’ll be sure to start sharing more BTS photos on Facebook and Instagram.

The World Cup

At the start of the quarter, we learned that the band would be featured in the Budweiser Beer sponsored World Cup Song collaboration with Lil’ Baby. It was a surprise song. As with anything Tears for Fears touches, the song was pretty darn cool and had a lot of new listeners and positive reaction videos from some who were completely new to the band. This, in turn, brought new people into the fold. Gen Z was already on board but now there are even more. Is that why it seems the band is more active on TikTok than Twitter now?

New EWTRTW Video

The band released a new version of Everybody Wants to Rule the World. It’s a compilation of clips from the history of the band on the road (looks like clips from a previous documentary). The video has an emphasis on imagery from the ‘Rule the World’ – Greatest Hits album that was released in 2017. However, we’re wondering why this was created when the band already has an EWTRTW video. Perhaps we missed a memo. Either way, it’s awesome and we love it. Nice to see all the concert footage again.

The Mystery Box of Merch (now sold out?)

Just as the year closed, the band’s U.S. store offered a mystery box of merch that includes three items. The box could be purchased by anyone regardless of location it seemed. If anyone had issues ordering it, let us know. But if you’re in the U.K. you should have been able to get a hold of one regardless of it being from the US. store. It was $35 plus shipping and a limited time only offer so no clue when and if such a thing will be available again. We know a few people that have already purchased two. Danny, let us know when it arrives!

The Tipping Point is #1

Classic Pop Magazine released a list of their top favourites for 2022 and yes, agreeably so, The Tipping Point is number one! We were told the band was flattered and thanked the magazine. Let us also say thank you Classic Pop Mag, from a fan perspective, for taking time to recognise that superlative album – very likely their best yet – and that says a lot because we all know they have produced so many hits that are timeless. They have the Midas touch in music! *Thank you, Martin Slade and Danny Cricks, for sharing the photo from the magazine.

About those NFTs

So, the tour packages included an NFT. In the rush and fit of all, we didn’t bother to look at the tax laws around NFTs at the time. So, those of us, as mentioned, who purchased quite a few, in hindsight panicked thinking we were clueless to how much tax we owe on these. However, there is no price tag on the NFTs in the Ticketmaster and LiveNation account. So likely we don’t owe anything. But you’ll want to refer to your tax advisor. From what we can see, one does not owe taxes on the NFTs according to a few tax documents we read.

Band Family & Alumni

Wilder Smith, Curt’s youngest daughter turned a lovely 21 on the 27th of December. Curt also published the URL to her new website. Not sure if she’s taking commissions but we’ll wait it out cause we’ve got some things we’d love to get a quote on and in production for the future.

Little Lady Genevieve (Vivi) Orzabal also had a birthday on the 28th. We wish her a great turn around the sun and lots of love.

Jamie’s daughter Bayley had a birthday on the 20th of December and it’s noteworthy that a lot of longtime fans also had birthdays this month. It was truly a band family and fan birthday extravaganza! Many happy returns to Eileen I, Sheila SheShe, Andye the Moderator and so many more.

Libre Stone sent out a loving note of thanks to fans who supported them this year. That was super sweet!

Supporting singer Lauren’s song “This Could Be” got a lot of air play in December and was trending. Congrats to her on that! Her voice is also featured in New Amsterdam’s Season 2 Episode 6 singing a rendition of “His Eye is on the Sparrow.” It is quite moving! Be sure to check that out on Netflix.

The Smith household got a new puppy named Twiggy. Twiggy looks a lot like sister Ivy Smith and the late Bella Smith of their Vizsla family of dogs reportedly of Hungarian hunter dog descent. That’s admirable. It’s a beautiful dog and Wilder has posted several photos of herself with the sweet new baby. Curt also mentioned sweet Twiggy in his New Year holiday message on the 31st of December.

Oleta Adams wrapped up her 2022 tour in December, but has more shows scheduled for March and April. She’s so loved and sought after, rightly so! Very grateful that many of us got to see her again this past year.

We’ll wrap this up with a shout out to those who took the Tears for Fears Pilgrimage. It does exist. Many fans go to the city of Bath every year and take a photo at several iconic spots including Moles where the band had their first show and brother Shaun Smith did the lighting. They go by Roland’s old home above the pizza parlour and take a walk near Snow Hill. Our lady Tamara got a great extra tour stop this year.  She spent some time with Libre Stone, Radio Bath’s Dave Mason and the fan family stars like Stephen Marshall. Tamara is an amazing Tears for Fears Super Fan and we’re beyond grateful for all of her contributions in 2022!

To say we are grateful for all the amazing things that took place in Tears for Fears’ fan land last year would be an understatement. Despite illness, surgery, treating cancer and dodging Covid, the fan family showed up and showed out! Tears for Fears fans bought a record number of seats at the sold-out show at the Forum in Los Angeles and showed up in droves for every show on the tour…even the ones that got cancelled! Fan family gathered together at local pubs and sang together at nearly every event. Tears for Fears fans are some of THE MOST loyal and dedicated individuals. Let’s keep it going!

Thanks for reading!

TFF Travel Fan Team

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Nights to Remember – Talking About Tears for Fears with Fellow Fans

Mingling with fellow fans and getting their amazing fan stories and experiences helps bring us together. There’s nothing like finding a kindred spirit in Tears for Fears. Today, we focus on three major fans who have been following the band since the start. Enjoy their contributions that we’ve highlighted here in the archives.

A Moment in Maryland, thanks Stephen Marshall

Tears for Fears Making Maryland’s Night – Show with Chuck

Chuck is one of us! After attending a couple of shows he, like many of us, found it difficult to stop thinking about his euphoric experience. He reached out on Twitter to let Curt and we fellow fans know, he could not let that show go. It was etched on his soul. See more…

Cindy “The Concert Chick” at Jones Beach SetList in Video Snippets

Cindy is a loyal soldier of sound. She has attended Tears for Fears concerts faithfully for YEARS! Always energetic, gorgeous and giving her all for the people, Cindy has created a beautiful video playlist of the shows she attends for all bands. A silent Sherlock in her own right, she knows how to find a good seat at a show. She gets in there and brings us a magnificent experience every single time. Her work is an absolute gift. If you miss a show, find out if Cindy went…she is the queen of recreating experience! Enjoy!!

Tour Synopsis from Lady Tamara

Lady Tamara is a logistics Queen. We were up til nearly 3am in the morning nightly during the tour but she was THE FIRST one downstairs in every city, checking in online and connecting with others. If a change to the schedule needed to be made, she was there to assist with solutions. She was there! A true travel fan indeed! She came ready and correct every day! Enjoy her blog!

“I’m downstairs and ready for this show!” – Lady Tam @ 11am ET 12 June, Alpharetta Ga.

TFF Fan Ambassador Stephen and the Lady of Logistics, Lady Tamara!
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Sharon Foxx’ Fan Experience

May 21, 2022

I posted this pic of me in 2020 not too long after lock down. And while looking back, in the light of the toll Covid took on the world. I apologize if my quest seemed trite and insensitive. My goal to experience the band live and hear songs that provided the soundtrack to my life, was very high on my to do list. 

I made the decision to buy my ticket for the tour immediately after it was announced. I put the call out to friends and family and told them I would not wait for people to decide if they were going with me. My cousin Rey heeded the call in time to get his ticket and join me.

Day of the concert

MAY 21, 2022

I could say I’ve been waiting for this date since March of 2020. But I’ve actually been waiting since February 25, 1985. Happy the tour was making its way to my hometown of Cleveland. Blossom Music Center is actually a lovely lush outdoor venue outside of Cleveland. It was the second stop on the tour. As Rey and I made our way to Blossom, the heavens opened up and poured down rain, torrential, monsoon rain! We arrived and waited it out in the car, like quite a few other fans did. We made what seemed like the five mile walk from the parking lot to the venue. We took our seats and the anticipation continued.

After an incredible set by Garbage fronted by the great Shirley Mason and before the roadies set the stage for TFF, I introduced myself to the two guys in front of me. I humbly apologized in advance and told them that I would be clapping, dancing, cheering, whistling, possibly crying and definitely singing at the top of my lungs for at least the next 90 minutes or so. They both laughed and said, “Go for it!” House lights down and the band took the stage, Curt, Roland, Jamie, Charlton, Carina, and Doug.

The opening acoustic strains of “No Small Thing” filled the venue, the rain continued but, we were off! My personal highlights from “The Tipping Point” album were the rockin, “My Demons”, the soothing calm of “Rivers Of Mercy” and the fabulous “Long, Long, Long, Time”. “Pale Shelter” “Head Over Heels/Broken” were well worth the wait, BUT…“Bad Man’s Song” was absolutely incredible and is in my top 10 TFF songs. I could hardly contain myself!

My second concert was at Pine Knob in Michigan. My friend Rita and I decided to pack snacks, turn on some great music and take the three hour trip from Cleveland to Michigan. It was incredibly hot as about 30 of us with VIP access, got our swag and waited to enter for sound check. I sat in the first row about seven seats to Roland’s right. They went through usual sound check procedures. Curt and the Sound man discussed levels for I think, “Long, Long, Long, Time” Roland briefly joked about the heat, which was sweltering. They both took time to say hello and acknowledge us, but the focus of course was making sure, the front of house was ready for the show. 

We were introduced to the beautiful Lauren Evans who filled in for the amazing Carina. Where Carina’s voice is soothing like a cool gentle breeze, Lauren’s tugs at your heart while holding you in the palm of her hand with range and passion. She smiled and waved at me.

Again the concert was fabulous. I had great seats to Charlton’s left. He frequently came to the edge of the stage and played to the crowd. The kicker for all of us on that side, is when Curt made his way came over and several lines of EWTRTW! Yea baby!

The Pine Knob show took place well over four months ago. It’s taken me this long to process the visuals, the lights, the relentless pouring rain, the heat, the sweat, the music, the VIP experience, the meeting up of folks from the fan page, from both shows. It was all very surreal. Now when I listen to “Bad Man’s Song” and “Woman In Chains” from my favorite TFF album, “The Seeds of Love”, I still can’t believe I heard those songs live…just incredible! 

Seeing Curt and Roland enjoying performing live again and smiling at each other was really great. It seemed a very genuine love of both the music and each other. They were having big fun just like we were!

Like everyone else I was totally bummed to hear about Curt’s accident and the tour having to be postponed. Nothing can take precedence over the heath and well being of the band members. My heart goes out to all of those who traveled, sacrificed, saved up, bought tickets and made plans. I sent up a heart for those who said either due to finances, personal or other reasons they just weren’t able to see the show. I did understand I was fortunate to see not one but two. To those who moderate pages and went above and beyond to connect, get tour info out, and help is commune with others who love the band, Andye, Darren and Danny, thank you. All those who I met for the first time at both shows..too many to mention, most of you we are in pics together LOL, especially those who traveled across the pond. Those whom I’ve made close friendships with, that have gone beyond the fan groups. You all ROCK!

The music of Tears For Fears is a great example of how great music can cross cultural boundaries and connect people all over the world. I purposely haven’t listened to the three bonus tracks. Let it all evolve, Secret location and Shame(Cry Heaven), for two reasons; one, I missed out purchasing TTP special edition, and two, I’ll give those a listen when I return to earth and need “new” music from Roland and Curt!

Though as unfortunate as it was, the seemly negative childhood experiences of Curt and Roland pushed them to delve into their creative mind and compose thought provoking, melodic, personal music that we the fans, are the beneficiaries of.

With that I say thank you…

More to come! Be sure to follow the band – @tearsforfears on Twitter @tearsforfearsmusic on Instagram!

UK leg of the tour begins in just a few hours! Additional tickets are available for some shows.

-Tears for Fears Travel Fan Team

Tears for Fears Touching Hearts in Texas

Dedicated to Keanu and all the kids at the shows! May your light shine and your dreams take you to all the great stages of the world!

Keanu and his Dad “Bblaze” – long time Tears for Fears fan driving nationwide from show to show!

Despite the devastating news of the day, Tears for Fears stepped in as a comfort in Dallas. The band lit up the night along with the accompanying thunder and rain in the region. Fans flew in early, many knowing that the night might be sullied by torrential rain. VIP Soundcheck went unscathed but the wind and the rain made it impossible for concert attendees to stay on the lawn. The venue ushered in as many as they could to a safer area of the venue so they could watch…however, it has come to our attention that some were turned away and told they can get a refund.

Earlier, a fan noted that her assistant had sent a photo of a sign noting that the lawn seats were likely a no-go. If you have not gotten your refund or need assistance let us know. Happy to research that for you and perhaps connect you with others in the same situation. That is painful and unfortunate as we know many brought their kids in hopes of a family night out to watch the band live and in person. Don’t lose hope, Texas has been on the tour list for several tours. They’ll likely return and, of course, there’s the TFF travel fan team to help you get to the next concert destination should you like to try and see them this year!

The crowd was incredible! From the start, Tears for Fears Travel fans like, Bblaze and his son Keanu were present as were two other ROCSaTears, Becky and Carolyn. They were there for soundcheck and Roland noticed some of the Libre Stone shirts it the audience. He also seemed to light up at the familiar faces, recognizing fans he had seen many times, flying out to support the show. Soon after, fans began sending in photos of themselves with other fans, the fan family reunion was in full swing. Shoutout to the lady who came to the Winstar show in 2014. She and her husband made it to this one as well!

The effervescent energy of this show has shocked so many. One of the first things several fans have noted is how energetic Roland and Curt are on stage. They mentioned time and time again how animated everyone is and the entire concert is absolutely electric with euphoria. There were some solemn but soulful moments, such as when ‘Suffer the Children,’ was sung. Carina Round gave it her all as the majority of the room stood standing very still ensconced with her voice and perhaps out of respect for the lives lost that day. ‘Mad World’ was particularly precious and Curt tweeted about it after the show.

“That concert was the biggest therapy session I have ever seen,” noted Bblaze who has been driving nationwide to shows for more than decade. Others spoke up about how they felt healed and one lady said she was so touched, she walked home in the rain. Tears for Fears will do that to you. They always have music that suits the times…at the right time.

The next day fans travelled to a suburb just outside Houston called Sugar Land, Texas. This is the former home of one of the Travel Fan admin’s uncle, who introduced her to their music as a toddler. Shoutout to the late Uncle Hurley. This is especially important because there were MANY kids there with their parents getting to hear Tears for Fears live for the first time. These kids are likely to go on to take their kids to shows. They may even be front row for Diva Smith and Pascal Orzabal, who knows! Kudos to all the parents who had their mini-mes right beside them singing and dancing along. What a blessing to be able to share Tears for Fears music with the next generation. How exciting is that?!

The excitement at this show was from start to finish – from the time the fans arrived to the finale. Big props to Jamie Wollam for coming out in the lobby. The Curry Family and Tania M. were able to grab a photo with him. Jamie also went above and beyond as he always does. Very grateful for him and we appreciate him infinitely.

Soundcheck was superbly solid. The Houston show also gave fans a perk. Tears for Fears debuted the music video for ‘My Demons.’ Danny C., admin for a Tears for Fears fan groups online, marveled at it. He and others are super excited about its release…and what a treat to be able to see it first before anyone else.

My Demons Previewed in Houston

Fans noted that this specific show was filled with fans who had been supporting the band’s music since The Hurting. They were very much into the hits as shown on Marshall, of TFF UK’s video of ‘Head over Heels.” Fans sang that song with so much passion and rocked out to the “Broken” version ending as we all are known to do. That ending alone should land the band a spot in the Rock n’ Roll Hall of Fame.

Accoutrements

As mentioned, multiple times, one of the best things about these shows are the segues between the opening act and the commentary by Roland and Curt during the show. It has been verified that the music everyone is hearing are covers of the band’s songs during the segue. The songs were reproduced by a young man that Roland discussed during an interview. He goes by Brothertiger. In particular, he covered Songs from the Big Chair in its entirety – including the infamous line in ‘Listen’ that was deciphered during a BBC Song documentary on the band some years ago. There are three versions of the line, “Wrap me up a tikka chicken take-away” and “Cumpleanos chica, no hay cuperse.” The line is neither. It’s actually Swahili and …well, it does have to do with a chicken. Please be sure to watch that documentary for the correct line or find one of the travel fans, who may be wearing the slogan on a t-shirt.

The commentary from Roland was particularly funny – he’s been telling a lockdown joke that has left the crowd giggling and in stitches lol. We live for those moments. He could do a 30 min joke set before the show and we’d pay for that too.

Videos, photos and more trickled in slowly after this show. Fans were up bright and early the next morning loading tons to the fan generated TFF groups on Facebook and loading multiple videos and clips from the show to Instagram. Exhausted but happy, the Travel Fans are headed to the next show in Phoenix…many are already there. Let’s see what happens tonight!

Many thanks to Mr. Curry for the photos. Huge thanks to everyone who called and participated in the post-show discussions and superfan sessions. We had a lot of fun despite lack of sleep! Safe Travels!

-Tears for Fears Travel Fan Team

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